13/f
Ok so there is this boy i like, "jason". I first met him last yr when he came to our skool. We got off to a rough start in our friendship but then this yr. my two of my teachers sat us next to each other. We got along great and now we are pretty much bff's. We always ALWAYS talk in skool. And we text ALL THE TIME! We text every single day for about an hour each day. Im txting him now lol.
Anyway I think he likes me. What do you think?
And do guys think it's weird if i would say something like "we shuld hang out sometime!"? Do they think its stalker-ish?
freetobetina answered Tuesday June 17 2008, 8:54 pm: im sorry, but by the information you provided here, i dont think i can give my opinion if jason likes you or not. it wouldve helped if you explained things he did with you(if there was any) in which he doesnt do any other girls. well, maybe you can just add extra info to your question after, and then maybe i can edit my answer and give you better advice. :)
no, if you guys are friends right at this moment, it wouldnt be weird if you asked him if you guys can hang out sumtime. after all, you guys are just friends RIGHT NOW and if you wouldnt feel weird and you dont make them feel weird asking other friends if they wanted to hang out sumtime, then itll be the same with jason. trust me, not all guys are the same. good luck with that. and keep in mind im always open for any extra advice you may need! [ freetobetina's advice column | Ask freetobetina A Question ]
Cux answered Tuesday June 17 2008, 7:30 pm: Hey. We really can't judge if he likes you or not just based on the fact that he texts and talks to you a lot.
And if definitely is not weird if you asked to hang out. If you're friends, it shouldn't be weird. Guys don't normally over-analyze things, and they generally don't think stuff like that is weird.
I'm going to give you a list of what guys tend to do when they like girls:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
If you like this guy- and he does all or most of those things- my best bet is that he does like you. That means one and only one thing: Ask him to make sure, and then try the relationship out. Who knows- it could be great!
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