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I have this crush on this boy and then I found out that guy best friend had a crush on me. We're having a dance and my guy friend asked me to dance so I did and I saw my crush.. He was getting kind of antsy because he has a crush on me too. My crush tryed to ask me to dance but he is shy and chicken out after he saw me dance with my guy friend. I don't want to hurt my guy friends feelings or my crush's. I am starting to like my guy friends now too. I kind of like them both now, and i dont no what to do or which boy to choose for are next dance. What should I do or which boy should I choose?
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Alysonwillow, female, age 14 (link)
Ooh,tough one. Listen babe,friends are forever. If you think you and your guy friend will stay friends if you go after the other guy,then go for the other guy but don't do it if you'll lose your friend. Also I once heard best friends make the best mates because they already know so much about you. Your young though and that guy crush will probably be around but your friend may lose interest. I say try to clear it with your friend about the other guy first and if it doesn't work,you'll always have your friend to comfort you.


Recently my boyfriend and I had sex and he felt like he was hitting something hard. Then i put my finger in my vaginia and i felt something hard to. And the next day when i went to wipe there was a bit of blood. What could this be that he is hitting (link)
Wat I think u had was just a build up of dried blood inside your vagina. Nothing to be worried about. Probably from your last period which may have been heavy. It'll go away and if it doesn't,u may wanna get checked


I need ideas for my boyfriend. I want to do something romantic and memorable. Im 19, he's 20.

When he was in high school, he had a hotel room. His prom date and him went there, he surprised her with the room and some food. He forgot "something" in the car and went back. When he came back into the room, she had his tux and tie on which was really "hott." So he found that to be memorable and romantic.

Sadly yes I asked about the story bc i wanted to hear it!

How do I top this?

Thanks in advance everyone, this means a lot! (link)
Ok. As a 20 year old guy myself,I must say,that is pretty "hott" as you put it but there is no way you can't top that. There are so many things you can do. It all depends on how outgoing you are. I say try this.....get yourselves a hotel room,tell him you want a night out by yourselves. When you get to the hotel room,tell him you forgot "something" and he needs to run to the store or car or watever. Make it as unobvious as possible. When he leaves,either throw on some sexy lingerie or a robe with nothing underneath. It'd also be nice to have a jacuzzi in the room. When he comes back,throw off the robe and tell him to just take you(guys like that). He'll definitely remember that night. U can be a lil more creative with it tho. Add toys,food,another girl. Whatever




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