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I keep freezing up!
Well, I really like this girl. I'm 16 and shes 15. We've been hanging out after school for like 5 months, and I've been trying to ask her out for at least half that time. But everytime I'm about to, I freeze up. I'm pretty sure she likes me back. This is especially annoying for me because I've never had a problem like this before, I've always been perfectly smooth with the ladies. I really like this girl, and I dont want her to get bored and move on. She's been amazing to wait this long for me. What's wrong with me!?
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you should either make a move and that will probably lead to you 2 going out and you will both know it so you wont have to say anything till later on....if that makes sense? anyways obiously she likes you so if you do ask her out then whats the worst she would do...never talk to you again??? no she would do that...if shes your friend she wont be rude or embarass you so theres nothing to worry about.
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She's probably wondering why you haven't made a move yet, and trust me, girls do not like to wait that long! haha
It definately sounds like she likes you a lot if she's been hanging out with you for five months. It's normal to freeze up adn be nervous, but really, once you just spit it out, you'll feel so much better and you know it! If you wait too long, she'll do exactly what you said, get bored and try to move on. So next time you see her, ask her out, or make plans for the summer, or something. hope everything goes well!
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You have a bad case of nerves as silly as it sounds practice in front of a mirror don't expect the worst go for it. Are you worried she may say no? Theres only 2 answers yes or no you'll get one of them and if you have been hanging out this long it will probably be yes so good luck to you.The reason your nervous too could be because you like her so much :-)
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Fear of rejection is normal, but don't let it rule the situation and screw up your chances. Being smooth is easy when you have nothing to lose. Actually caring about some one else makes us vulnerable...something you may not be ready for if it is taking this long to ask her out. You have to ask yourself which of the following is more important to you: 1. Being safe from rejection all your life. 2. Having a life and risking rejection. If this girl is worth something to you, don't lose her over protecting your ego. You will recover from rejection, but lost opportunities and regrets are harder to live with.
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just don't stop when you get to that point in conversation. Take deep breaths beforehand and make sure you are relaxed.
besides, what's the worst thing that could happen? she could say no.
you've got nothing to lose!
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Nothings wrong with you , I had this same problem myself. It's harder to ask someone out especially if you really like them. Here's some tips, Take her out on a date, that way you have time to build up your courage and ask her. You don't have to call it a date, just ask her to go for some icecream or a movie. Second, ask her when the time is right, don't rush it, if she's waited this long, I think she can wait a little longer. Just make sure that moving up to the next level in your relationship is worth your friendship. Just some food for thought. Were with you buddy.:)
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