so im 13
and this dude is 15
we've been talking for a while now (few months)
and he asked me out last saturday over text.
i can never tell if someones serious over text so...
i said i wasnt sure.
and he hasnt talked about it since.
did he take it as a no?
(hes not the shy type at all.. so he'll basically talk about ANYTHING ad EVERYTHING)
so please help
guys have never been this confusing to me before.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? VeNzUeLa answered Sunday June 15 2008, 8:59 am: He probably took it more as a no, than a yes. And what you're feeling is TOTALLY normal, many girls feel that way, and what I usually do is, I tell them I'd like them to ask me out in person, than over texts because it feels more serious and real. Don't say it is because you don't know if HE is serious or not, he could take it the wrong way, like you don't trust him. Be open, since he is the open type. And bring it up when you see him, or whenever he texts.
thelaura answered Sunday June 15 2008, 7:42 am: Why wouldn't he be serious? That would be a cruel joke to play.
Txt him back and ask if he meant what he said last Saturday.. and go from there. :) [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
lucinders answered Sunday June 15 2008, 6:02 am: send him a text saying something like 'if you were really serious about me going out with you, then ask me in person' if he was serious, he'll ask you, and if not well, forget about it!
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