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See here goes I wanna ask out this guy lets call him benjamin. For safety sake. I really really like him but we have an amazing friendship I know he likes me but is afraid I dont like him back. I am afraid if we break up it will ruin this friendship. But i believe I am in love with him. Could you tell me how I can ask him out. And if I should do it. Thank you so much. (link)
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He really should ask you out. I'm a guy, and I hate that, but it's true. So give him hints. Touch his shoulder when he makes you laugh. Let him catch you looking at you (DON'T STARE).Laugh at things he says that aren't really as funny as he thinks they are. Really try to let him know how you feel. This will not be easy. Men are idiots. If he's as dumb as me, you could be throwing yourself at him and he won't know. So after that start hinting at a date. Ask him what he's doing this weekend, tell him you're not doing anything. If he still doesn't get it, smack him on the head. With a kiss. Or just ask him if he likes you.
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ive had sex about 15 times and it still hurts when he puts it in and kindof feels good after.
so my question is once it stops hurting will it feel more pleasurable? or will it just feel kindof good still?
and does it not feel that great because my vagina is sore from being stretched after he puts it in or does that have no affect (link)
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You're probably doing it for too long or too often. Twelve to eighteen minutes is how long most women can go without hurting themselves. If he is hurting you, you should tell him you need to slow down, and if he is any kind of man he will respect that.
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Okay so im 15/f, my boyfriend is 16/m. We just started dating and well he hasn't done anything besdies makeout. Ive been fingered and gave hj/bj. He knows that too and wants to do more with me. I think its going to be weird like we makeout alot but do i like have to tell him what to do, im pretty shure he has no idea what hes doing. any way to make this less akward? or shouold i tell him what to do?
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If you think it's going to be awkward, that just means you guys aren't comfortable enough with each other do that stuff yet. Just give it time. Don't do anything that he's not comfortable with, and don't let him do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Don't worry about him having no idea; everyone starts like that. Most importantly, have fun!!!
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she is 14 and i am a guy and im 13. But iv gone through all puberty so im very mature for my age in how I act and look. we went to the same school but shes out already and comes back for her graduation tomarrow. i love her but i really dono if i like her enough to date her. i go to great skate every friday night and she goes whenever she isnt goin to a party or the mall soo she goes to great skate once every 3 weeks. At great skate everyones grinding flirting or making out. she likes these two guys, last time they were in court and didnt show she looked so hurt.both times before that they came and they were like on her or had her or her on them, in their arms :(. they were always hugging her and her friend and they kept pickin her up, they even signed her and they both gave her their numbers. they were so comfortable always flirting or hugging or talking way to close. when i was with her and i tried doin that stuff to her the first time she pushed me away then the second time she cursed me out, she has sat on my lap tho, shes only hugged me goodbye once. shes not a slut or whore she never even really does that to anyone. shes always with guys but just doesnt usually do that. Shes never had a boyfriend either. me and her always talk over myspace. she has gotten mad at me over the phone but we never even talked in school. Shes into all the gothic things, she likes to dye hair she is going to dye mine with purple streaks over thee summer. Im not sure if I really want that but im going over to her house just me and her and I hope we could flirt and cuddle and everything. what could i do? does she like me, she says ima a jerk? how can i be iv had many girlfriends? what do i do? (link)
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She's just a regular teenage girl. They all act like that. First decide if you want to date her or not. If the answer is no, the back off. She's only going to get you in trouble ;). If you decide you do want to date her, tell her how you feel and ask her out. It's that simple. And the longer you draw it out, the less chance she'll say yes.
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Ok, this girl who's in my class is really sweet, and she's been with her boyfriend for about 19 months.
They've had sex a couple of times and she's ok about it.
At a party I saw her boyfriend go off with another girl (my friend was grounded then).
I didn't think much of it until my boyfriend told me 'Why did Sean f*ck Lily??Isn't he with Bella(my friend)??''
