Don't lie to your parents, if your caught, you may never regain their trust. Here's what you do. Hook up with your friend and go to the mall, get you boy to go to the same mall, don't tell your parents. That way you don't lie, you meet the boy, you shop with your friend, and evreyone's happy. Hope this helps:^)

It is completly normal for people your age to want to love and be loved so badly. I was different as a freshman though, I liked to flirt alot and have no deep personal connections with anyone of the opposite gender. I did this because I was insecure, I thought that I wouldn't be able to handle breaking up with someone, if things didn't work out. Well I'm 17 now and have gone through that huge breakup so I sortof know how you feel. It's very hard, and you become very emotional all the time. But enought about me. Let's tackle this problem together. All freshman want to be loved, as I said, but there's a hidden process on how to do this. This is what I would do in your situation.
1) Search out the territory.
Look around at your surroundings. Example: School, Neighborhood, Local teen hangouts. And look and see where the best place to pick them is. Another example, you don't want to approach a guy surrounded by 5 other guys or girls, try to catch them alone or almost alone. That way they won't get distracted.
2) The Approach
When you approach some random, cute looking, sort of educated guy. The first thing you want to do is small talk. Say something that evreyone thinks about the school, for instance: talk about how much you hate______(fill in the blank with your most hated subject. Or talk about the weather. Say how hot or cold or windy it was that morning. The reason you want to do small talk first is to see if the guy will actually respond to you. If he agrees and says somthing back, always respond. Another example. If you say that it was really windy, and he says yeah, it looked like the trees were going to blow over, then you could say how much you like or dislike stormy, or windy weather.
3) Introduction
Introduce yourself, usually it just takes your name, and saying something like how your a little nervouse about high school. He will most likly respond with a, Yeah me too.(that says that he is a freshman) or if he says (Ahh. It's no big deal after you get used to it.(Then you will know that he is at least older than a freshman) I went out with someone older than me, and I know how hard that can be. Don't worry I'm almost done, sorry this thing is so long, I just want to help you out.
4) Familiarize
Familiarize(put your self around this person) yourself with this person as often as possible, again without the pack of friends, unless they happen to be your friends too. That way the next step will be easier on both of you.
5) Become Friends
First your an aquaintance, then a friend, then a great friend, then a best friend, then possibly a girl friend. Don't worry, if you only get to the great or best friend stage, then you can tell him your problem, and get his input on the situation. Who knows, if he knows your looking, maybe he'll take some serious notice in you.
That is all the advice I have to give on your situation. Trust me I know this was a long letter, but I think that it will help you out in the long run. I hope this situation works out for you. If you have any more concerns, drop me a line. Good Luck.:^)

Take my advice. Im a 17 year old male, and even I know that this guy just seems like bad news. It appears he just really want's to use you, and the reason that he keeps on saying sweet things, is because he knows that one day you'll cave in. NO BOY(OR MAN)SHOULD EVER TREAT A WOMAN THE WAY HE TREATS YOU. It agrivates me a little bit how he smokes weed, casually discusses having sex with you, and messing with your mind, becasue all guys aren't like that. Sure us guys mess up. And I'm not saying he's a total losser either, he seems okay to me, but he doesn't seem right for you. I would NOT talk to him and let him come to me, then I would set up some very distinct boundaries. I think I'm reacting this way, because I have a younger sister, and if any guy treated her the way he treats you, I would have a long,long conversation with him, just to let him know that if he messes with my sister, he's messing with me. You seem like a very lovely person, and you deserve a very good guy. Don't settle for less, because your worth so much more than that. I hope this helps your situation, sorry if I sound like a total anger filled freak, but nobody should treat anybody that way. Good Luck with the situation. :^)

This site popped out at me when I was searching for your request. Hope this helps. Good Luck.:^)

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Hey, I've been looking evreywhere on the net for 25 min. now, and I cannot find a thing. My only advice is to find some clip with an indian person talking on it, and then go for it. Also if your really desperate you can go see a drama teacher at a local college and ask him what the accent should sound like. Since he/she does alot of acting, then they should know their accents pretty well. Hope this helped some. Good Luck.:^)

There is a test that you can take (so I've heard) that can distinguish if you are bipolar or just suffer from depression. There are many types of depression. I also suffer from a sever type of depression. Anyway here's a site that I found that might answer some of your questions. And about your mom, I would go straight up to her and ask her. If she shuts you down, go to a close grown up. Ex. aunt, uncle, grandparent, teacher, best friend's parents. Ask them for help, I'm sure they will offer as much as they can give.

