I have this crush on this boy and then I found out that guy best friend had a crush on me. We're having a dance and my guy friend asked me to dance so I did and I saw my crush.. He was getting kind of antsy because he has a crush on me too. My crush tryed to ask me to dance but he is shy and chicken out after he saw me dance with my guy friend. I don't want to hurt my guy friends feelings or my crush's. I am starting to like my guy friends now too. I kind of like them both now, and i dont no what to do or which boy to choose for are next dance. What should I do or which boy should I choose?
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Alysonwillow, female, age 14
lucinders answered Thursday July 17 2008, 8:22 am: definitely your crush. if you and your guy friend really are friends, then he'll still be your fiend while you're with your crush. besides, if you've been friends with this guy and never liked him like that until you found out he liked you... maybe you don't really like him... go with your crush. [ lucinders's advice column | Ask lucinders A Question ]
whytewolf answered Thursday July 17 2008, 5:01 am: Ooh,tough one. Listen babe,friends are forever. If you think you and your guy friend will stay friends if you go after the other guy,then go for the other guy but don't do it if you'll lose your friend. Also I once heard best friends make the best mates because they already know so much about you. Your young though and that guy crush will probably be around but your friend may lose interest. I say try to clear it with your friend about the other guy first and if it doesn't work,you'll always have your friend to comfort you. [ whytewolf's advice column | Ask whytewolf A Question ]
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