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So here's yet another "what song is this?" question. I have googled, youtubed and facebooked this for hours and i can't seem to find he right one. The only part of the lyrics i know is "raise your head up" or "raise your hands up". It's a clubbing song and I think it is a remix. There is a part in it where it's like a bunch of girls signing the lyrics (as mentioned above) and yeah, that's all I know.
Many of you might be thinking of the song "raise your hands up for detroit", it's not that, I checked.
Thanks =] (link)
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try pimp code - raise your head up.
i think thats it
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okay, so ive known this girl for since 6th grade. were now both in 10th grade and we have been on and off. the reason why, is guys.
okay. so now THIS time a guy that she likes [she never told me that she liked him] likes me, and he told me and i told her. and honestly, shes being a huge bitch[sorry about the language] about this whole situation. shes getting so many people involved and getting all these people to hate me. the guy likes me because im laied back and im chill, and shes just always buggin' and shit.
shes in this situation where she likes about 3 or 4 guys. justin[the one that likes me], noah, grant and her BOYFRIEND! jake. their currently on a break, and their not going to get back together.
heres a texting convorsation we had today:
me: we need to talk.. badly. give me a call.
her: what is there to talk about? Honestly... and btw i heard from ppl that you and justin were just messing aroudn with me. if thats true then you just fucked up big time.
me: we wed me. what crime did i do? nothing
me: wow that text got messed up. he told me that he likes me, thats nothing bad on my part.
her: Laura im done with this shit, if you guys were honestly just trying to piss me off you should of known what was gunna happen. he doesnt like YOU your just easy so thats why hes going for you, and you knew i liked him and yet you do this.
me: oh my god christie, i didnt do anything. im not easyyy... can you just call me or IM me later and be mature about this?
her: ill call you but im done ! realize that now.. you fucking backstab me with almost every guy and im done.. and you werent so mature yourselfeither talkin shit about me to becca and bekki!
me: i wasnt saying shit... lmao
your the one who is calling me a bitch and a slut whe nyou know im not a slut.
her: you so were and yeah.. i was calling you that dont fucking deny anything.
me: hahaha are you kidding? i said your a bitch for taking this so outta hand.
this is just going to continue for hours.
so when she calls me, what should i say to her? shes such a bitch and we seriously had to many plans together for our sweet 16. and now their just ruined and shes one of my best friends and she knows everything about me and i know everything about her...... it was just so awkward today with her coming to my lunch period pulling everyone aside and telling them whats going on and they dont even get MY side of the story.
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hmmm... she really is a bitch with a capital B.
i have a friend exactly like this(well, she was) i mean exactly. what i did and i think you shoulddo to is get her by herself and tell her that she needs to get over herself and stop being such a back stabbing, self centered, drama queen. sometimes being harsh is the only thing that gets through. you also need to tell her that you are happy with your boyfriend and not intrested in justin. and that she can't have everone. now, when i confronted my friend, it turned into a shouting match so be prepared for that but on the upside... we're closer than ever and she's changed. so there is hope. and don't under any circumstances let her walk away from you, because then nothing will be resolved.
good luck, i just hope she listens...
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okay SO
i've known this guy since like 4th grade, right? and i've liked him on and off since then, and he says he's liked me on and off since then too.
last year we went out for a while, but i was a sucky girlfriend back then and never was able to go anywhere, so it didnt work out. a week later he got with my friend, which devastated me.
i ignored him for a few months, which was hard because he was still my friend, but it helped me to get over him.
about a month or two ago, he and this girl broke up, we started talking again, and he started confusing me like big time, acting like he liked me and saying he liked me, and his ex said he liked me & she would be okay with it if we went out, but at the same time he still acted like he liked her. THEN he apparently fell back in love with her and we're all good friends now, but im heartbroken. i thought this would be my 2nd chance, but i lost it.
i guess what i would like to know is, should i wait and see if maybe i could still get my chance with him, or just get over him?
i dont know if the last is possible... but i need to know if im totally insane for wanting him this badly, & if i need to back off since he's with my friend and all.
sorry this was long and confusing but any kind of advice on what i can do is much appreciated.
i'm 14/f, by the way. (link)
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well, for a start i don't believe in love at your age but, i think that for the sake off your and your friends friendship, you should both stay clear of him... i don't think you'll be able to get over him if your seeing him with your friend or if you wait for him to ask you... you need to forget about him, and tell you friend how you feel.