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I'm a 17 year old male, and this is what I would do. I would tell your friend: If you truly love me the way you say you do, then you'll stop treating me this way. Your my best guy friend and I care about you so much, but not enough to the point at wich it hurts me. That's exactly what this relationship is doing to me....After that little dramatic speach, I would set some ground rules with him. He's your best friend, you should be able to tell him how you feel. I know it's going to be hard, maybe even the hardest thing you've ever done, but it's something you have to do. If your truly finished getting hurt by him, then you'll confront him on this issue. Otherwise you might want to get some more band-aids for your heart, because it'll most likly get hurt again. Sorry this isn't the best advice, but it's something I've done, and probably will do again. I hope this helps. Much Luck. :^)

Well although your problem seems imposible to answer, it's not. Here is my advice. I'm a 17 year old male and I live with 3 women, and they are all at different stages in life. One is 15 one is 19 and one is 40. I belive your going through, what I call, the squatty stage. Now don't write me off just yet. I know the title isn't that great, but let me explain. I've noticed that both of my sisters went through this stage a couple of times during puberty. First they squated out, then they grew a little taller, and became more womanly looking than before. Now, we are a white family, so I don't know if this just works for whites or blacks as well. (I;m not being racist at all). Also you might want to try walk/jogging when you get the chance. Eat more fruits instead of sweets. Example: Eat Rice Krispies with strawberries or bananas, instead of Fruity Pebbles. Eat more salads, and watch your salt intake. Thats pretty much all I know about teenage girls body adjustments and dieting. Oh and do situps, lots and lots of situps. There. That's pretty much all the advice that I think will help you. Remember, during puberty, so many things change about our bodies and mentality that it's kinda scary. But stick with it, your doing great. Well, hope this helps. :^)

IF you've grown out of your retainers than, I would schedule an appt. with your orth. IF yoour retainers still fit, put them on. Next morning your teeth will really hurt though. IF you can't fin into your retainers though, your only option that I know of is to see your orth. for an appt.Sorry, I know it's not the best advice, Good Luck.:^)

At first glance this problem seems to have an impossible answer, but don't worry, I'll try to help you as best as I can from a male's point of view.
If I were you I would get to know your crushes friends.That way your crush can familiarize himself with you. When you've gotten to that point of trust with your crushes friend(s), then ask them if of the boy you have a crush on if your crush has any crushes. Make yourself familiar with your crushes friends as well as your crush. That way it won't be a total surprize when he finds out you like him. Also make suttle flirty moves towards your crush, then he may be inturn atracted to you. Be funny, livly, and be interested in anything he says. If you have one on one time with him and you have run out of things to say, get him to talk about himself(Beware though, that convorsation may last for hours)Hope this helps in your crush dilema.:^)

Acting can be one of the most fun, and trying professions. To answer your questions about getting better at singing, dancing, and acting, this is my advice: For your singing(Yes it really does help your career if you can sing) go and seek out your high school choir teacher, or go and apply for singing lessons. I've been singing for all of my high school years, I can help you as much as I can, but only if you ask. Second your dancing, there are many great dancing instructional videos out there, you just have to find the right one, or you could take dancing lessons. And for the acting, that just takes lots and lots of practice. The main thing that people have trouble with their acting is that either they look like their acting (over acting) or they're not acting enough (Lack of developing and getting into character),or again you can find an acting coach. If your just finding out about your passion for acting, take some college drama classes, they're very beneficial. I'll try to help as much as I can, need more help just ask me (Arthane) your questions. Hope this info helps. Good Luck with your career.:)

I have a friend with this problem, and do you know what I told him....
Just be yourself!!!
Just kidding!
Actually the best thing that you can do right now is wait. Wait until the moment is right or wait until she starts sending off vibes that she likes you alot. I know this is definatly not the answer you were looking for to this problem, but I was in your shoes once, evreyone seemed to have a girlfriend but me, but I waited. And the next thing I knew "BAM", there she was. Actually it was kinda funny, first I wanted a gf, then I decided to stay single, and just flirt with girtls, then when I didn't/wasn't looking for a fg. She showed up. Remember also that you are stil very young, and have your whole life to find your perfect someone. Sometimes the best things in life are worth waiting for. So while your waiting...FLIRT. Hope this helps.:)

Well, take it from another person that battle with depression. It's going to be a hard journey, but with help and support, you'll get through it alreight. Right now I'm in the hospital because of my migranses. I initially got really depressed over not only this but, having to have a teacher come and teach me my lessons at my house, and getting fired because of my headaches(migranes). But during this time, I've created an advice columnust page, and I'm writing a book. It takes alot of perserverance, but believe me it heops. Anyway, I hope this helps out your situatuion even a little bit. Good Luck!:)

