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i dont know what to do here


Question Posted Saturday July 26 2008, 6:07 pm

ok i know this is like my 4th question in one day

theres this guy i like, we'll call him Joe. Joe knows i like him and he says he doesn't feel the same. he has this ex i really dont like too much. well joe acts a lot of the time like he likes me, he teases me(sorta mean, sorta nice), hes always messin with me, and the other night he called me. he made fun of me while we were on the phone, and he kept asking what i was doing. hes one of my kinda good friends and he texts me almost all the time. well i recently(as in about 5 minutes ago)found out from one of my other best friends that she told his ex (Sara) that i like him, and she and sara called him to try to get him to date me, my friend has been getting both of his exes to try and hook me and him up. any advice about this whole fiasco? i dont want him to think i put them up to it, but i really dont want to talk at all about it with him


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Additional info, added Saturday July 26 2008, 11:28 pm:
my friend's only getting involved because she really thinks that joe likes me, and she knows i like him so she thinks we belong together. sara's the one whos been breaking up with him. joe really isnt the kind of guy to try to make an ex jealous. when he was with sara, he was moody and really not the best guy to be around. the first ex(jess) im not even fully sure he dated her, i just have a different friends word. and when we were in math, he sat on one side of the room, me on the other, and really the only person hed bother was me. you know yelling at me, throwing stuff to get me to look back, then doing whatever he thought up to make me laugh. these random kids in that class kept asking me if he was dating me or what and when i said no, they said he liked me too. i hate how confused i am about him and wtf is going on.

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lucinders answered Saturday July 26 2008, 11:08 pm:
If this boys' relationships with any of the exes' weren't serious and they didn't last long, I wouldn't say that you had a problem, that is, if all you were looking for was a bit of fun. If not, stop and think. He may not be looking for a relationship, just a bit of arm candy to snog and boast about. Is any boy worth getting hurt for? No, I didn't think so.

Honestly, it sounds to me that he's showing the ex Sara that somebody else likes him, to get her jealous. And her 'trying' to set you up with him could either be because she is over him, or still has feelings for him that she doesn't want him to know about.

Tread carefully and be honest. But be careful who you trust.

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beautevil78 answered Saturday July 26 2008, 6:25 pm:
well i think its kinda silly to let your friends get involved with you and your crush but i think you should yalk to him about it and see if he will give you a chance

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