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My names Tina, and I have been through a lot of bad and good things in my life. While the bad things were occurring, i always wished that it was never happening, but when it was over, i realize that without those bad moments, i would never have been the way i am right now and certain very enjoyable moments would've never been experienced. so remember, people, EVERY bad moment in life is the cause of more than ONE very good one. trust me, i know. ;P

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Does anyone know how to remove this white box at the bottom of my myspace?
i tried googling it,
but i found nothing.


http://i33.tinypic.com/289dhjc.jpg

thankss

try this generator.

http://freecodesource.com/index.php?page=myspacegenerators/hide-sections-generator

just click on watever u wanna hide and click generate code to get da code for it. the codes are really short and they work perfectly without moving any other parts of ur profile.

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I have firefox on my laptop, and I've had it for over a year, maybe two and a half?
Anyways, I love it. I use all the keyboard short cuts, I've customized it, and I love the way it looks.
I absolutely hate Internet Explorer.
It looks ugly, and I can't find anything, it just bothers me.
Recently my dad's been asking me to uninstall FireFox from my laptop.
He says that IE is way better, and FireFox sucks.
It's my laptop, only I use it, so that's one of my arguments, but I can't think of others, I can't just say ''It's better'' because he'll want an explanation on how it's better.

Please someone help me in this situation?
By the way, I don't want any IE supporters telling me to get IE. That's not my question :)

Heyy, i have firefox as well. when i first had my laptop, i had internet explorer, and it really wasnt all that good. it caused viruses and then when a good friend of mine told me about firefox, i downloaded it and there were no more viruses coming. so dats one thing, Internet Explorer can cause viruses. another thing is dat internet explorer doesnt have toolbars, which makes surfing the web convenient. i have also noticed that the pages come up alot faster on firefox. here, i have also searched up on google 13 reasons why firefox is preferably better. heres the link:http://www.flexbeta.net/main/articles.php?action=show&id=32 During an argument, you also have to know the arguments that the other side could come up with. so heres another link i found with someone explaining 7 reasons why IE is better.heres the link: http://www.udolpho.com/weblog/?id=00754 You see, theres only 7 reasons 4 IE and 13 for Firefox!!!! but anyhow, if your dad comes up with one of the seven to support his opinion, you are prepared!!!!

i really hope i helped!! please rate this. i want to know wat you think about this argument i came up with!!!! oh yes, if you need any more help, ill be glad to help you if i can!!!!

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Is there a code you can use or something you can change in settings perhaps so that people can't see when you add a new song or update profile information on Myspace?

i dont know about chanhing it in settings but i dont know a generator for it. just click on the thing u wanna hide and it will give u a short code for it. i have the link, here: http://www.freecodesource.com/index.php?page=myspacegenerators/hide-sections-generator

hope it worksz out!! good luck!!!!!!!! anything with myspace, remember im always glad to help if i can!!

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Does anyone Know like a Good Website or download where you can edit pictures? It Must be free Please, Im sick of the same old boring pics I have on Myspace, Thanks

try photobucket. just make an account by clicking join on the top right hand corner. theres effects, you can resize them, and lotsz of other thingsz. you can also search up images and get the img, html, email or im code, and the direct link of them!!!! but the pics you put on r album is public, so if you dont want people to search them up, DONT put a title!!!

heres the link to make it easier for you:http://photobucket.com/

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Hey does anybody know the code for myspace to hide your comments and friends? Thank YOUU.

this is a generator and if u wanna hide something else as well besides your commentsz and friendsz, go ahead, it worksz really well and the codes are really short. try it.

http://www.freecodesource.com/index.php?page=myspacegenerators/hide-sections-generator

i hope i helped!!! anything else about myspace im glad to help if i know of course.

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I am curious to know what owners of Nokia's N82 think of it. I looked it up online, and saw that the buttons looked rather small. I was wondering if the size of the buttons affected their use? Also is it a relatively easy phone to use?

I would like to buy it as a birthday gift for my husband. He wants a simple, but stylish phone. So I thought this might be a good choice.