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ok i know this is like my 4th question in one day
theres this guy i like, we'll call him Joe. Joe knows i like him and he says he doesn't feel the same. he has this ex i really dont like too much. well joe acts a lot of the time like he likes me, he teases me(sorta mean, sorta nice), hes always messin with me, and the other night he called me. he made fun of me while we were on the phone, and he kept asking what i was doing. hes one of my kinda good friends and he texts me almost all the time. well i recently(as in about 5 minutes ago)found out from one of my other best friends that she told his ex (Sara) that i like him, and she and sara called him to try to get him to date me, my friend has been getting both of his exes to try and hook me and him up. any advice about this whole fiasco? i dont want him to think i put them up to it, but i really dont want to talk at all about it with him (link)
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If this boys' relationships with any of the exes' weren't serious and they didn't last long, I wouldn't say that you had a problem, that is, if all you were looking for was a bit of fun. If not, stop and think. He may not be looking for a relationship, just a bit of arm candy to snog and boast about. Is any boy worth getting hurt for? No, I didn't think so.
Honestly, it sounds to me that he's showing the ex Sara that somebody else likes him, to get her jealous. And her 'trying' to set you up with him could either be because she is over him, or still has feelings for him that she doesn't want him to know about.
Tread carefully and be honest. But be careful who you trust.
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I have this crush on this boy and then I found out that guy best friend had a crush on me. We're having a dance and my guy friend asked me to dance so I did and I saw my crush.. He was getting kind of antsy because he has a crush on me too. My crush tryed to ask me to dance but he is shy and chicken out after he saw me dance with my guy friend. I don't want to hurt my guy friends feelings or my crush's. I am starting to like my guy friends now too. I kind of like them both now, and i dont no what to do or which boy to choose for are next dance. What should I do or which boy should I choose?
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Alysonwillow, female, age 14 (link)
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definitely your crush. if you and your guy friend really are friends, then he'll still be your fiend while you're with your crush. besides, if you've been friends with this guy and never liked him like that until you found out he liked you... maybe you don't really like him... go with your crush.
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Hey!
Well im 14 years old, girl, and i was wondering if my crush is going to ask me out? I've liked him for a while and about 6 weeks ago he found out I liked him. Since then we have been flirting and talking all the time on myspace, google talk, and on the phone. Just about 3 weeks ago my friend asked him if he liked me and he said yes. I wasn't at school one day and everyone found out he supposedly liked me. He's been messaging me and always talking to me which isn't really normal for him. It's been a while and I'm thinking is he going to ask me out or isn't he? I really want to know because I don't want to put myself out there and have high expectations if nothing is going to happen. Please Answer
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well he definitely likes you! that muh is obvious! but you said it wasn't really like him to talk to you... does that mean he's shy or you two have just never really been friends? if it means he's shy, he might be good at flirting but is not so good at asking you out, so maybe you could ask him..? but chances are very high that you two will end up going out. whether by you asking him or viceversa. hope this helped!
xxx
p.s damn you're lucky having your crush like you back! =] x
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im engaged to a woman who just doesnt like my 9 year old son. she has told me she doesnt like him and shows very little affection towards him. what should i do? (link)
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get rid of her. your son should be the most important thing, and i'm pretty sure he is other wise you wouldn't be worrying about your fiance, so do the right thing!!!! when you have a child you instantly become a package deal!
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my name is Rachel and iam 19 years old and my personality has been changing alot ever since i turned 16 and i don't know why i'll tell you what my personality use to be and what it is now to give you the idea of what iam talking about ok to start off with before i turned 16 i was a goody two shoes and when i turned 16 i started doing things that i wouldn't normally do like here's a few suggestions when i turned 16 i was dating this guy who was 20 years old and i snuck over to his house and i use to wouldn't even look at a guy in that way and then i started cussing when i turned 16 and then at 16 whenever i got mad at mom i ran away and went to my aunt's house whenever i got mad at my mom and then when i turned 17 i tried my first ciggerate and i use to get onto everybody i knew for smoking and then when i turned 18 i started smoking all the time and now iam addicted to the nicotine and then when i was at my friends house i tried oral sex with a guy for the first time and then i tried drinking and then i tried pot and then i went online a met a guy off the internet and then when i turned 19 my sister turned gay and she started having sex with girls and i wanted to know what it was like so had sex with a girl and then i went as far to go out with a girl and i used to be a gay basher you know talk bad about gays and tell them they were going to hell for what they were doing and i think i might be bisexual myself and if anybody could please tell me why iam doing these kinds of things when i use to be such a good innocent girl please help me. (link)
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my friend used to be a goody two shoes, and she changed, but its just experimenting, although, i think you should really stop the smoking, its disgusting! but yeah every thing else is just experimenting, everyone gets curious at some point or another.