A week ago my boyfriend told me that Sean had got Lily pregnant..and the worst thing is that Lily is Bella's cousin!
Should someone tell Bella, since we all know that Sean won't tell her.
I'm worried... (link)
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You should talk to Sean first, or get your boyfriend to talk to him if you're scared, and find out if Sean is planning on telling Bella, and strongly suggest that Sean tell Bella (If you don't tell her, I will.) If he still doesn't tell her, then as her friend, you should.
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what about your vagina or inside of your vagina changes after you've had sex?
my bf also was fingering me the other day and felt like a little ball? then he said it went away. what is that? he said he felt it at first one of the first times he fingered me..idk (link)
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It could have been your G-spot, or perhaps your clitoris... you'll have to be more specific about where it was. Doubt it's anything bad. When you have sex, your hymen breaks.
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so yesterday i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time, he was a virgin i wasnt.. but we went threw 3 condoms and everyone of them broke but as soon as they broke he put a new one on though but still why did they all brake we used one trojan and 2 durex.. ? and he also didnt cum it was so weird.. he kept almost going soft? what was wrong? (link)
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It's normal for a guy to be nervous his first time. Strange things happen, it's nothing to worry about. Make sure he knows he's not doing anything wrong or unusual, and he'll be up to par in no time.
If the condoms kept breaking, you are probably putting them on wrong!!! Read the instructions and follow them! If he goes inside of you with a broken condom, even if he does not ejaculate, you could still get pregnant or spread STDs, so be very careful!
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Lately i've been having really intense cravings for cigarettes but you see i've never smoked. Practically everyone in my family smokes though so i'm always breathing it in ever since i was little. I mean what should i do i mean i've never smoked so its not like i can go on the patch for something i haven't done. I mean is it even possible for me to have these intense cravings for something i haven't done? Or is it just my mind playing tricks on me or something?
Please help cause i think any day now i'm gonna cave and just light one. (link)
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You can't be addicted to cigarettes, there's no nicotine in second-hand smoke. You could be addicted to the smell, but that is just in your head. Don't second-hand smoke if you can help it, and definately don't start smoking for this reason, or else you will find out what real addiction is.
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jamie has been my best friend for the past 4 years. we have another friend gabby who we were pretty close to. gabby always though of it was the 3 of us but we were closer with each other than we were with her. as time went on we got into our share of fights because she felt we excluded her and such. at the beginning of this year about 7 of us including gabby, jamie, and i formed a little group. we were all pretty close. we would have sleep overs almost every weekend and pretty much only hung out with someone from our group or our group of guys we chilled with. pretty soon one person from the group was gone. gabby had never really been considered very pretty but she started hanging out with these weird looking guys who she soon enough brought to be friends with people in the group. me and one of her friends not in the group got into a fight and gabby started randomly excluding me from everything. i feel really betrayed since my best friend is just like letting this happen as well as everyone else. i really dont understand why gabby would not include me though and it bothers me. i dont really know what to do. i have been chilling with other people but i feel pretty hurt. why do you think she could have stopped including me? what should i do? just let me know what you think please. (link)
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Um... she's jealous? Sounds like. Total high school drama, it sucks, I know. Listen, just sit Jamie and Gabby down (seperately) and tell each of them how your feeling. People can't make up until one of them starts talking to the other. If you do that, things'll be back to normal in no time.
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when a guy eats a girl out, what does he do with his tongue? like i know what he does but does it move around the clit or does it go inside the vagina hole? or both? my boyfriend and i want to try this but we aren't 100% sure.
thanks for the help! (link)
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Just try it. It's so easy. Different people like different things. Sounds like you two are comfortable enough with each other that he can just try whatever, and if you don't like it, you can tell him. But, chances are you'll like it, trust me.
