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My Name Is Stephanie. I am 17 years old and I am Married with a baby. Other than that I have a pretty normal Life. I am Hoping to hear from you and answer your questions and give you the best advice I can give. On everyday things, Love, depression, stress, anything you need. Hope to hear from you. And I promise to give you the best advice I can give. I am not a trained professional but I am here to help.


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I have been in I believe the first stage of labor for probably a month now maybe 5 weeks tops. How long does this take. With my son I went to my 36 week check up and was admit to the hospital and had him that night. I am almost 37 weeks (on friday i will be) At my 36 week check up I was 3 cm dialated 70% thinned and the baby was all the way down in the birth canal. I know its the longest part of labor and I know at this point most pregnant woman are very anxious. It just seems to be taking for ever.
one more question::
As of today I have been having flu like systems. Such as extremely tired, weak, stumoch pain, a few contractions and this is gross but my stoles as of today have been loose. Am I getting close or Just being anxious again. (link)
I had sort of the same problem... i was 37 weeks and my baby put me throught the first stage of laor for two weeks... i refused the eds to stop labor because on the news up hee a girl got the meds and she really was term and the baby died b/c they stopped labor... i waited it out and went throught hell over the contractions for the next week then asked the doc to induce i couldt handle it .... he sent me to the hospital to induce but i ended up going into active labor that night and had a very healthy baby... try to wait it out till you are 38 weeks give the baby a chance to come on her own but if it is too much go to your doc n ask to be induced... and by all means do not listen to anyone about doing things to induce labor on your own my friend lost five babies from drinking castor oil, breaking her own water, drinking caffeen and eating harmful herbs your baby will come .... they just like to put you through hell before they do trust me the wait and the pain is worth it in the end.... if the pain is unbearable go to the hospital they will find a way to relax the pain without stopping labor.... and if its just a little pain freeze water in a water bottle and have someone rub it up and down your back.... if you are in labor tho some non harmful ways to induce is taking a stand up shower and walk walk walk... dont do much more than that tho


I have a HP G50 Laptop and have Windows Vista, on jan. 22 my computer wouldn't let me log into any website such as : Hotmail,Facebook,Youtube,Amazon etc. Everytime I try it'll say : "internet explore cannot display the webpage" it's not my internet since my other computers are running fine. This problem only happens after I've enterd all my info. in and click sign/log in (link)
sounds like your security settings are too high... you may have firewalls blocking those webs try lowering your setting hun


I usually have my periods on the last week of every month usually starting between the 24th and the 27th. Last month (July) it was really late and it started on the 8th. I had a normal period with my normal flow. I started my birth control that sunday after that period. Oddly it's the end of July and I started a period on the 24th. Only It seems to be just spotting but its the 28th and its still goin on so I'm assuming its my period. Its not like my normal flows. It's emtremely light like it is at the end of my periods. What I think is I'm on my period again but its light because of the birth control. But if anyone has anything else or has any experience with this weird situation please let me know. (link)
This may be The birth control making thi happen , but it can also be your body telling you that you may be pregnant . stop the pill imediatly and tell your doctor. Hope i helped


I've not been drinking pop for about two months now...I'll drink one ever so often...I drink plenty of water, but my urine is dark yellow..so yellow it could be fooled for orange..
I have sex..if it may relate to that.
Idk.
Please help me, and tell me why my urine is soooo orange looking (link)
There are many things that can cause this. Eating certian foods, or taking vitamins. Sometimes you dont know you are getting these vitamins simply because they are in your food. But there are Medical related reasons why your urine is orange. 3 reasons why your urine may be orange is
1. Dehydration
2. Hepatitis
3. Jaundice

These all are not good things and can happen even if you try to prevent them. Drinking a lot of water does not garentee you will not get dehydrated. But it does help prevent it. Getting Hepatitus happens even if you dont know it. Like if you sit on a toilet (public or home) after someone who has hepatitus does you can get it. Also drinking after someone. And Jaundice occurs when the blood contains an excess of the pigment called bilirubin.
Now there is not way to be abslute sure weather this is simply from food or you have some kind of medical problem. The best thing to do is go see a doctor. But dont worry, these things are not major and can be fixed. :) Hope I helped.


you know what it sounds like to have a ringing in your ears? where does that come from? what causes it? (link)
The ringing in your ears is called Tinnitus. It can be caused by several things: hearing loss, listening to music too loudly, and some medications. Sometimes medication can help this, but it is often a case of put up with it. If it gets too bad, there are masking devices you can buy for nighttime use for sleeping. So please be assured that you are not going nutty or hearing things that would be part of voices in your head. This is clearly a medical condition of an audiological nature. Evry one hears this from time to time But if it is constant you need to talk to your doctor and get the proper treatment for it..

