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i love him, he loves her.
okay SO
i've known this guy since like 4th grade, right? and i've liked him on and off since then, and he says he's liked me on and off since then too.
last year we went out for a while, but i was a sucky girlfriend back then and never was able to go anywhere, so it didnt work out. a week later he got with my friend, which devastated me.
i ignored him for a few months, which was hard because he was still my friend, but it helped me to get over him.
about a month or two ago, he and this girl broke up, we started talking again, and he started confusing me like big time, acting like he liked me and saying he liked me, and his ex said he liked me & she would be okay with it if we went out, but at the same time he still acted like he liked her. THEN he apparently fell back in love with her and we're all good friends now, but im heartbroken. i thought this would be my 2nd chance, but i lost it.
i guess what i would like to know is, should i wait and see if maybe i could still get my chance with him, or just get over him?
i dont know if the last is possible... but i need to know if im totally insane for wanting him this badly, & if i need to back off since he's with my friend and all.
sorry this was long and confusing but any kind of advice on what i can do is much appreciated.
i'm 14/f, by the way.
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I would say it is more lust than love at your age.
This boy sounds like a complete idiot, and that he doesn't know what he wants, so he's playing the game.
Personally, I think you should be the better person and walk away from him.
Why should HE not give you the chance? It should be YOU not giving him the chance.
Listen to Leona Lewis - Best You Never Had and relate it to yourself.
You can do a lot better girl I'm sure :)
Xo
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well, for a start i don't believe in love at your age but, i think that for the sake off your and your friends friendship, you should both stay clear of him... i don't think you'll be able to get over him if your seeing him with your friend or if you wait for him to ask you... you need to forget about him, and tell you friend how you feel.
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Hi,
I think it's about time that you leave it alone. Unless he actually asks you out I think you should head for greener pastures I know it's going to be hard but it's not helping you to keep this up. He is with your friend. It sucks, I know but maybe you'll find someone else if you give yourself the chance. And if there ever comes the opportunity that you might get together one day then go for it. But until thin start living your life.
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