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my ex has another gf


Question Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 6:59 pm

ok so me and my boyfriend broke-up only a month ago... i broke up with him.. but he already has a girlfriend...
its just irritating me and there like all over eachother at school. its annoying. i really truly dont have feeling for him, and like i dont want him back at all... but idk its just annoying and like i know 4 sure that theree bothe gonna have sex... and i dont know why it bothers me but it does... help?


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iieee answered Tuesday June 17 2008, 6:00 pm:
I'm sure you have a little bit of feelings left for him. If not, then you're upset over the simple idea that you maybe could have had that sort of relationship with him..

I mean I don't know why you broke up with him, but maybe it's because you guys didn't connect well? But I mean I think what you're feeling is envy. You're irritated because you wish that could have been you two. You wish it worked out the same way with you and him as it did with him and his new girlfriend.

It's just an assumption. But maybe thats how you feel.

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VeNzUeLa answered Sunday June 15 2008, 9:07 am:
You probably still have a little bit of feeling left for him, but don't worry, you can get rid of that EASILY! Just avoid him and the girl, avoid the places where they COULD be! Hang out with your friends, tell them you're sick of seeing the two groping each other. Don't talk to him though!! And he could be doing al this to make you jealous! Make it clear that you're NO where near jealousy and you really don't care! He probably still likes you!

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lucinders answered Sunday June 15 2008, 6:18 am:
i agree with xxxRadioGagaxxx. but i have a feeling she's just a rebound! don't worry about it. and you broke up with him, so he's probably just using her to get over you. and yeah either find a new uy or take a brake from guys and have fun with your friends.

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xxxRadioGagaxxx answered Saturday June 14 2008, 8:17 pm:
Sounds like you might still have a little thing for him...like a subconscious thing. I broke up with my bf a month ago too..And I know what that feels like. It's not jealousy..
But, if I were you, I'd stay as far away as possible from the both of them. Don't go around school looking for them. Just go to class. When you're walking, don't walk alone, just in case you see the both of them together and you get pissed off. Go with a group of friends (use your friends, they're there for you) Try to avoid the places you know they go to to make out or whatever. Whenever you DO, by chance, see them, focus your attention on something else. Best piece of advice though? Find an interest in someone else! I guarantee you won't be annoyed by them.
Also...be friendly to them if any of them start talking to you. You wouldn't wanna come off as jealous. Don't mind that they're gonna have sex. You wouldn't wanna do it with a guy who switches girlfriends faster than the speed of light anyway. Be glad you're saving up your virginity. :)

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