i reallyreally like him
i talk to him everyday
but yesterday was the first day i didnt talk to him
i commented him yeterday and was like hi.. we barley talk anymore=/
cuase the past few days our conversationts would be like dead and i dont know whats going on
hes the type of guy that would get with any girl for action cuase hes always horny like that
and he commented me back saying thats too bad vagina? and im like um no. then hes like penis and im like noo. ill just stop talking and he never commented back
and he does weed so i think he might of been high at the time or it was his friends saying that
i dont know what to do. cusae i realllly wanna talk to him
but i dont know if he feels the same way?
i dont know if i should text him..or just give him space and let him come talk to me?
but im sure if i give him space he will just forget about me and go get with another girl
and im sure everyne reading this is like wow just leave him hes not worth your time
but he is worth my time becuase i want this to last becuase i like him alot.
i texted him today and of course he was kinda baked but whatever i support him with whatever he does
but there is one thing i want you to know.. he told me he liked this girl like before we kinda got flirty and i dont know if he still does but yeah
we got flirty and then one day he told me he loved.. ididnt know if it was a firend way or a liking way so im like i love you too
and we got flirty and like ways where like he would be watching movies with friends and wed be talking and hed be like id rather be watching this movie you or i wanna come cuddle with you or i really wanna kidd you right now
and then everything just went kinda down hill..
and i dont like it at all!
he just commented this girl and was like im horny
and shes like well go do something about it
and hes like well i have a neighbor..
and then hes like i got some from her
these past nights ive been really down and like crying and everything. i hate boys!
but when i texted him im like we barley talk anymore and hes like yeah i know its weird
i dont really like talking to him when hes with his friends and hes online right now and i wanna talk to him but our conversationts have been dead and i dont know what to say and i dont know if hes with his friends or if he blazed right now
but i just want everything to go back to how it used to be..when i was happy!
its summer now and i dont want this to ruin my summer for me
so any advice?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Arthane answered Saturday June 9 2007, 10:43 am: Take my advice. Im a 17 year old male, and even I know that this guy just seems like bad news. It appears he just really want's to use you, and the reason that he keeps on saying sweet things, is because he knows that one day you'll cave in. NO BOY(OR MAN)SHOULD EVER TREAT A WOMAN THE WAY HE TREATS YOU. It agrivates me a little bit how he smokes weed, casually discusses having sex with you, and messing with your mind, becasue all guys aren't like that. Sure us guys mess up. And I'm not saying he's a total losser either, he seems okay to me, but he doesn't seem right for you. I would NOT talk to him and let him come to me, then I would set up some very distinct boundaries. I think I'm reacting this way, because I have a younger sister, and if any guy treated her the way he treats you, I would have a long,long conversation with him, just to let him know that if he messes with my sister, he's messing with me. You seem like a very lovely person, and you deserve a very good guy. Don't settle for less, because your worth so much more than that. I hope this helps your situation, sorry if I sound like a total anger filled freak, but nobody should treat anybody that way. Good Luck with the situation. :^) [ Arthane's advice column | Ask Arthane A Question ]
SxExAxNx answered Saturday June 9 2007, 5:30 am: well after being intrigued in psychology ive read about it. if your BF is on weed then that is playing a large role in this. it has destroyed his emotional feelings and stimulated his physicals ones. if you got with him he may just like what you give him, not like you as a person. i think if you got him to get off the weed you guys would have a much better chance together, and hey it could even save his life some day. also you can just flat out ask him if he still likes you and if he would wanna go out, its much easier to just be blunt, then just beat around the bush for months at a time. and if he says yes, u wont regret it for a second. good luck
peace
Seanx [ SxExAxNx's advice column | Ask SxExAxNx A Question ]
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