she is 14 and i am a guy and im 13. But iv gone through all puberty so im very mature for my age in how I act and look. we went to the same school but shes out already and comes back for her graduation tomarrow. i love her but i really dono if i like her enough to date her. i go to great skate every friday night and she goes whenever she isnt goin to a party or the mall soo she goes to great skate once every 3 weeks. At great skate everyones grinding flirting or making out. she likes these two guys, last time they were in court and didnt show she looked so hurt.both times before that they came and they were like on her or had her or her on them, in their arms :(. they were always hugging her and her friend and they kept pickin her up, they even signed her and they both gave her their numbers. they were so comfortable always flirting or hugging or talking way to close. when i was with her and i tried doin that stuff to her the first time she pushed me away then the second time she cursed me out, she has sat on my lap tho, shes only hugged me goodbye once. shes not a slut or whore she never even really does that to anyone. shes always with guys but just doesnt usually do that. Shes never had a boyfriend either. me and her always talk over myspace. she has gotten mad at me over the phone but we never even talked in school. Shes into all the gothic things, she likes to dye hair she is going to dye mine with purple streaks over thee summer. Im not sure if I really want that but im going over to her house just me and her and I hope we could flirt and cuddle and everything. what could i do? does she like me, she says ima a jerk? how can i be iv had many girlfriends? what do i do?
Additional info, added Tuesday May 27 2008, 10:03 pm: someone told me to just ignore her and that would make her fall for me, i did. at her graduation today i hugged everyone but her that she was with at the moment and when i looked up, her and another guy were like ontop eachother! what the hell! shes still mad because i dumped her best friend over text and saying im a player but iv never done it to her so who cares. she says shes been crushed before and doesnt want to deal with a jerk like me again. im no jerk. when she pushed me away or cursed me out all i did was try adn hold her waist and break a sexband. she says its fine if were friends and maybe more if i ever slow down a bit. but she goes so much faster with OTHER guys. ??? does that help anything. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? luvbug555 answered Monday May 26 2008, 9:34 pm: Alright this is a complete edit.
She goes faster with other guys because she cant trust you because you cheated on her friend & dumped her by text message. It dosent matter that you didnt do it to her, it lets her see what type of guy you are.
But she definately likes you. Keep flirting but dont try anything sexual until she gives you the okay. Show her that you respect her & that she can trust you. [ luvbug555's advice column | Ask luvbug555 A Question ]
JoeA answered Monday May 26 2008, 9:21 pm: She's just a regular teenage girl. They all act like that. First decide if you want to date her or not. If the answer is no, the back off. She's only going to get you in trouble ;). If you decide you do want to date her, tell her how you feel and ask her out. It's that simple. And the longer you draw it out, the less chance she'll say yes. [ JoeA's advice column | Ask JoeA A Question ]
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