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we broke up todayy..
okay so i broke up with my boyfriend of 2 and a half months. and i feel sooo bad about it. well hes 18 and im only 15. and i got this feeling that he was getting WAY to attached. so i told him that we should stop seeing eachother. the thing is is that hes gunna be moving to cali next yr and i told him that thats why we needed to brake up becuz i didnt want a huge breakup then. but in reality i found another guy who is gorgeous and amaazing to me. does this make me a horrible person?! please help.
thanks. :]
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You did exactly what you should be doing. You will feel about it for a while, but teens should be dating more than just one person. The right guy might get away while you're staying with someone else just to spare their feelings. You did good. :)
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No, that doesn't make you a bad person at all. The purpose of your lie was to help out his feelings, so it's a good lie, I guess you could call it :].
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No, it doesn't make you a horrible person. You can't control who you like. You probably just feel bad because you lied to your boyfriend about why you were breaking up with him. You should have told him the truth, and you still can.
::Jasmine::
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Well you are young and you gotta do your thing, you gotta experience your stuff...What I would say is that you make your choices and you stick with them. Ok let me break it down for you... You should date people because you are really feeling them, and because there is something there that is deep, anyday that dude's looks could change, or he could go through some trauma or something and become a total ass hole. On the other hand dude is moving and what are you gonna do with that...so either way you know it's whatever, cause you can't be with the first home boy anyway. Don't feel bad thoughm, if you wanna try something new then do it. If you aren't ready for love and he is then why keep him holding on...right ? Stay friends with him if you like. It is good to have friends in different states and you can always get a good lay in later on when your are horny hahaha. Ok babe. Make your choices and go with the flow and feel good about it even if it don't go how you think you want it to go ... you never know what goodness will come out of it all.
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you did the right thing so please dont think you are a bad person because you are so not. its better to break off the relationship before it goes any further. it was the best thing you could do. because if you did it any later he would be probably heartbroken. =[ he would miss you even more when he moved to CA. you know long-distant things never work out. as hard as a choice you made, you followed your heart and thats what truely matters. dont feel bad about it....just think what if you did it right when he was ready to move? would you feel bad about it then? maybe so.
you have met a new guy and he sounds good for you so what I would do is to just go for that guy. forget your ex now hes all in the past. it will take some time though. right now you have a new cutie lol. focus on him!! =]
♥ KASSIDY
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