So, I never realized this until today, but my world is changing so fast. My best friend doenst go to my school anymore, my worst enemy returned to my school, my other best friend is moving half way across the country, & i feel lik all my other friends and the rest of the world is moving on without me. I've been crying for the last hour because i feel lik the world is moving to fast and im just not ready for it all. I feel lik all of my friends are changing and growing up so im thinkin i should start changing too but the problem is i just dont want to. I'm so confused, please help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? leLovely answered Monday May 21 2007, 10:08 pm: I can guarentee that almost any teenager out there has felt the way you feel right now. I even have. I feel like everybody is changing around me and I'm just staying, but I feel like I should be changing too, but instead it's like I'm being left behind in the dust. The truth is, you can't stop things from changing. Even though you feel like your world's ending, you have to learn to live with it. Sure you can't replace your old best friends, but there are tons of other people out there that you can start to hang out with more. The thing is, you don't have to change if you don't want to. Just be happy and try not to worry so much about things. Everything will fall into place eventually. [ leLovely's advice column | Ask leLovely A Question ]
kassidyy answered Monday May 21 2007, 10:07 pm: sometimes, you just have to hit the pause button on the world and think about yourself and whats really going on inside with you. that has happened to me, im just like WOW i cant beleive that went by so fast until it suddenly became known to me. You need to be in control of your life, and take the PRESENT and be in there rather than the future, or the past. You might realize your focusing on one thing, when your missing out on other things. Have some alone time for you, just you! Take a brisk walk, and let it all out, you will be caught up in the moment again. But now you just need to catch up on what has happened and let all your emotions flow right out of you. Your growing up, and have just realized that. I know to the exact. I'm in high school, and I'm like omg im going to be graduating in a couple of years and I dont want to go because I have missed out on certain stuff in school already. Live in the present! Thats what I have learned the most!!
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Tootsie answered Monday May 21 2007, 9:47 pm: you're going to feel even worse if you keep this pity party up. Just go around acting happy and upbeat, and you will find new friends and your old friends will want to be around you.
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