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Well, I really like this girl. I'm 16 and shes 15. We've been hanging out after school for like 5 months, and I've been trying to ask her out for at least half that time. But everytime I'm about to, I freeze up. I'm pretty sure she likes me back. This is especially annoying for me because I've never had a problem like this before, I've always been perfectly smooth with the ladies. I really like this girl, and I dont want her to get bored and move on. She's been amazing to wait this long for me. What's wrong with me!? (link)
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you should either make a move and that will probably lead to you 2 going out and you will both know it so you wont have to say anything till later on....if that makes sense? anyways obiously she likes you so if you do ask her out then whats the worst she would do...never talk to you again??? no she would do that...if shes your friend she wont be rude or embarass you so theres nothing to worry about.
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I've liked this guy for a couple of months and a few weeks ago I found out that he likes me back. A group of my friends and one of my closest friends friends (Sorry if that's confusing) met up at the mall yesterday, and I found out from my friend that he's bisexual. And I still like him. I just don't know if I would want to go out with him anymore. I don't have anything against people who are bisexual, it's just that I've never dated a guy like that before and I don't If I would want to. Am I being unfair? I'm so confused. What should I do? (link)
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I can tell you what to think.....but how about if he broke up with you to go for a guy? now how would you feel...i dont think its right. but thats just what i think....if you like him then go for it. It all depends on if you care what people think of you, some might think its gross some might not even care. Oh and it would really be wierd if your w/ him and hes flirting w/ boys...i just think you will feel uncomfortable
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I'm in 8th grade and i really like this boy and i think he likes me too but the problem is that he is my best friends ex. I seem to always fall for my best friends crushes and i don't no why i think it's because we only have 30 guys in my grade but i don't no what to do my best friends and i all have the same tastes so what do i do" Because i would hate to be the brat that steals everyones boyfriends (link)
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It depends what your best friend thinks. If shes your best friend then she shouldnt have a problem with it, but if shes not over him and all of you will be hanging out alot...that wouldnt be good. But still this isnt like mean girls...just because your friend already went out with him doesnt mean hes off limits forever. If that was the case then no boys would have gfs. just have fun.
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ok I have this bf thats in a whole different grade then me so I barely ever get to see him and I feel like i dont get to talk to him that much and whenever i give him like a note he never writes back, should I just break up with him??? (link)
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Well relationships are suppose to be fun and like close n stuff. So its pretty much like you 2 arent even together so ya break up with him....you could find someone much better that will talk to you and hang with you.
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what is a reasonable curfew for a responsible sixteen year old? (link)
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i think that the right time would be about 11 on weekends (if your kid is with people...make sure shes not by herself) thats how it is for me but its like 9 or 10 on weekdays
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Okay so today my bf fingered me for the 1st time and i wanna give him a handjob or blowjob but im really shy about that stuff. like i dont know how to start it, i mean i dont just wanna be like 'hey pull down your pants' lol but yea im not sure how to let him know i want to and get it started. Please help (link)
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I would joke around and say smoething like hey i wanna give you a bj or sumthing weird. But them b like jp or watever and say welll that would be a good idea lol. Start kissing him and do exactly like that girl said below....start rubbing the outside of his pants n stuff....i bet hes been wanting that so whats the worst he will do....push you away? no he wouldnt so try it.
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Ok. There probaly is someone with the same problem, but please dont tell me that. Im kind of in a hurry. My bestfriend is a guy. I hang out with him everyday and he even walks me to work everyday. I like him a lot, more than a friend, but I dont know how to tell him that. His best friend, who is also a really good friend of mine, is already aware of it. I am a 16 yr. old girl. The thing is, lets say he does like me back if i tell him. He is 15. I want to try to see if it works out, but I dont want to take the risk of everything being akward and losing him as a friend completely. All my old guy friends that I went out with ended up not staying friends cause things just got too akward. And plus since I am turning 17 soon, it's kind of a big deal for me. I kind of want to keep it a secret until we know its going to work between us. How can I tell him that if he does like me back? And all his friends are all friends of mine. Its hardly ever I get a crush. Basically guys think of me as one of the guys most of the time. And I am a tomboy. I do skateboard, and have a huge habit of spitting. Im afraid hell see me as that and nothing more. I barely hang out with girls and if I do, it usually ends up bad. I dont know why. Can you help me with that to. Please help me with these problems!! (link)
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Ok it seems like a big deal now (the age difference) but it doesnt have to be. Older couples (like in the 20s) always go out with way older poeple or young. it doesnt really matter...as long as he doesnt act immature then you shouldnt worry about the age. Now if it doesnt work out then since all your friends are his friends then you 2 will be putting all your friends in the middle of it. You shouldnt worry about that either cuz if it doesnt work out and all of the friends are hanging out...you 2 will want to talk if your together and not ignore eachother so youll work things out. But it seems like your possitve about him so try it...worry about the problems later(which there porbably wont be big problems anyways)
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how do you get over someone? I mean, it's been amost two months since i've seen him and I miss him so much & we never even went out!!! Sometimes I just think about him and get sad because i miss him so much..
Is this normal?!?! I hate this. It's pathetic! (link)
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Its totally normal..when you like love someone theres no way to stop thinking about them. Ok im the same as you... theres this boy that i am seriously in love with...but hes older and im too young (right now) but you just have to get over that. have you tried to talk to him? Maybe you should try to find him and ask him to hang out so you dont hva eto think about him all the time. I know...i hate the feeling, like you just want them there but you can try to hang with him or even find a better guy...maybe you should try.