Any pros and/or cons about this phone would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks for all your help in advance :)

i agree with the person who answered b4 me. i used to have this phone and it was great. it had the best signal, and i kinda liked how it had small buttons and no it doesnt affect how the phone functionsz at all. hope i helped!

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I think this is a sex question. 13/f (haven't started period yet)

Lately i have been having a really heavy discharge, and i t is slightly orangey, rather than tan. I am currently using Carefree With Cotton Extract Breathable Pantyliners. They aren't extremely thick, but they aren't ultra thin. They are fairly comfortable, and i quite like them, but just recently my discharge is going right through them, and stainging my briefs too. I know that mostly discharge washes out, but that's not really the point. I was just wondering if any one knew of a really good pad? Bearing in mind i wear women's boxers, and they are fairly thin widthed. But i do have a couple pairs of propper pants if need be. Thanks in advance for your help =P

i use always pads and theyre pretty good, it seems like nothing would ever go through them, lol. try them. hope i helped.

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13/f
Ok so there is this boy i like, "jason". I first met him last yr when he came to our skool. We got off to a rough start in our friendship but then this yr. my two of my teachers sat us next to each other. We got along great and now we are pretty much bff's. We always ALWAYS talk in skool. And we text ALL THE TIME! We text every single day for about an hour each day. Im txting him now lol.

Anyway I think he likes me. What do you think?

And do guys think it's weird if i would say something like "we shuld hang out sometime!"? Do they think its stalker-ish?

im sorry, but by the information you provided here, i dont think i can give my opinion if jason likes you or not. it wouldve helped if you explained things he did with you(if there was any) in which he doesnt do any other girls. well, maybe you can just add extra info to your question after, and then maybe i can edit my answer and give you better advice. :)

no, if you guys are friends right at this moment, it wouldnt be weird if you asked him if you guys can hang out sumtime. after all, you guys are just friends RIGHT NOW and if you wouldnt feel weird and you dont make them feel weird asking other friends if they wanted to hang out sumtime, then itll be the same with jason. trust me, not all guys are the same. good luck with that. and keep in mind im always open for any extra advice you may need!

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your clit?
i know its near your vagina but where exactly?

the clit isnt in your vagina, but itsz like the highest part of your vagina. it sticksz out and itsz like a knob thingy. you put ur finger down there and dat knob thing you sticking out a little bit and itsz there. if this didnt help very much, heresz some links dat would help better:

http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0704.html
http://www.ejaculation-under-control.com/where-is-clitoris.html

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My best friend who i used to like lies to me and blows me off half the time. Today during school i asked her to hang out and she told me she had to clean her house. Later on i went to the carnival in town and i see her there. Everytime i look in her direction she hides from me, i look over and she hides behind her friendsor turns around. Why does she do this?

i dont think she likes you very much. she probably is avoiding you and doesnt want to have anything to do with you but she doesnt want to say it because she doesnt want to cause any fights or anything or hurt you, but the thing is, it actually hurts more being confused and not knowing. what you should do is sit her down and tell her to tell you what is going on and y she is avoiding you, since it is making you very confused and hurt. i bet youd rather know what shes actually feeling than not knowing right? hope it works out and keep in mind im always here to answer your questions.

