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Q: R a guy???
my question is that how do you find yourself in the position that you can give babysitting advice ???

I didn't give any babysitting advice..
that's weird. It may have been my girlfriend?

Q: 13-f

during the school year my friends started to ditch me and talk about me and be horrible friends. as bad as they are i cant help wanting them back when theyre gone and i always feel like a loner. how can i get over them and move on

Obviously they aren't worth your trouble if they're talking trash about you. Maybe if you try getting involved in new activities, ask to hang out with different people or just try sparking a convo with someone and see how it goes. I hope that things seem to work out with it. Don't worry about it to much because you are in the age group where you will be entering a whole new world soon full of people who have a lot more common

Q: I am a male teacher in a mixed school.
I just finished my first year of teaching. I really like my school, the students are respectful, and so are the staff, but I'm having some problems.

Since I am the youngest teacher in the school, a lot of the girls I teach flirt with me.
They would do anything to get my attention.
Ok, I do feel flattered, but there's one girl in particular that is over the line.
I teach her four times a week, and she's 15. She sits in the front row, she is constantly flirting with me, she wears very low cut tops, and she always comes to find me because she has ''problems'' with her homework.
This is starting to worry me, I have a girlfriend, and I've told her about this, but it doesn't bother her.
What can I say to this girl. Whenever she talks to me, she tries to make physical contact, and I don't want to be fired from my job because of this.
Please give me some advice. I know school is over for the summer, but I found out the other day that I will teach her again next school year, and I don't want these things to haunt me.

Thank you in advance.

Just respect her and tell the teachers if you have any more problems with it.

Q: what do you do when you broke up with someone you really loved, and really loved you, and you miss them like crazy and would do anything to have them back and for things to be the same again, but you finally just had enough of the BS after chance after chance after chance, and you know it's for the best to not be with them, because the relationship has changed so much and all you do is fight about the same things over and over, but you [both] just want those good times back soo bad, you can't stand it. how do you deal ?

Get them back.
Sure the bs is a lot but you know that you love this
person and that they obviously love you. If you are still talking like you normally did but holding back feelings still. If you think it's honestly time to break it then do it. Although you say you love this certain person and would go through anything just to have those days where you laid outside and held each other close or looked in the eyes of one another. Went to the park, etc. Don't let them slip from you because anything is possible. Change your attitudes and if that doesn't work again maybe it could be time. Try to have a full good day then at the end get together and end it well.

Q: hi im 13
i dont know how to say this but i want to know if my penis is a normal size for my age.
it is about 8cm
and 12 cm wen i have a "stiffy"
i know its a weird question but i want to know

It all depends and ranges in different sizes. Maybe you haven't hit likely it will for sure grow.
I mean, I don't want to gross you out but at your age i wasn't HUGE either. It's all talk for us guys to say who has the bigger one. It doesn't matter so don't let it dwell. And when you get a girlfriend as you get older it won't matter to her if she really cares. For now you are fine, believe me.

if you need anything though man let me know.

Q: im a female and im 15
ok well i kinda cheated on my boyfriend. what can i do to get his trust back that i will never do it again?

truthfully without being sentimental and an ass
I highly doubt you'll get it back. If so he'll maybe want some revenge. Possibly if you tell him and make sure circumstances are right then he may just blow it off after time if he really wants to be with you.
It'll play out so keep your head up.

Q: when a girl swallows, why do guys like it and think its hot?

This may seem semi gross to girls but
just the thought of a girl swallowing it makes us
think that they really want us. It's mainly in the moment and it really isn't a "job" its more of a the girl does it and the guys enjoy. Honestly this can't really be completely explained.

Q: 13/f
Ok so there is this boy i like, "jason". I first met him last yr when he came to our skool. We got off to a rough start in our friendship but then this yr. my two of my teachers sat us next to each other. We got along great and now we are pretty much bff's. We always ALWAYS talk in skool. And we text ALL THE TIME! We text every single day for about an hour each day. Im txting him now lol.

Anyway I think he likes me. What do you think?

And do guys think it's weird if i would say something like "we shuld hang out sometime!"? Do they think its stalker-ish?

Coming from a guys view i would have to say it isn't weird nor "stalker-ish" per say.
You should ask him if he wants to hang out but
be really cool about it and be talking about one thing then kind of scoot into it. It'll work hopefully and I use to be flattered when girls use to say that. Now I have a girlfriend and get flattered when she asks me still. =]