i just met this boy. (btw im 16, ive been on first dates before but i always screw them up. and recently i was in a serious long relationship so i CAN be normal around guys, haha, im pretty experienced) but anyway. he hasnt asked me on a date yet, he just asked to hang out. but im pretty sure he likes me. and i like him. so i dont know how to.. "hang out" should i be nice? i dont wanna be weird and too nice and ask too many questions. he's a skater. i don't wanna be too rude though. hes kinda shy around girls at first. and im like way shy at first but i open up eventually. i really dont wanna seem shy though. what are some things i could tell myself? and yeah. help!
Well first off, first dates are always awkward no matter how many times you've been on them, each one is usually different and unique, which is ultimately why they are called "first". =)
But to the question, the signs all point to you both liking each other. But one things i find that always makes first dates a little more comfortable is getting to know the person a little more first, meaning. Call him with the question when exactly you guys are supposed to hang out and what the plans are and usually things like that lead on to more conversation, and on that date/hang out you'll be a little more comfortable. If you talk to him on the phone, you'll progressively start to let your out-going self out as the conversation continues, meaning that when you hangout you'll be able to be who you really are and most likely so will he!
I hope I helped, send me a message of the outcome if you would, im anxious to know how it turns out for you. =)
stephienmattx2 answered Friday June 27 2008, 11:34 pm: Tell yourself you are a beautiful person and you like this guy... Pick on yourself when you are with him and do the same with him dont be mean or anything just be flity he will love it [ stephienmattx2's advice column | Ask stephienmattx2 A Question ]
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