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ok so me and my boyfriend broke-up only a month ago... i broke up with him.. but he already has a girlfriend...
its just irritating me and there like all over eachother at school. its annoying. i really truly dont have feeling for him, and like i dont want him back at all... but idk its just annoying and like i know 4 sure that theree bothe gonna have sex... and i dont know why it bothers me but it does... help? (link)
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i agree with xxxRadioGagaxxx. but i have a feeling she's just a rebound! don't worry about it. and you broke up with him, so he's probably just using her to get over you. and yeah either find a new uy or take a brake from guys and have fun with your friends.
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so im 13
and this dude is 15
we've been talking for a while now (few months)
and he asked me out last saturday over text.
i can never tell if someones serious over text so...
i said i wasnt sure.
and he hasnt talked about it since.
did he take it as a no?
(hes not the shy type at all.. so he'll basically talk about ANYTHING ad EVERYTHING)
so please help
guys have never been this confusing to me before. (link)
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send him a text saying something like 'if you were really serious about me going out with you, then ask me in person' if he was serious, he'll ask you, and if not well, forget about it!
hope everything works out!
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my period isn't dark red like usual, rather its in between red and pink. lighter than usual for sure. i had sex on wednesday without protection but my bf didnt cum and got my period this morning and i've been bleeding continuously but very light flow. whats wrong? (link)
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Talk to a GP, they'll know.
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I have 2 questions in 1. how do you know when a male has hit puberty? and, what age does a male hit puberty? (link)
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OH. MY. GOD! what age are you???? jeez... i thought you had to be over thirteen to use this... and if you are over thirteen you should have already learnt this in sex ed! so... yeah well.... you might just have forgotten or something so heres the answer =]
Usualy you know when a guy has hit puberty when they start sweating and you notice a smell around them, this is because they won't have started using deoderant yet. But if they were prepared beforehand, and you don't notice a smell when you're around them, it could be that you notice hair under their arms, on their face, or other places such as their chest... You will also recognise when a male has hit puberty when their voice starts to break, meaning that it is a lower pitch than before. A male can hit puberty at any age, although usualy not before around the age of 10 or 11, as that is pretty early.
Hope that helped =P
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My boyfriend is constantly putting me down, saying that I am fat, and stupid, and he calls me names all the time like b*tch and c*nt. This makes me cry all of the time. And when he sees me crying, he calls me a baby and says I need to grow up. He says he cares about me, but caring means that you help me feel better when I am upset, instead of yelling at me like he does. I can't leave him because we have a 1 yr old son together and plus, if I did leave, I have no where to go, and I can't afford anything. I want to kill myself, but I won't because of my son. Does anyone have any advice for me? (link)
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i know you said you can't leave but you have to! for your son if not for yourself! it's not good for your son to grow up in an environment which is unloving. if your boyfriend treats you likethat theres nothing to say he won't treat your son like that.
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alright so far i've madeout and been felt up underneath the bra. i've been at this step for about a year and a couple monthes. i've been waiting to get fingered but im unsure because its really a big step to me. i'm dating this guy and we've dated before but then it didnt work out at the time.we've went out for about a month the first time and now this time its just about a month coming up. i was thinking about letting him finger me but i dont know. im just afraid of a few things. like what will people say? and what if hes bad at doing it because hes only did it with one other girl. im also afraid its gunna hurt. i dont know what to do while hes doing that to me lol. when you get fingered do they take off your pants or just go down them? please help me out with this. :]thankss (link)
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You've been waiting... So I take it you want to.
People won't say anything if you don't tell anybody, and you let this bloke know that you want to keep it between the two of you. But you must make sure that this guy isn't going to 'love you and leave you' if this step means so much to you. Make sure beforehand that you can trust him. As in, make sure that this relationship is going to last more than a month. If he get's pushy and tries to finger you before you tell him that you're ready, it shows that that's all he wants. That's when you should leave and forget about him.
But if you give him the go ahead. Which I hope you are certain about. Be confident in yourself.
It shouldn't hurt if he uses one finger, you're in the mood, and if you feel ready. It may hurt, if you're unsure as to whether you feel confident enough, if you feel ready, of if he, straight away, uses more than one finger. So my advice is, when you are ready, make him start with one, and then tell him if you can handle more. (May want to check hand and finger size lol)
If he's bad at doing it, well... tell him what you want him to do. Be specific. He'll want to know what makes you feel good, so that he can 'hit the spot' over and over again.
