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Ok, so I'm 14 and a chick and my friend is 15 and her sister is about 10.
I like having my friend sleepover but every time her bratty little sister comes, doesn't listen to us or my parents, eats our food and bullies my brother. Thing is, they are also pretty close (don't get me wrong, they're always fighting too) and I want to have a sleepover with just my friend. My mom isn't too fond of her sister and they also always fight and kill the fun. I'm kinda friends with her sister though and don't want to hurt her. Any ideas how I can get just my friend without offending anyone? All answers are appreciated! (link)
just tell her look dude i want to kick it with just you tonight cause the little one kinda just ruins things without even meaning too just because she is younger and is not on the same level as us. i think we need to kick it with just us time and your sister can come next time or maybe go to her house instead of putting everyone through discomfort in your home.


I am 13 years old and a girl that needs a lot of help. Today at lunch I found out my best friend likes me and he thinks I like him back. My Best Friend is the nerd if the school. He asked me out and we have been friend for 5 years. I like him as a friend but all of my other friend said to go on pity date with him. you know dance with him once at a dance then say this won't workout. I don't want to though because my other friend told me that he thinks I like him back but I don't! What should I do please help me. I want to be his friend but not his girlfriend! (link)
tell him to his face that you want nothing more than to be a friend. and who says regular friends cant dance? tell him you dont feel that way about him but you care about him tell him that you dont want to date because dating ruins friendships and his is just one you cant lose.


There are a bunch of things on the internet about march 2011. does anyone know what day their predicting, who predicted it and why? and i also heard may 21 2011.. thanks! and ugh i hate these "end of the world" predictions. their so gay.. (link)
i agree with the other person answering this is all crap you cant live your life wondering if the world is going to end.and so what if it ends you cant really do anything after that point anyway. just knowing the day is not really going to make it any better.


i want 2 know how to make home made peanut butter cookies (link)
look up easy peanut butter cookie recipe on google they will give you a hundred and one ways to cook your little peanut butter loving soul away


I have a so call boyfriend but i don't think me and him are actually going out,because 1 thing is i see him trying to flirt with a girl,me and this girl were friends but not no more because see talked about me and she is a backstabbing girl and anytime i have a boyfriend she is trying to flirt with him. And i asked him was going on with you and her and he said nothing. But i don't believe him, how do you know if a boy is cheating on you or not? (link)
honestly if there is a sitaution in which the only person you can trust is yourself then its not worth looking into that deep. if you cant trust him or her then drop them both they are not worth the struggle


I am from india.I am a college student.I am having a boyfriend.I started the relation two years before.It was cool then.But now a days i have a feeling that we will make a good relation.I don't know why,but i am always fighting with him.I need some help (link)
the reason why things have changed is because you two have become comfortable and you dont overlook the little things anymore. you may have a problem with being on a different emotional level than your partner. in this case sit down with your partner and ask what they want to see done differently. dont push the subject if you disagree smply listen and try to discuss a compromise thst works for both of you. but your partner has to want to make things better too not just give up.


mkay. well this is katas fran. but I neeeeeeed help now!

Okay. Well there is this guy I like and I have known him for about 3 years. We were okay friends a while ago, and then I started to like him. I was to embaressed to tell him though. Eventually it got around school that I liked him, but he didn't believe them because we were such good friends. So I got over him. Then I find out that he likes me, and he asked me to the dance, but I said no :/ bigg mistake!

But anywats we became really good friends. Now this year, he recently wrote in my yearbook saying that he thinks I'm cool, and that it sucked that we liked each other @ different times. And that now he wishes we could get "closer" with a ;) face at the end.

He keeps touching my hands on "accident" and stuff.



And I like him again. But the other day he was talking about how he wants to date my friend abi's sister.
Wtf? Is he tryin to make me jealous?


So my guy friend tyler told him and tyler said he didn't say anything. Now when I see him in the hall he always smiles and flirts with me.


So, my overall question is does he like me? And what should I do? Make a move? Whhat!! Lol. Help me :( (link)
ti think he likes you he jusdt doesnt know exactly how to confront you maybe he wants to get reaction out of you and you havent showed him that you like him back enough i think you should talk to him and tell him the truth about how you feel


I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year, but we were friends for years before that. I've never loved a guy this much, and our relationship is pretty serious. He lives with me, but he has a room outside of his parent's house that he pays rent for (it's in like a shop thing on his parent's property). My family is fine with us living together, but his parents are huge Christians. We live with my grandparents, but sometimes we like to stay over at his place just to have a little more privacy. His mom doesn't say anything, but his dad says that no girls are allowed to say overnight with him on his property. I respect his dad's religious beliefs and go out of my way to please him. He doesn't allow women on his property to wear anything that he considers indecent, so no matter how hot it is, I wear jeans and conservative shirts when I come around, but it's a little ridiculous. He doesn't say anything about us living together at my house, but he does not allow us to say the night together in my boyfriend's room. My boyfriend has paid rent for it, but he says it's his property so it's his decision.