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Ok there is this boy that I really dont like,but im goin out wit him. hes very wird but is popular and if i break up wit him alot of people wont like me. I really still like my ex boyfriend though. He is my childhood sweet heart. shoul I go out wit da popular boy or with the boy ive loved since third grade? (link)
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Go back out with your ex, if you like him that much...dont wait til its to late. And who cares if some of the popular guys friends dont like you....you have your friends right? Just worry about that and anyways you shouldnt do that to him(or you)...like go out with him when its horrible for you and it would probably make him upset if he finds out.
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so theres this guy names tony and i really like him and i have had my best friend talk to him and he was thinking about asking me out. well i ended up asking him out and he hasent answered and its been about 4 day. should i ask him again or leave him alone! (link)
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I would ask him out again...if he likes he and wants to talk to you more then he will probably ask you to go to the movies or something.
Then again he might just be shy...why dont you have your friend talk to him and see what hes think, like if he likes you or doesnt or if hes just shy.
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When I go to school I have trouble with people ... I mean I have my friends, but its just sometimes to get-a-long with other people. I don't know what really what to say. I just act "weird" with hugging and some invisable/mime animal petting and stuff or just being random (lol), but I feel that they just don't know me as a person. I'm not sure which person I am: the person who likes to joke around and be random (sometimes I do) or the person whos quiet and always observeing everything or if I'm a mixture or both. I just don't exactly know how to respond to people any more. When seeing random people in the hall to I look at them, keep my eyes to the ground with no eye contact, or what? or when I see someone I don't know, I'm afriad I might be underestemating them. That they will think i'm a freak or them they might or might not understand some consepts I make about life. What to do I do to just get a long with everyone. (link)
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Ok you sound exactly like me.... sometimes im in the happiest craziest mood and other times i just want to be calm and just hang out. My friends know how i am but other people dont always know how you are. Dont ignore the people cuz then they will think you weird so say hi in a happy way...you dont have to keep talking to them....just say hi and walk away. Now if someone does try to start a convo w/ you and its fun and random just go along with it, dont just stare at them and say nothing(itleast laugh) cuz then they will feel dumb.
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Ok here is the thing there is this smoken hot girl on my soccer, she is a year older then though. Ok she shows some intrest on msn coversations im the golie on our team in practise she always comes to shot on me she wants to be the back up golie on our team. She always watchs me when im playing a diffrent position. She helps me up when fall down our something. We both like the same things im intemadadted by her, can you give me some tips on how to turn our freindship into a real relationshipp. (link)
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Just talk to her and ask what shes doing this weekend and see if she wants to hang out. You to will probably get closer if its just you to hanging out with maybe another friend or 2 so you dont feel weird. and if shes always watching you and trying to talk to you then she probably doesnt have that much interest in this other bf that she has.
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Yeah So my Friend Is moveing this following weekend like umm maybe the 17 or something. but anywasy this weekend is gonning to be the last week we get to hang-out like REAL hangout; so i was wondering what we could do? like she dont want to go to the mall &nd i dont want to go to the movies!! &nd i cant think fo anything else.... so yeah &nd i want it to be the funest Weekend ever_x33 &nd if it helps where 14/f &nd where going to hang our friends that are boys that are going to come with it where ever we go there also 14 one 15. so yeah anything you can think og please please let me know :))) (link)
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This probably wont help for you but my best fried just moved a couple months ago far away, so i brought he and my other closest firends to this waterpark in ohio called kalahari(a waterpark). It was the funnest place to be ever and im glad we had so much fun before she left. So i dont know where you live but try to save some money and go like to a waterpark. If thats to much then just have a party and stay up all night. have a movie night or scanvegure hunts are always fun!
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so i know this guy through my brother, (i never met him, but i spoken to him online a couple of times) he gave me his number and i wnat to text him and be like we should hang out but i dont no how to say it...help please (link)
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Ok if he gave you his number then just call him or text but not to much. Just be like hey what are you doing this weekend... and say we should hang and go to the movies or something. Its not like hes gonna be like o your so weird why would you ask me that. He will either say yes or make something up.
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well i'm a teenage girl who is dating this amazing guy again (2nd date this weekend) and well, it's just that i've never really had a real relationship like this before and I'm not sure what i'm doing. After this weekend when I kiss him for the first time on our date, do I wait and see if he calls me? Or should I call him? (he says he'd call me about this weekend but he hasn't yet- even though i was the one who first asked him)
helppp me (link)
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I wouldnt call him...thats just me. Make him come after you...if he doesnt call you(which he probably will) then thats his loss.
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Everytime and Every guy I meet... ends up liking me. It's really annoying. I'm serious like whenever I want to be friends with a guy I just met he starts liking me when I found out the next day my friend just told me that. So how can I have guy friends without them liking me more? (link)
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I have a bunch of guy friends...you can find guys with girlfriends..that always works. Or just pretend you dont know that they like you just hang out. I have this boy that likes me so much and i just try to ignore it and just hang out. Thats pretty much all you can do...
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can you get pregnant if you have sex in a pool?? (link)
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Yes.... it's exactly the same as if your out of water.
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