When he fingers you, do what feels natural. You should feel comfortable with him for letting him be so intimate with you. I, personally, like to be up against a wall or lying down, with him close to my front, facing me, eye to eye. He'll lean down so that he can reach, and at that point I would hold on to his shoulders, with my head leaning against his cheek. Your legs will know what to do lol. You can show him that you're enjoying it be gently and seductively biting his earlobe and gently digging your nails into his back. Groaning is acceptable too, it'll show him that you're enjoying yourself. Heavy breathing is just as good though. And if you're feeling REALLY brave, look him in the eye while he enters you.
If your outside, just lower your pants, but if you're indoors and alone with him, and you're not scared to, I don't see why you shouldn't take them right off. Baring in mind that he may think you're wanting sex.
Good luck my dear =]
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Hi all. I would like to know if girls would like a little break just after they have had an orgasm during love making, or if they dont mind to have the fun going on right away. Cheers! (link)
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You should feel able to ask her. So ask. She'll think it's brave of you.
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okay so.. in our youth group there's like 4 guys (it's a small youth group). but anyways, i've hooked up with one of the guys lets call him A. A liked me a lot i'm pretty sure and i kinda liked him back. then there's B. my best friend hooked up with B. they really liked each other and he wanted to ask her out but she didn't wanna go out with him. but anyways.. now B likes me. and he's gonna ask me out and he like got me this really pretty necklace and stuff (my friends told me this). my best friend says she doesn't care if i go out with him.. but he was her first hook up and i would feel bad. and also i don't really want to go out with him. but here's the question.. would it be wrong if i just hooked up with him? because he's a really great person and he's attractive and stuff but i just don't really want a relationship for the summer because there's a few other guys i'm interested in. but then again i don't know if i should because i don't want to be like the 'slut of the youth group' having hooked up with 2 of the guys. ya know? i'm mostly just worried about my best friend caring even though she says she doesn't. but here's the catch.. one of my other best friends has never made out before. so B told her he would hook up with her so she would get the experience. my other friend told her it was fine. so would it be ok if i hooked up with him too? she said it was but i still feel like she kinda likes him a little just because it was her first time and i dont know it just feels wrong.
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My god.
I really don't think that you should date one of your friends exes, especially as this 'B' would have been special to her being her first. You should be respectfull of her feelings if you're truely her friend. The only reason she's saying she's ok with it, is because she doesn't want to create tension between the two of you. You're her friend, and she wants you to be happy. You should realise that she's willing to be unhappy (to what extremes I don't know, as I'm not 100% aware of her feeling towards this), just for you, her friend, to be happy. That should show you just how much you mean to her. Are you willing to go with this guy knowing that could be a possibility? Because I definately wouldn't. It's happened to me, I know how it feels. You should take note that I never forgave the girl...
Friends before boys remember.
If you don't want a relationship with 'B' anyway, all you would achieve by going with him is something to brag about, while your friend is sitting heartbroken in the corner by your betrale, and give 'B' hopes of you becoming something more than the easy girl from the youth group that he got off with, when really, you're not interested. Nice.
Your other best friend should wait for somebody that she actually likes to have her first kiss with. Not somebody who offers, and is just up for an easy snog. My goodness, that's just fucking desperate.
Personally, all three of you girls should just forget about this 'B'. You, should focus on your friends rather than which bloke you're going to pull next. The girl who previously went out with B, who was her first, should learn to tell you her true feelings about situations, as she ought to trust you... and so, you must learn to be trustworthy. The girl longing for her first kiss, should focus on being happy, and stop looking for it to happen, just let it happen in time, no matter how long it takes and how frustrated she gets.
I'm sorry if some of this is harsh, but I truely wish you and your friends the best of luck.
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Im 18 he's 22 and my bosses son.
When were together were constntly flirting, but neither of us have ever mentioned how we feel, i know i like him and im sure he likes me. The problem is he's leaving town to start his new job as of monday. Tomorow i'm going to see him before he leaves so i can say goodbye and all.
All my friends all telling me i should kiss him when i tell him goodbye.
Should I?
Nothing big... dont wanna pounce on him.lol
I also dont want to leave things feeling wierd...
WHAT DO I DO?