Is there anything I can do about this? I know it may not seem like much, but I always feel like he's judging my every move and it drives me crazy, since it's not very christian-ly to judge, anyway. Should we talk to him about this or just let it go and do what he says? (link)
no i mean its his parents so just respect thier wishes



For a drama class at school I'm doing an assignment
on details and w/ever on Joey Jordison's mask from
SlipKnoT.

I need to know what media the mask was made from,
like porcelain, wood... paper mache w/ever.

Please. (link)
its made of fabric


Hi! 13 1/2

Well, I'm quite confused because...I don't know why I can't get a boy friend!! I know I'm young but a lot of people have boy friends in my grade. I've two guys out one I really like..and I thought he liked me to ..his name is Joey. Well, he looked at me a lot and smiled at me. So, my friend Cody (He's Joeys friend to) asked him out for me..he said yes. Than the rumor that we were dating got out and he changed his mind. SO...I think he's shy ...or is embarrassed of me or something. I'm good looking. Well...a lot people told me that. I have blue eyes, dark blonde shoulder length hair. My weight is average...so I don't understand. Can you people give me some tips..to get guys attention? You know any kind of style tips,make up tips, hair tips? Any advice will help!! OH, and I'll rate fair. :) (link)
try wearing light make up or even a different color if its the looks he got freaked out about maybe its not you maybe the guys you are looking at are cute but they arent mature enough yet to understand who cares what people say about a relationship yet


18/F

Okay so I got my period on April 16th, finished at about 7am April 23rd. In the afternoon of my finish date I had sex and the condom broke. The very next day I saw a doctor and gave me a prescription for the Levonelle-2 Morning after pill so I took it. now this morning I have experienced some vaginal bleeding. at first it was heavy but within about 1 minute it went to very light bleeding. Im freaking out though, is this normal for me to get this symptom 6 days after taking The Morning After Pill?? (link)
it means you were conceiving but you killed it in the begining process so i dont know if six days is ok but its normal to bleed if thats what happened


Allright! :D well you know when you have a song stuck in you head but you cant remember the name or where you heard or who its by... you know when its a part without lyrics.. but maybe with vocals of people going "nah nah" or "lah" or somthing, is there any way to jog my damn brain to remember a part before with lyrics or a place i can go to get some help on it?

i knows its an old song, maybe dated from about 75 - 95? i have no idea, but the song im thinking of could be played on bbc 2's morning radio with terry wogan or somthing (before he started playing loads of crappy music..) and the song goes from this really nice tune into this butifull acoustic guitar accompanied ending with the singer sort of singing "Lah nah nah" i know thats a horrendous example but its all i got.

thanks for your help.. and im not expecting much xD (link)
go to music .com and look for the possible year and genre you should find it or something similar


So yea.. my last period was on march 26th.
Ive been taking birthcontrol since thursday april 9th..

I still havent gotten my period.. its already april 29th.. is there something wrong?

Im not pregnant..I took a pregnancy test yesterday.. its negative (:

...and when i do get my period.. so i take the brown pills? or do i keep taking the white pills? (link)
take the brown pills on your period and even if you havent taken all the brown yet when you stop having your period go back to the white ones.... its normal for about two months for your period to be missed or late dont freak


I'm a first time mom and I feel so lost. I have no idea if and when my baby is hungry. :( and I feel like such a terrible mother.

My baby is 7 weeks old, and he will breastfeed for around 10 minutes. and then come off and latch back on. but once he latches back on he just cries and cries. so i feel like maybe hes still hungry but hes just not getting enough from me. If i give him his pacifier though he happily sucks it. but then i feel guilty thinking well maybe hes sucking it because hes hungry.

I just would like a straightforward answer as to how to know when my baby is hungry and how to know when hes full and just crying for the sake of crying.

because now whats happening is he'll cry and i'll check his diaper..and its fine. and then try to feed him and he will latch on.. i dont have to coax him. but once hes latched on he starts to scream.

