Hi my name is Elaine and i am hear to help you with your problems.
Any quewstions just ask anytime.
take care,
Elaine
E-mail: ely117@hotmail.com
Location: Ireland
Age: 16
Member Since: June 6, 2008
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I overdosed on cocaine 19 months ago, I had to go to the hospital, saw 2 doctors and a cardiologist, first they told me I had an irregular heartbeat and an enlarged heart, now they tell me that its not enlarged and my heartbeat is more regular. I've developed massive anxiety from the overdose, I always check my pulse and worry that my heart is going to stop or explode or something. EVERY single day for the past 19 months, I have been suffering from anxiety and mild to medium heart pains, I wouldn't quite say severe, though. I've come to rely on alcohol because it helps me forget about this. No one seems to really understand my problem for what it is, I think people think I'm faking it when I say I'm in pain. Its gotten so bad that many times that I'm offered to go out to dinner or hang out with friends, I'll decline, out of fear that I'll have a heart attack or a horrible panic attack while I'm in an unfamiliar surrounding. Suicide seems easier than living with this, but I don't actually have plans to commit suicide, they're just thoughts in my head. What should I do? Doctors can't pinpoint something with my heart, and I can't afford to keep going to the doctor or to get a therapist.. (link)
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dealing with anxiety can be hard but ask for support by your family and friends.
the thoughts of suicide is not the way to go about this, i know its hard but be strong you will get through this.
the pains that you are having could be nothing,
try to stay positive about this.
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usually i can talk real smooth to my girlfriends but lately i have been having problems thinking of things to talk about with them and, that usually means getting me dumped.
so i need some help thinking of things to say that wont annoy her or hurt her feelings
by the way we're both 13 (link)
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yous are 13 yous hav the rest off your life to live so dont be worrying about this jus talk about things that intrest you.
you can only be yourself and nobody is perfect.
yours truly,
Elaine
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lets say youre in this situation. (its also mine..)
from grade 1 to 9, you had nearly straight As. you were an overachiever. your parents were proud of you. stress never got to you.
in the 10th grade, you were SOO tired of always getting the straight As and the stress got to you so much, that you just completely let yourself go. you always felt like sleeping, you would go days without eating..and days where you ate too much. you never felt like doing homework anymore and felt the need to look at the mirror and look perfect for a boyfriend more than doing work in school. you've found that you're losing friends and your grades slip slowly...to a point where you're getting Cs instead of the As you thought you would get in certain subjects. you only do what is easy for you and you dont even study for tests. you finished the year off...normally. average. not as the overachiever straight A for final grade person you used to be.
would you think this is depression? why would this happen to a person who has never done bad in anything..? all of a sudden? it just doesnt make any sense to me! I'm slowly getting better and hopefully will get back on track by next year. But I don't know what happened to me. What would you think?
16/f. (link)
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well the first thing that came to my mind was 'did you talk about this sistuation to your parents and did you seek for help.
the best way to deal with this is to talk about it untill you feel back to your old self.
you should also think of this as a learning experience.
yours truly,
Elaine
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