Hope i helped


Yesterday I lost my virginity and well of course it hurt like hell!...but also I didn't feel any pleasure out of it!...whats wrong with that...It just hurt...thats all It didn't feel good or nothing! I didnt even last that long after like 5min i had to tell him to stop!...mostly cause i had to pee...but when i went to the bathroom I couldn't pee! I feel Like I never want to do It again! Is this normal!!!! (link)
This is very normal and I get a lot of questions like this.. It means that you were not truely ready.. And thats ok.. Someday you will be ready and when you are it will be better. Hope I helped.


hi im a 15/m and im wondering Do women like men to have a clean shave in the penis area? would you rather it be hairy? or bald? (link)
Ok Hun Not Trying to be mean but you are only 15 years old. you souldent think of things like that ... Trust me i am 17 and i have a baby I am married and I love my son but it is hard.. and you can get someone prego weather it be the first time or the hundreth time or weather you use protesction or not


whats fan brush? It has to do with makeup (link)
The Fan brush is the most specific of artists brushes used for blending colors in both landscapes and portrait painting. Fan brushes are particularly useful for painting soft edges on clouds and are available in sable, synthetic, and badger hair and hog bristle. Fan brushes can be made with straight bristles, but the best are made with flagged, curved bristles. Fan blenders are primarily used to modify oil paint that has already been applied to the canvas. These are used for water mixable oil color and acrylic to blend colors and soften edges and textures. These imparts special effects, while painting, such as foliage, hair, clouds and other fine, soft details.
It is also used to apply blush foundation or a mixture of both.


i love my boyfriend but he is moving and there is no possible way we could be together long distance cause my parents would make it impossible...but i still like my ex (who is still single) and i dont know if i should just get back with him or if i should stay single...either way im still going to miss the boyfriend im with now and i know that my ex could never take his place....i dont want to be alone in this!!! (link)
Ok well you had to have broken up with your ex for a reason or the other way around .. now im not saying you werent meant to be together but i think you should give it a little time.. The best thing I can tell you Is if you truely love the man you are with dont give up on him right away but also dont wait forever on him either. But Dont settle for less than what you deserve either.. trust me if neither one of these guys are the "one" there is someone special waiting just for you ..


How do I tell someone that cutting themselves is very dangerous with a confrontation? (link)
i had this problem.. y hubby before i married him found out i was a cutter i never cared about it myself but when i saw the hurt in his eyes i hurt to and he talked to me and cried and i never did it ever again. what i am saying is that if you show this person that it hurts you and tell that person how much you love them it just might work


ok so i met this guy his name is travis hes 22 and me and him have been friends for a few weeks
well we know we like each other and stuff but theres the problem of him living in a different county from me and i know my parents won't let me date him because hes 22 and im just 16 but my problem is my foster sister jaymie found out i was talking to him and she just blew up about it and started bitching me and him out calling him on his cellphone and stuff which wasn't to good so me and him taled online and stuff and we decided we shouldn't talk because i didn't think it was right what they did . the problem is i really miss him hes the one person i could talk to about anything . the worse thing about this is my real sister casey was threatening to tell our parents if i didn't tell her everything he said about he because she really liked him once and wanted to date him but he didn't like her. i just really miss him and now jaymie aka my foster sister sometimes checks up on me to see if ive talked to him since that happened which i happened and i really miss him .me and him were going to hang out and see how we felt about each other and then see if we wanted to date . i want to know what i should do because i seriously miss him . also if u think i shold talk to him and lie about it i can't lie i think its just wrong and i can't do it so please help . :( thanks in advance . (link)
ok well i am 17 and i got married to the love of my life last year. my mom consented and when i met him he was 22. so dont shut him out or anything k. oh and funny thing i have a sister named casey who threatened the same thing haha. what a coinceidence ... so we told my mom but he came with... she alloud it... so give it a shot dont loose him ...you may regret it then if the parents have aproblem dont listen then and only if you love him continue to see him.. i am not telin you lieing is good but for love.... true love it is so worth it

hope i helped tell me how it goes


17/f

My mum just payed $300 for me to get hair extensions. I have wanted thick hair forever and I finally got thick hair when I got my hair extensions and I was so happy.
I went to the hairdresser today and I asked to get the ends of my hair cut a little bit shorter and I asked if she could razor the bottom 2cm of my hair so it wasn't cut straight across. Anyway by the time she had finished my hair is about half as thic as it was before and it looks all thin and stringy. I am so upset, I don't know what to do and my mum is really angry too coz she just payed so much money.
What do I do? I have been crying all day and I can't afford any more extensions. What do I do? (link)
go back or call them and complain you will get your money back


