during the school year my friends started to ditch me and talk about me and be horrible friends. as bad as they are i cant help wanting them back when theyre gone and i always feel like a loner. how can i get over them and move on
DefinedEyes answered Saturday June 21 2008, 12:16 pm: Well they are not worth being your friends are they? If they hurt your feelings, and ditch you, they aren't the type of people you want to associate yourself with. Try making new friends, and I know that is so much easier SAID than actually done. I assume you're in middle school, which is a difficult place to make friends. Because middle school is the queen of cliques. You're almost in highschool, and believe me when I tell you; it gets better. Try joining clubs, like book club, or going to summer camp, meet new friends, so you won't feel so lonely. It doesn't matter if you feel like a loner, its okay! To move on, just realize that you are a better person then they are. Realize you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. Remember.. "The only way to have a friend, is to be one" - Ralph Waldo Emerson [ DefinedEyes's advice column | Ask DefinedEyes A Question ]
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