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k well, every guy i go out with i really like him and what ever, well, i have this issue, ive gone out with most of them for at least a month, and every time they ask me to do something with them, or hang out, or come to their house, i always make up a lame freaking excuse, i hate it, the one guy im going out with right now, i like him so much, i seriously think im in love with him this is our second time going out, and he always askes me to go to his house, and i always make up an excuse, i guess im afraid of whats he gunnah think about me, because i mean, im not pretty. at least not to me. i mean i have random people come up to me and theyll be like awe your so gorgeous, i dont think i am, im really self concious because i have ache. like so freaking self concious about it. can anyone help me like.. figure out why im self concious, i mean i wannah figure out why i keep doing this, i wannah spend time with my boyfriend so bad, but i keep stopping myself.
=/ anyone thinks they can help me?
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♥ just go and stick it..suck it up..just be fun..dont just like sit there and stare at him..but dont do anything that you dont feel comfortable with just explain to him that you dont feel comfortable..and if he gets pissed..thats a sign of a bad temper..or that hes using you..but i recommend you kiss him..cuz yall go out so you have to do SOMETHING!!
xOxO--Janee`
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listen ...random people dont go up to ugly people and tell them they are gorgous. If you have random people telling you your pretty, then you musst be pretty.
and hey at least you can get b oyfriends! i have been single for way too long! these guys go out with you for a reason.they like you!
what you need to do is boost your self-esteem..think of positive things you have to offer..think about how you get these boyfriends while a lot of people out there (like me lol) have been single for a long time. i googled up some websites on improving self-esteem..if you would like some more websites go to google.com and search for "boosting self-esteem" or something along those lines.
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i hope i helped you a little bit?
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you should always put yourself down. there gotta be a reason why your boyfriend is goin out with you. If Its not beauty, its something you have that he must like. Just let yourself loose, the first time you chill with him,u are not going to feel this way anymore.
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if you have a boyfriend, and he wants to spend time with you, he should like you for you. That's why he either a: asked you out, and you said yes, or b: he said yes he'd go out w/ you. Being self consious is something every girl goes through at one point whether the girl admits it or not. I know I am. But don't let that stop you from hanging out w/ him. I hope I helped, you go get your boy! hehe Good luck!
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im self concious too, well, im not as bad as i used to be.
i just learned to except myself for who i am, and someone will love me for me.
use cleansing stuff to help clear up your face
i dont know why you are embarrased though to be with your boyfriend because of it, he things your beautiful the way you are, and he just wants to be with you! =]
maybe exercising will help you to gain confidence in yourself
im sure your a beautiful person, with a great personality, and this will pass.
explain to your boyfriend whats going on with you, he'll understand and will do a better job at helping you than some of us will ♥
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well i think your nervous about whats gonna happen if you go there. like what hes gonna wanna do with you and ur gonna be afraid to say no. i dont know if thats the reason why u dont wanna go there but i think it is. i hope i helped you =]
xo beckii
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