i just met this boy. (btw im 16, ive been on first dates before but i always screw them up. and recently i was in a serious long relationship so i CAN be normal around guys, haha, im pretty experienced) but anyway. he hasnt asked me on a date yet, he just asked to hang out. but im pretty sure he likes me. and i like him. so i dont know how to.. "hang out" should i be nice? i dont wanna be weird and too nice and ask too many questions. he's a skater. i don't wanna be too rude though. hes kinda shy around girls at first. and im like way shy at first but i open up eventually. i really dont wanna seem shy though. what are some things i could tell myself? and yeah. help! (link)
Tell yourself you are a beautiful person and you like this guy... Pick on yourself when you are with him and do the same with him dont be mean or anything just be flity he will love it


15/f

i sweat a lot and i use secret clinical strength..but i still sweat so much that it leaves sweat stains and stuff. i'm not overweight or anything i just sweat a lot even if i'm not really hot. but now that its summer i sweat more and i don't know what to wear or do about it. i wear black mostly but i want to be able to wear anything. this sucks a lot, any suggestions? can a docter help? (link)
mix three teaspoons of baking powder in with one teaspoon of water apply as deotorant works wonders


I am curious to know what owners of Nokia's N82 think of it. I looked it up online, and saw that the buttons looked rather small. I was wondering if the size of the buttons affected their use? Also is it a relatively easy phone to use?

I would like to buy it as a birthday gift for my husband. He wants a simple, but stylish phone. So I thought this might be a good choice.

Any pros and/or cons about this phone would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks for all your help in advance :) (link)
this is a great phoe my friend has it and it gets terrific signal even in a dead zone great choice rating 1-10 1 bad 10 good it would be like an 11 lol


this might be kinda long so sorry !
alright so, i know this guy and my mom and his mom used to be bestfriends. i didnt even know who he was because i havent seen him sicne i was like 4. so anyways my firend met him at the mall and i hung out with him and stillll didnt relize who he was, he is soooo cute :]. and then i was telling my mom about him and she was all "omg" cuz we figured out like that it was her friends son. i havent talked to him since. but then my other frined that im like BESTfriends with started talking to him. we hungout with him at the mall the other day and i now like him. i havent talked to him online or anythign but were hanging out with him again soon. my friend really likes him, and i know this soundes wicked mean but how can i get him to notice me? and like me? i dont think he likes my friend but he flirts with her, but i REALLY like him and i need him to notice me in a differnt way then a friend. any advice please ??? (link)
ok first always know that no man should come between you and your friend. Let her be with him. Dont risk friendship. But if you do find out that he doesnt like her or they dont work out get permission from your friend to date him kk


So me and my boyfriend will have been together for about two years when his 18th birthday rolls around (beginning of October), and I have no idea what to get/do for him. Last year I had a pretty nice paying summer job, so I was able to buy him an xbox 360 with a game. This year Ive got another decently paying job, so money really isnt an issue. I just want to do/get something special because its his 18th you know?

Any ideas? (link)
Ok well dont worry about money you dont want to go out and buy something super expensive just get him something from the heart i did this for my hubby when we wer still dating and he cried cuz he loved it so much. do this


Get a big poster board some glitter glue crayons markers confettii and other decoratives youd like then get pictures of you, him, and then you and him together create like a collage of you and him decorate it write things you love about him funny times and your most happy times with him on it he will absolutelly love it


I have been looking for a website where kids or teens can date online besides espin.com plz help!!!!


grasias****
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i know an abortion is wrong, but there is so much going on in life right now that it is impossible for me to bring a baby into this so i need to get an abortion. im scared tho.

if your only 17, do you have to have have a parent with you or parent permission in order for them to do it? about how much do they cost? i dont know if the state you live in matters about prices but i live in georgia.

what exactly do they do in the procces, how long does it normally take for them to do it? and when you go in for the abortion, when their done giving it to you, do you loose the baby right away? what are the after effects of it, like does it make you sick for a couple of days or does it make you bleed or hurt when you pee or anything? sorry its so many questions but i am really scared and need to know everything possible before i go do it!! (link)
ok i am a mother and i am 17 do not get an abortion that is MURDER give it up for addoption


This is an emergency...
Im gaining so much weight from taking "the pill" so anyone or anybody kno any diff type of birth control method that doesn't make u gain weight and makes u have fewer menstrual periods? Please need help asap!
Thanx so much in advance! (link)
ummm depo shot or nuva ring works good best is nuva ring and by the way dont jump up and down




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