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How do you know if you can make out really well? (link)
If you can tie a cherry stem and undo a starburst wrapper in your mouth. WIthout using your hands! Peace


Hi.
I'm 15 and I've been dating my boyfriend for almost three months now. He lives about 45 minutes away from where I live and its really hard to see him so I'm thinking about breaking up with him. That reason and I don't have the same feelings for him that I did three months ago. The reason I'm seeking advice is because he is in love with me. I'm a nice person and would feel really bad if I broke his heart which I know i will. I'm going to break up with him tonight but I need help on doing so. What do I say and how do I word it as nice as I can? (link)
I'm the same way, and I had known my ex for 2 years and we were "BF & GF" for 6 months and that's not counting all of the time that we spent together doing whatever. And he broke my virginity...So it was hard but i just took him on the couch and said "I can't be your GF anymore, you live to far away and i can't deal with seeing you only like once a week and sometimes noce every 2 weeks, and you are so busy and our lives are going in tow totally different paths" and he was like ok but he was hurt cause he didn't talk to me for about 6 months. Then we ran into eachother hahaha while I was out on a date and he was my bartender hahaha and then we started taking again and now we talk on the phone all the time. SO just keep it real. Peace.


So I am wondering what other people feel like when there in love. I would like to know why they love their boyfriends/husbands. So please help me out here, I feel in love but its hard to descbribe why I love him. (link)
you can't really describe a feeling, it is just something you know. Sometimes we love people that don't love us back, and sometimes you both love eachother. So you just gotta be like, well is he there for me? am i there for him? are we supportive of eachother? do we enjoy eachother's company no matter what? do we give eachother space? do we like similar things? do we listen and communicate and connect sensually? are we connected spiritually? are we there for eachother emotionally? do we feel good around eachother? do we inspire eachother? do we create a way to get through the hard times and make eachother feel better about ourselves? things like that...if most of those are yes then it is most likely love...But you really know in the KISS hahaha that is true! Peace


well im a quiet guy. 15/m by the way. and the other day me and a few freinds drank...a lot. and i got pissed, nd i started to pee on one of the streets, and according to somebody, a really popular girl from school saw me, and told her freind "he's(me) disgusting!!" so yeah, should i be freaking? and what do i do if she tells everyone!? (link)
hahaha i'm sorry...i thought you said you pee'd on someone hahahaha
yeah dude haha screw that when your drunk the world is your play ground, just thank the earth for letting you free your self. And hey people do way sillier things when they are drunk so whatever hahaha people are bored and they like to talk about people cause their lives aren't interesting, so see it as she finds you interesting enough to talk about haha


I really hate rap. My boyfriend loves it. Some of the songs are alright I guess. I'm trying to be more open to it. Any song suggestions for me? (link)
maybe try underground hip hop like wu tang clan common tribe called quest and things like that, but you know if you don't like it you don't like it. I don't like Hardcore rock and if My man liked that i wouldn't listen to it. I don't like a lot of the music the guys i date like and vice versa. So do your thing. He'll accept you for who you are, and you do the same. See if there is something you have in common that you can listen to together


what are some symptoms of depression? (link)
WOW I could give you a ton cause I used to be all up in that. Totally inundated...
Well...there are different levels of depression
There is light depression like oh i'm just sad all the time and I cry and then there is serious depression which is like life sucks and I am a burden to everyone and I want to kill myself.

The lighter one is just like they have a sadness in the eyes, even when they are smiling, they may not want to hang out as much as they used to, they not calling anybody, they listening to sad music all the time, they drawing sad pictures, they read a lot of sad poems all the time, they look at movies that make you wanna cry a lot, they may talk a lot about something that is on their mind or they look like they are thinking a lot but they always tell you it's nothing...that's the whole I don't want to be a bother, there is the lowering grades, sitting alone at lunch time. things like that...
then when you get to that suicidal thing start checking for cuts...cuts, notes, music about suicide, movies about suicide, poems about that stuff, wearing dark clothes all the time and looking dark and all that, sleeping! SLEEPING like excisively is a sure sign of that stuff cause you don't want to be awake cause life is shit when you are sad hahaha but when you are dreaming sometimes it is better. Figiting...things like that...why what's up?


okay so i broke up with my boyfriend of 2 and a half months. and i feel sooo bad about it. well hes 18 and im only 15. and i got this feeling that he was getting WAY to attached. so i told him that we should stop seeing eachother. the thing is is that hes gunna be moving to cali next yr and i told him that thats why we needed to brake up becuz i didnt want a huge breakup then. but in reality i found another guy who is gorgeous and amaazing to me. does this make me a horrible person?! please help.
thanks. :] (link)
Well you are young and you gotta do your thing, you gotta experience your stuff...What I would say is that you make your choices and you stick with them. Ok let me break it down for you... You should date people because you are really feeling them, and because there is something there that is deep, anyday that dude's looks could change, or he could go through some trauma or something and become a total ass hole. On the other hand dude is moving and what are you gonna do with that...so either way you know it's whatever, cause you can't be with the first home boy anyway. Don't feel bad thoughm, if you wanna try something new then do it. If you aren't ready for love and he is then why keep him holding on...right ? Stay friends with him if you like. It is good to have friends in different states and you can always get a good lay in later on when your are horny hahaha. Ok babe. Make your choices and go with the flow and feel good about it even if it don't go how you think you want it to go ... you never know what goodness will come out of it all.


ok, so im 14/f and theres this guy whos gonna ask me out tomorrow. hes my first bf, (gonna be), and how do i say yes??! also, what do we talk about in class, and how do i act?? thanks! (link)
Wow! You gotta be braver. You gotta trust your self chick! You already know he likes you, he's gonna ask you out and you are asking how to say yes? Just say it chick! Just say. Heck YEAH! hahaha WE CAN CHILL! hahaha and you know do what you been doing... you don't have to talk about anything new, if you can't sit in silence with a person and still enjoy them then it isn't a good relationship. A good relationship is someone you can do most everything with, including being silent. Ok babe Peace...




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