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hello, i now know this amazing girl, and i dont know if she likes me and i already gave her a kiss on the cheek but she doesnt seem to understand that i love her... so i was thinking of trying to do it on the mouth, but how do u start on something like that? (link)
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It's pretty easy if you let it come naturally. Get close to her face, then slowly move in closer. If it seems like she doesn't want to kiss you on the lips (moves her head too far back, screams, etc.), stop. Otherwise, just close your eyes and do it. It'd be beter if you were somewhere private. Are you dating her? If not ask her out on a date. Go to a movie or something and do it there.
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i have recently having sex whit my gf from 15 ( i am 13 ) but she has some problems whit my penis, because when i got a boner its going like right to my face and it kinda hurts 4 me , is this normal on my age that your penis aims at ur face??? i dont think so please answer my question!! (link)
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They can point in any direction. If it hurts every time you have sex with her, that a bit unusual. If that keeps happening, see a doctor.
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Could i get pregnant if my bf and I had prtected sex and i have not had my period for a few months?
I am 18 by the way. Im a little over weight. (link)
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Condoms are not full-proof. If you have missed your period for a few months, you either have metopause or are pregnant. See a doctor.
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how do you know what your code is on bluetooth for your cell phone when you're trying to add device? (link)
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You can make it whatever four digit number you want, as long as it is the same for both devices you are connecting. It's like security so you have to agree with someone before you connect by bluetooth.
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You like the theater? (link)
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Yes.
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Hey,
I'm 18/f and live in ontario,canada
My question is; Do you have to go threw with the whole gynochologist test to get birth control? I'm still a virgin and all and i've never had to go to the gynochologist before. Will i ahve to now? (link)
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You definately should start getting regular gyno check ups no matter what. You have no idea how many different kinds of nasty things can be going on down there. Don't feel uncomfortable about it, they're doctors, and EVERYBODY (Well, girls.) has to go see them.
To answer your question, it is possible to get birth control pills from like school nurses and stuff, I think, but the way to go is with a gyno.
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If you have sucked a guys dick for literally two seconds & stopped, how at risk are you for an std?
Does it lower your chances because it wasn't as long?
ALso what if it was just the head and it only touched your mouth (no tounge)
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It's still possible that you could have gotten herpes or something. Um, if it's shorter, it doesn't really lower the chances. I think it might lower the chances because you only used your lips. If you think you might have an STD, GET TESTED!
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so there is this boy i have been talkn to that is great freidns with my best frends boyfriend and the boyfrend told him (dylan) that i am into him which i am and he responded like oh thats cool and hes kinda a shy guy he txts me or ims me every so often to often and at school he will chit chat very little i cant tell if he is into me or not..becasue he is shy and all i like him and i want him to be all cuddlly and flirtyy with out looking like an idiot...how do i get more flirty with him and is he into me
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If he likes to talk to you, he likes you. And if you like him, ask him out. Just do it. "I like you and I like hanging out with you and I want to be your girlfriend." Or, if you're to shy to say that, ask him if he likes you. Then, when he says yes, you can tell him you like him. Cute, huh?
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i have never kissed a guy at all before. please give me the 411 no websites. like what do you do and hooking up what do you do. what do you say and where do you put ur hands.help me
xoxox
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Slow down, don't worry so much. If you're with the right person, it will all come naturally. How do you think the first people figured it out, a website? Just take your time, and if you're with a good guy, he won't care if you start doing it wrong, and you can figure it out together.
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ok so i have this friend who likes my boyfriend and shes trying her hardest to take him from me..ive tried talking to her and ive even talked to him about it. he doesnt like her..he likes me and only me.what should i do?
ashley (link)
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Some friend. You've made sure your boyfriend is aware of the situation, that's good. Now just sit your friend down and tell her he's your boyfriend and you're happy together, and it's really upsetting you that she's doing this. If she keeps doing it, then you'l have to decide between them. If you think she's more important to you (although I don't know why you'd want friends like this), then you'll have to break up with your boyfriend. If you decide he's more important to you, then you'll have to stop being friends with her.
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