PLEASE please please someone help me! (link)
its ok dont freak out maybe you need to burp him and rub his stomach for a couple minutes and if he continues to cry to getting a pump and it will help you get more milk out faster


Okay so I been talking to this really cute guy, I'm really starting to like him. Like his really nice and we talk on the phone like all the time, but the problem is I guess you can say his been know to be a player and none of my friends want me to go out with him, but he I asked him if we were to date will he cheat on me or anything and he said "No, because I know how much im really starting to hurt girls who really like me when I do that." thats what he told me plus my parents know his parents pretty good so I don't know if he'll do anything like that, but now also I guess his the kind of guy that you have t watch out on him trying to make " the moves" on you, but I know how to handle my self. So do you think I should give this guy a chance and see how it goes? And if that's a yes, how do I tell my friend's that im going out with him? XOXO, someone [: (link)
start off as friends with benefits and start off slow and see what he does just dont get to attached just in case he lied


hey guys! So i had this pimple looking thing on my chin in feburary.Ive gotten cases before where i had things that were pimple liek and ended up being an infection under the skin.Well,it popped in the end of feburary and now its been nothing but a red spot on my chin like something is gonan come up but nothing is.My mom things its scar tissue and something bite me there and its gonna stay like that.I told her i wanted to go to the dermotologist and have them check it out but she said insurance isnt gonna cover it and its gonna be alot of money.So its upsetting me i dont like my face enough as it is because i have alot of sun spots on them that my mom wont have bleached.So my questions are if anyone knows what it could be and is there anyway to lighten it up or have it go away altogether? Please dont say covering it up with make up though,ive been doing that thanks.Oh and sorry if it was a bit disgusting to read hope you guys can help! :) (link)
get scar remover lotion and just use that for like three weeks and itll go away


14/f

what happens if i get pregnant? like will i be able to move out of my parents house? and live with my boyfriend? or will i have to stay home? and how would i tell my parents? what if i runaway and call my parents and tell them. will i have to go back home? because i know my parents dont want me to do this. and would pretty much beat me if i did. but i dont care about them. they just make my life worse and worse everyday. and starting a family sounds like the best thing to me right now. im not actually pregnant. but im kinda thinking about it. because of things ive talked about with my boyfriend. i know your gonna say dont do it. and im not ever sure i want to do this. so PLEASE dont tell me i shouldn't do it. or how its going to ruin my life. because it wont ruin my life. my boyfriend already has things planned out if i do want to do this. and no. he's not pushing me to do this. its only if i want to. and i just want these questions answered before i do make a decision.
thanks for the help.
- cuttechick24 (link)
actually idid the exact same thing i told my parents i as pregnant just so they would kick me out and they did now im going to counseling cause cyfd wants me too but other than that my fiances parents are getting cutody of me soon so things are going great right now but i never did get pregnant i lied to them so i would have to say if youre that un happy then find away to move out and get your boyfriends parents to call cyfd and get guardianship im enagaged now and almost ready to graduate and everything!!



alrite, long story short: i work at this drama place where my usally i called \"good friend\" back stabbed me and telling every one shit about me that is not true, they call me sluts that there is no way to be found also where i work there is a lots of old people where they have no life and love to talk about things like this, now when some one really likes me and want to ask me out on a date, that they would go and \"warn\" them to watch out, im a bad girl and leave me alone.

i guess its kind of my fault to, cause im too nice i cant tell if they are setting me up. i tell them about my boy troubles and they spread them with nasty words. i dont kno if you guys have ever played the game call spread the words, where people sit in a circle and pass down the sentence or word people by people and the sentence end up some thign completely differnent!!! thats the situation im in, where every one in the restruant think im some kind of a bad girl and spread shitty rumors about me. i dont want to quit the job, b/c its easy and its not my fault why would i quit rite???

please guys what should i do now????
should i get a pay back? (link)
act like it doesnt affect you dont let them know it hurts you and pretty soon they will get bored and move on to a new victim


"Hair should be slightly damp when dye is applied."

why?

(link)
not all the time just mostly with the permanant chemical dyes and its just so your hair absorbs the chemical no big deal really


OKk so i met this kid and he is 18 and i am 16. and we both go to the same high schoo. i met him through this like retreat thing that he choose me to run with him. He is really cute. and i really like him, but he just got out of a 1 year and 8 month relationship ( no i am not stalkerish he told me that) and he said that its hard to get over... but they broke up in june?

Anyways everytime we have a meeting, like the one last night.. he is always bumbed out.. and i want to write on his facebook wall.. like get better bud.. but idk what to say? what shoud i say?

and i am kinda a shy person.. and he kinda sorta is too... not as much as me.. but i want to like make a move and start making connections how shouuld i do that.

thanksss (link)
definitley let him now you are interested but dont push him at all just tell him you would like to see him smile a little more often and you would like to hang out a little more and become "friends"




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