We.. it sounds like you have a wee bit of , Ill try to help as best possible. One thing to do to get the boy from stop being around you, is by simply ignoring him. You see, when you get angry at him after he picks on you, then hell just continue to it again and again. He does this because he has a crush on you(that’s’ what is sounds like to me) Because the reason why boys pick on girls is because that boy is able to capture the girls attention for the few seconds he actually gets you attention. If you react to him teasing you, or just not leaving you alone, then ignore him, He’ll go away eventually.(At least we hope he does)
How to get him out of your head, well, you can always be prductive. No I’m not talking about cleaning the house, I’m talking about reading a good book, paint, work on doing the splits, threre are thousands of this you can do to keep your mind off of him. And if he still doen’t leave you alone, just simply tell him how you feel. Sometimes being blunt is the easiest way to give someone bad news. Anyway, I hope this helps. Good Luck! :)

17/M

Well in all my oberservations, and experiences they:
1)tease, pick,
2)talk to you a lot, put a lot of their focus on you.(That’s Me!!)
3) Or their just plain mean to the person that they like.
One reason why that boy is teasing you is because you put all of your focus on him for at least 10 seconds. And he will keep on scaring you and scaring you until you give him a negative reaction. Boys that like girls just want the girls to focus on them, that’s why in Jr. High, and the High School Underclassman, act so weird. And as far as point go, All I know is that everyone has them and they will just have to find out with their companions what and were those spots are. Remember never feel pressured into anything that makes you uncomfortable. I hope this helps.:)

As bad as this problem sounds, it's not that hard to fix. It's evident that you two really seem to like each other, but the question is how long will this realationship last. Ask yourself this question: Is me moving my fiendship with this person worth losing because I wanted to move it up to the next level.If I was in your shoes, I would simply tell him that you want to go out with him, just not yet. Deffinatly get to know the guy better before going out again. Some people like finding things out about each other as they go along through the relationship, Me personally, I like to know the person very well, or become very good friends with them before advancinng on in the huge scheme of the relationship. Hope this helps.:)

One great subttle way to flirt is to just talk to people. It sounds like you have a really bad crush for this guy, and it seems that you two would be great for each other. The only advice that I can give you is: Don't rush things,and Is it worth it. If you rush a friendship right into a dating relationship, chances are that it wont work out. Also ask yourself if moving your friendship up to the next level is worth losing your friendship totally. Flirting is always fun because for one its suspensful, and two, there's no commitments made, so nobody gets hurt too badly. As I said a great flirting tool is your mouth. Find out what you two have in common, also if you run out of topics, you can always hit the subject that guys like to talk about the most, and that's themesleves, trust me, we can go on and on on that topic. Well, I hope this helps. Good Luck!:)

When I needed a hug from my girlfriend, I just simply said, I really need a hug right now. And evrey time I said that, I got one. Sometimes being completly strait forward is the best thing you can do in a situation like that. Now if he doen't hug you after you ask for one, or say that you need one, just ask him why not. Yah know, he may not be willing to hug, because he's afraid to jeporadize your already great friendship. Also remember that relationships grow over time, and in time he will be more comfortable talking, or hugging or whatever the situation is. Pertaining to your other problem, When my gf and I ran out of things to say on the phone or in person, we just sat their enjoying the silence. I know it sounds wierd, it wasn't the fact that we enjoyed a stop in the conversation, it was the fact that through the silence, we knew that if we wanted to say anything then one of us would be on the other line waiting to listen. It was the thought of not being alone that made thoes silent moments not awkward. When we were talking in person, say we were talking on a porch swing, and the conversaition went away, then we would just snuggle up next to eachother and enjoy each others presence. If you and your boyfriend get to that part in your relationship, then you'll understand completly what I'm talking about. I hope you make it, and I hoped this helped.:)

Alot of guys get nervouse when they talk to the opposite sex so don't feel like your the only one with this trouble. Pertaining to your first question: Strike up a conversation with her, let her do alot of the talking, listen to her, talk about her, about the latest movie, interesting things about you, how much you like or dislike certain classes or school in general, what you want to be when you grow up, what your summer plans are...There are thousands of possibilites, but the main thing to remember is just be yourself, if your fake and she ends up falling for you, then she's falling for the fake you, see what I'm sayin'. About your second question, I probably wouldn't make a move on a girl you barely know, I think that that might just push her away. Get to know the girl very well, become friends, then close friends, and then let things take care of itself. And when you do make your move, make it someplace romantic(when you two are star gazing or something of that nature, not behind a fast food place next to a dumpster or something.)Another thing to remember is to take it slow, you don't want to kiss the girls face off on the first date or anything. Just let things take their course, and good luck on your party!:)

I found this website, I hope it helps, if it doen't then I'll keep on looking.:)


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