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when crews split...
i have a group of good friends. this is the 3rd time that me and my friend were left out of a sleepover. we havent been invited to one. we seem to all be very close but it puzzles me how its the same girls having sleepovers while me and her are left out. is this shady to you? what should we do? is this messed up..am i overreacting..should we just accept that somee people in the 'crew' will be closer to some than others? any feedback and/or personal experiences is appreciated
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Hi sweetie,
No you're not overreacting at all. If everyone is close in the "crew", there is no reason you two are always left out. If some people are in closer in the crew, then how come you and your friend are always left out? I'm sorry but I really don't think that your "crew" is being all that fair to you guys. Yea it is very messed up. Start talking to more people than just them, or why don't you two start hanging out more and leave the rest of them out. Maybe then they'll get the picture. I hope I helped you in some way hunny! x3
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honestly... find a new group of friends... if people are leaving you out... get over it and move on... don't try to hold on to something that isn't worth holding on to...
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Your group of friends are not friends at all. They dont care how they make you feel when they dont invite you to the sleep over. Its not even about the sleep over, its about respect. If they cant be good friends and ask if you wanna go to the sleep over, theyre not friends at all. Theyre just trying to put you down to make them feel better, and its no point of even wasting your time anymore...Hope I helped
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well I think that they are closer, but you shouldn't let that upset you. You and this other girl should try to get a little closer with the others. Maybe try having a sleepover at your house with all of them and maybe they'll like you there and invite you. Then have the other girl "rejected" do the same thing. If you want. And no, your not overreacting, its normal to feel like a 3rd wheel at times. Hope it helped
xoxJessxox
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i think you should ask them why they arent inviting you two. It is a little shady, but its fairly common among groups of 4 or more. hope i helped! nellie x0x
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i think you should ask them why they be having sleepovers and leaving you two out. and if that doesnt work if i were you id have my own sleepover and not invite them
xo becca
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I think that maybe you should have a sleepover and invite them and then ask them why they dont invite you guys to trheir house. Some parents only let them have a certain amount of people at their house but if you have a sleepover then you will be able to show them that you guys are worth being invited too.
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Yes, this tends to happen a lot. Some people will just naturally be closer than others, especially if the group is big. I've had times where I wasn't invited to places, and every Friday night I have a few people over (and our whole group isn't always invited). So yeah, it is natural. The only reason why this would be shady is if they -never- invite you anywhere and/or if you get a bad vibe from them, like they are planning something out.
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that is pretty shady. don't worry though, you have your other friend that will probably be there for you & not turn into them. i think you both should confront them about it. maybe that don't realize that it bothers you. if you guys explain that you're wondering why they leave you both out've things, maybe they'll explain what's going on. either you guys will become closer friends, er realize you don't need them anyway. juss talk to them about it.
-hope that helped!♥
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