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15/f
This is kind of a long story:
My boyfriend (ben) always used to tell me about how all these girls are all over him, they tell him hes hot and they give him hugs randomly.
He said that one girl tried to give him a lapdance jokingly and thyre always sitting on his lap.
He tells me about all of his friends that are girls and how they are all flirty with him.
I recently asked his friend dave and he said that all the girls think ben is weird and that ben never talks
note: me and him do not go to the same school
He also lies to me alot, but its only to impress me. Hes very shy, so to make it seem that way: he lies to me.
He tells me he fights in these gangs all the time: when he has no friends (or so i hear from dave: who is a very trustworthy person and a good friend of mine)
Dave is Bens only friend, and ben sits all by himself on the bus.
Hes always talking about this girl Victoria who he says he hates, but he continues to bring her up.
Also, im his first girlfriend (Dave told me this and so did my other friend Danny)
But thats not what ben told me.
The number of girlfreinds hes had changes every time he brings it up.
One time he told me hes had five.
Another time seven
Another time twelve
and some of the names were: leslie, jojo, marrissa, nikki, michelle etc ..
and i asked dave about these people and he said that there arent even girls in the school with that name!
Theres always a story about a new girl EVERY week.
I'm not jelous, because i know these are lies.
But he thinks that talking about other girls will impress me, but it only pisses me off.
I know that lying is bad, and that it gets in the way with a relationship: but he is a very shy kid, who just needs a friend, and somebody to be there for him. The kids in school treat him like scum, and i know this by experience.
For example: We were at the movies the other day and he saw some kid from his school.
The kid took a tampon and shoved it in Ben's face saying: MMMMMM, smeelss good doesnt it?
Kids in school tease him because they say hes weird, and doesnt talk.
I just dont know what to do anymore, his school is full of stuck up bitchy && slutty girls, and immature jerky boys. But he acts like everything is wonderful, when i know its not.
Please help me, im totally lost. I feel so bad for him, and i love him so much. And i know he loves me.
He shows it and says it alot, im the only thing he has left and if i break up with him it will only make things worse: so please dont put that as one of your answers becuase i love him and that would be the last thing i ever want to do.
I just need a solution.
Im running out of ideas
thankyou so much!

whered you get the idea that sumone would tell you to break up with him? well, i wouldnt, that would be completely messed up. well, the best thing i suggest you do is to try to talk to him about it and tell him how you dont really care if people think hes weird and you accept him for who he is. tell him it ust makes things worse for him to tell you things thats not true and let him know you want him to be truthful towards you. just talk to him and make sure he knows you dont care what people thinkk about him and that you will still love him either way. i hope i helped. if you have something more specific you wanna ask me, feel free. i am always open and ready for more questions. good luck with your bf and keep me in mind! :D hope everything works out!

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my friends are always so mean to me but the next second nice what should i do?

you should ask your so called "friends" why theyre acting like this. think about it, are they only being nice when they want something from you? this might mean that theyre using you and taking advantage of you. it wouldve helped if you gave more information about during which moments that they were nice and which moments they are not. are they nice most of the time or mean most of the time? since you dont have enough information in your question for me to give you anything more, i highly suggest you talk to them about it. if you want more advice from me and you want to give me more information, im fine with it. besides, i am always glad to help anyone. so if you want more advice from me, PLEASE feel free. hope everything works out. remember, i am always open and ready. :)

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I was drunk that night i text her and when i drink i come out of my shell and speak the truth about my self. so i text my friend letting her know that i still like her but want to get over her. we text for 7 hours about her confused sexuality and me trying to respect myself. but after i ask her "you dont like me more than a friend right?" she relpyed :"not as of now sorry i see you as a sister." what does she mean not as of now? and why she kept texting me after i ask her that question? i had to cut off the texting because i wanted to sleep i text "sorry i bug you i just want to get over you" she reply "its fine, i am okay with it" i hope she is okay that i want to get over her.

we know each other for 7 years, she is a touchy close person to me.
she doesnt want to have a relationship yet she wants to finish college.

i am bi sexual.

when she said "as of now" she meant right now. lol shes texting you after you asked that because she doesnt feel weirded out, which is good. you should be glad that she was pretty cool about it and that she didnt ignore your text messages. she probably is saying the truth about seeing you as a sister, since she was being pretty cool about it. dont worry she is okay with it. wish you luck. if you need any more advice for me, feel free, im always glad to help. so keep me in mind! :)

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My mom and my dad got a divorce when I was two. I haven't talked to him since. I want to know more about him, my origins, my other family, everything. My mom is my best friend, and I can tell her everything, except this. How do I ask her about him? And should I ask her?

if your mom is like your best friend, like you said, and you feel like you can tell her everything, and she has never really turned you down, then you should and be able to tell her a about this. tell her everything you told me. there isnt a way to tell anybody, you just tell them the way you feel is best. since i dont know you, i cant really tell you how to tell her, so just tell her exactly the way that you told me. good luck. im always glad to answer questions, like i was glad to answer yours. so keep in mind im always open 4 more. :) hope i helped.

