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BFFL.. yeah right.


Question Posted Sunday May 11 2008, 6:21 pm

jamie has been my best friend for the past 4 years. we have another friend gabby who we were pretty close to. gabby always though of it was the 3 of us but we were closer with each other than we were with her. as time went on we got into our share of fights because she felt we excluded her and such. at the beginning of this year about 7 of us including gabby, jamie, and i formed a little group. we were all pretty close. we would have sleep overs almost every weekend and pretty much only hung out with someone from our group or our group of guys we chilled with. pretty soon one person from the group was gone. gabby had never really been considered very pretty but she started hanging out with these weird looking guys who she soon enough brought to be friends with people in the group. me and one of her friends not in the group got into a fight and gabby started randomly excluding me from everything. i feel really betrayed since my best friend is just like letting this happen as well as everyone else. i really dont understand why gabby would not include me though and it bothers me. i dont really know what to do. i have been chilling with other people but i feel pretty hurt. why do you think she could have stopped including me? what should i do? just let me know what you think please.

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freetobetina answered Monday May 12 2008, 2:57 pm:
i think shes just getting revenge because you did the same to her, you werent including her in you and jamies stuff so she would bring in friendsz of her own and not include you in their activities. did she exclude jamie too? well maybe you should talk it out with her and tell her that you guys didnt mean to exclude her from stuff.

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JoeA answered Monday May 12 2008, 1:24 am:
Um... she's jealous? Sounds like. Total high school drama, it sucks, I know. Listen, just sit Jamie and Gabby down (seperately) and tell each of them how your feeling. People can't make up until one of them starts talking to the other. If you do that, things'll be back to normal in no time.

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