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well its complicated i love my boyfriend but he is moving
i love my boyfriend but he is moving and there is no possible way we could be together long distance cause my parents would make it impossible...but i still like my ex (who is still single) and i dont know if i should just get back with him or if i should stay single...either way im still going to miss the boyfriend im with now and i know that my ex could never take his place....i dont want to be alone in this!!!
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Hmm. Really from what I've learned, rebound relationships [those created just after another relationship has ended for the sole purpose of getting over the previous relationship] never work out, and you'll end up ten mores more hurt than you would be having not gotten with another person.
Stay single for awhile to firstly get over your boyfriend, and secondly because it's a lot of fun being single and getting to see what's out there, you know? Not being a slut, I mean just seeing what other types of guys are out there if you ever want to date again.
--Jack
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Ok well you had to have broken up with your ex for a reason or the other way around .. now im not saying you werent meant to be together but i think you should give it a little time.. The best thing I can tell you Is if you truely love the man you are with dont give up on him right away but also dont wait forever on him either. But Dont settle for less than what you deserve either.. trust me if neither one of these guys are the "one" there is someone special waiting just for you ..
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Getting back together with your ex just because your boyfriend is leaving is not a good idea, it is also completely unfair on both of them.
If you and your boyfriend have to break up then you need to give yourself some time to get over him. You said it yourself, getting back together with your ex won't stop you from missing your boyfriend and it isn't fair to be with either of them if you're thinking of the other.
Stay single for a while and don't get into a new relationship until they are the only person you have feelings for.
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