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Ok so my best friend has been through a lot this year. a little while ago i was pretty much her only friend then i got her reaquanted with her old friend that moved away who was also a very good friend of mine. now the friend that moved away,becca, has this brother that i really like. and she knows that and is cool with me likeing her brother. when i introduced the other girl sarah to all of them she started liking the brother. and she knows that i have liked him for a while. then this other guy came in and his name is john. he liked me and i kinda liked him but i still like the brother a lot more.and so i didnt know what i should do about my friend because i didnt want a boy to mess up a great friendship and i really want my friend to be happy. and i kinda thought that she might back off since she knows that i have liked him. so i decided that i will have john and she can have the brother. and now they are about to become a couple. and honestly im really happy for her but it hurts and i havent been around both of them yet and im scared that i might get jealous or that its just really goin to hurt to where i cant hang out with them. i guess the main thing that i feel is that my best friend came in grabed the guy i like and doesnt realize how that makes me feel. and i have helped her through alot of hard times. i have told her how i feel about him and she says that she will back off if i want her to but what friend would acctually tell her friend to back off. ok well if anybody can acctually understand this please help. sorry its confusing

thats messed up what your friend did to you. she knew you liked him and she didnt know it was wrong? how could she stand to be a couple with the "brother" if she knew you actually knew him? well ,the thing is, its not right. you are being such a good friend to this girl and shes not feeling guilty about this at all? if so, this isnt true friend and you shouldnt have done that for her. i dont think she cares. is she was, she wouldve felt guilty and back off becuse she has to know that you were wanting her to bak off. you did that for her, she would not do that for you. she obviously sees love relationships as a more important thing than friendships.

In response to your feedback:
i didnt mean to say that what you did was wrong, i think itsz too nice in fact. i just mean that your friend should actually consider your feelings. i would talk to her and tell her how you are feeling. Im just saying she obviously knows that you are feeling this way, it would be hard to believe it if she didnt. well, u dont have to end the friendship that is not what im saying. you should probably talk to her about this and make sure that she knows how ur feeling. talk it out with her, and i really hope it works out. :) good luck

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I’m Katy…
Okayyy…so there’s this guy
And I’ve been talking to him..and were friends
And I flirt with him sometimes b/c he’s cute
Well I’ve know him for a good 4 weeks about
And my friend came over one day
Well I was on aim talking to him and everything was good
Till I went to the bathroom
While I was gone
She was talking to him and asking questions
Like what’s your last name…how tall are you
Then she goes are you single?
Then he’s like that’s a lil informal is’nt it
Then she’s like I was just wonderin
Then he’s like yes I am….are you lookin??
Then she’s like oh you know katy is too
And he’s like oo I did’nt know that
(but the way he wrote it i'm not sure if it's like an awkward reply..or if he's intrested)
Then she’s like well know you do
Then he’s like won’t she be mad that you said that
And she’s like yea but don’t tell her
Well I came back and found out
I mad at her for doing that
B/c I’m not fully sure if I like him
But idk what to do
Like I think he’s gonna think I’m weird now…and it’s gonna be awkward but idk
And the next day I sent him a message saying don’t pay attention to her…she doesn’t know what she’s doing
He never replied
So now I’m freaking out and don’t know what to do…

:P your overreacting. he prbabaly didnt get the chance to answerr yet if it hasnt been dat long. it dependsz on how you sent him a message. email...it is possible but if itsz sumthing like im or text then...idk. but you shouldnt be mad at her for it i think she was just trying to help you get him and she was just playing around, lol. so yeah wait a while, he might like you and see how everything turns out. I am always open for questions. good luck with stuff and look on the bright side.

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are hp pavillipn laptops any good?
i was maybe going to get one.
thanks

i am on one right now, and they are not bad, but they do get very hot. That is pretty much the only thing with them though. I am very satisfied with a hp pavillion laptop and its also very fast. It has many programs. I really recommend you getting one. also one of my friends has a hp pavilion laptop and she too is very satisfied with it.