PLZ ANSWER FAST! TAHNKS (link)
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I agree with the girl above. Smart girl. =]
That will create the opportunity for a kiss on the lips, if he wants to. And will also leave the opportunity, for him to leave things as they are already, if he doesn't feel the same way as you.
You give him a choice this way.
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I have been having sex for about 3 times now, not as in 3 rounds but as in 3 sequences.
Like, I wil have sex once and it will bleed VERY little and then, the second, third and the rest of the time would be fine. But why do I still bleed when I have lost my virginity 3 times AGO!?!
Please help me understand...
thanks in advance! :) (link)
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I've had sex about six or seven times, with the same guy of course... and I was lucky enough not to bleed my first time, or any time after that. But because there tended to be a long gap inbetween these, um 'sessions' haha (sorry, didn't know another word to use), I felt quite sore downstairs the morning after. But perhaps the reason you blead after the first time, is because you're not in the mood, or, from your previous experiences in bed, the sex hasn't lasted long and the guy hasn't been as far inside you as he could have been, so you haven't, previously, completely ripped the skin.
Just make sure that you have plenty of foreplay before hand, so that you're in the mood, and you're wide enough for him to get inside you without it hurting you, or causing you to bleed.
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Okay, So there is this Guy who I totally like. And I want to know if he likes me back. Here is how he acts.
1. Im the first girl on his top, And Pretty far up, on myspace.
2. Whenever he is online, He i/ms Me
3. He insults me alot Then Smiles
4. He always looks me in the eyes
5. In gym one day, I was sitting down and he sat really close to me and we spent the whole period talking.
6. He playfully punches me. Or slaps in me in the stomach or something.
7. Once In enlgish, My friend put her backpack in the seat next to mine, and he moved it and Put his stuff there and sat.
8. Another time in English, He was sitting in the back and I sat in the front and he moved his Stuff and Sat next to me.
9. Once, in the hall i was talking to my friend Shane about how Shane cameover my house once and The kid I like was right there, and he was like "I have never been to your housee!"
So Does he like me? Also, It seems like he's kind of flirting. So when he is Doing all of this, what do I do back? Thankss(: (link)
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Does he like you? Hell yeah =]
''hurting is flirting'' So when he playfully punches you, do it back, or if you're a girly girl, say something like ''Oh my god, that hurt, don't...'' with a coy smile and eye contact of course. You could also hold his gaze for longer than usual, for about 3 seconds say, and then smile, coyly, and look away. =P
If he wants to sit beside you, that could show protectiveness. He doesn't want any other guy anywhere near you. Everyone say 'aww'. =]
Insults and then a smile. Classic. He's trying to wind you up and hear you moan ;) haha Just joking. But be carefull that you don't take any of the insults seriously, it's just a way of holding your attention, and flirting. If you want to, you could always try and tease him by just stating that he's wrong and that you think the opposite. That'll kill him, and will end up making him want you even more. So when you can tell that he's getting all frustrated, just do the whole ''aw, I was just messing with you'' thing, while giving him a smile and a sensual rub on the arm hehe. He'll love you for it. =P
My god, you're dead lucky. =]
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15/f... if that helps?
lately it seems like i am losing my best friend.. she had liked this guy a lot for a long time and i knew for a fact that he liked her too, but he was too shy to ask her. i was friends with both of them so one day at a party i was sitting with the guy, lets call him BIll, and i was like SUZY [my friend] really likes you and i know for a fact that you like her so stop being stupid and just do something about it. needless to say, they ended up hooking up by the end of the night. it was all really good at first because it was good knowing that i helped them get together and they were both so happy. but now it seems like she has no time for me. me and my other best friend... me, suzy, and this other girl were all really close. well me and my other best friend, lets call her JAN, have noticed that she doesnt really hang out with us, and when she does she is very distant and always talking about BILL. i miss her so much and i just dont know what to do. everytime i call her and ask her to hang out she is always like well can BILL come. and i feel bad so i say yes, and then BILL ends up getting on my nerves majorly. i feel so crappy because it is my fault that they are together and i wish that i could be happy for my friend... but i just feel so left out.
i am sorry this is long, but i really just need some advice as to what to do. i keep telling myself that eventaully they will get sick of spending every second together, but it doesnt seem like that will ever happen. i dont know how much longer i can take him!
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well, i've gone through exactly the same thing! and i just told my friend i missed her! but if your not all that confident, then be subtle and ask her to stay at yours for a girly night in or something! then once she's at your house slip in to tthe conversation casually that you miss doing things just the two of you!!!!! x
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