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16/f. i have never fingered myself or any of that kinda stuff. like the furthest ive gone is makeout and being felt up. like i get the urge and stuff when im with hot guys, and they make me go crazy! haha but i never really feel the need to alone. like all my friends do..even the ones who havent gone as far as me. when we talk about it there like you never do wow how weird! but i just dont need to haha. plus i think it might hurt..does it just feel like putting a tampon in kinda lol? i do get aroused with guys though =P is that extremely weird that i dont have the need to? should i like try or what..cuz it just seems weird that everyone does but me! thanks!

u see, not everybody masturbates, even if it does feel good to lots of people who do it. actually, some people have never masturbated for their whole life but they are normal. Well, it's your choice whether you want to try it or not. and fingering doesnt hurt if you just do it with one finger, but it might hurt with two. to be honest, if you dont feel the need to, you probably shouldnt. dont let peer pressure affect you!

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almost every person i see riding a bicycle has their left pant/jeans/sweatpant (as opposed to pants since i am talking about one side... lol) rolled up.... why is that?

i think it might be because u might get your pants stuck in the bicycle or maybe the bicycle will dirty them? or maybe just that the legs are sweating because its doing all this work and they feel hot? i dont know, im just taking a shot ok?

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okay ive been with this guy for three years and we have been through our ups and downs..hes cheated on me three times and i have not cheated on him back nor have i cheated on him at all he says hes cheated on me because i make him feel like i dont care..he says its because of numerous of things like.when i dont answer his phone calls. after he disrespects me and i feel attacked i end up hanging up on him He calls me out of my name and says really mean things about me..so i end up hanging up on him. and he says thats one of the reasons why he does what he does is because i dont answer his calls he says that im just another girl in his phone and says that i just tell you i love you to make it sound good..he tells me all of this when we argue. but when we argue i dont say things liek that..i dont tell him that i got other dudes on the side or im just sayign i love you just to say it. I always forgive him and let things go..hes very insecure and points the finger at me. he gets mad for the most dumbiest reasons. we just had an arguement about how i dont tell him things..like he tells me when he gets new clothes and shoes...and he says that when i buy new clothes and shoes i dont tell him..like today he seen my new shoes and said why when i ask you have you bought any new shoes you jsut tell me you bought a pair but you have more than one. He says why dont you ever just tell me the truth i was like are you serious okay babe im sorry i will tell uyou next time he got so mad and was cutting me off when i was tryig to comprimise with him..and he jsut said whatever you just wanna say sorry and just drop it and end the problem your way. I honestly dont know why hes like this why he acts so angry and trippy off the most littlest things...im so lost ive been completely disrespected by him and been cheated by him. and i have forgave him for so much i let things go that usually no one would let go. He still doesint appreciate me doing that. He doesint see that my girl just forgave me for the most hurtfull things that ive done to her..Instead he keeps doing what he does and calls me out of my name and says that im worthless and just another B#### in his phone and that he can mess with me when he wants. I love this guy and your probebly thinking why? But i do and he also doesint see that he has told me you dont love me and i tell him are you serious i have forgave you for cheating on me disrespecting me that should show you that i love you a lot that im letting my guard down for you..I dont know what to do im so confused and lost, hurt, Every time he disrespects me and does thing to me he calls me back and says baby im sorry and that he needs me in his life and that im the reason why he acts crazy and disrespectful. I really dont see that I dont feel that im the reason of his wrong doings i feel that thats jsut what he wants to do..But i end up feeling sorry for him and take him back because i love him a lot. what should i do?

i know exactly how you feel. you see this guy, i think hes taking advantage of you in some way, i dont know what but if hes saying all this stuff to you then why is he still with you? i think you should get over him...try the hardest, this guy aint worth it. he treats you like something to play with, its not right. he should appreciate the fact that he has a girlfriend that loves him to the end of earth and will forgive him no matter what. love is like that. you really need to get over him because a good girlfriend like you should not have to go through this. he isnt worth it. if hes calling you names, them y dont he just go find someone HE THINKS is better? you get what im saying?

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