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how to tell him
okay ssooo i have a boyfriend, but i just would really like more from his side and i feel like im pulling all the wieght forward. i know that he likes me a lot, but he has a problem showing it and i just need to know how to talk to him about it. thanks
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i guy who really likes you alot wouldn't have a problem showing it. it's time for the two of you to have a talk about the give and takes in a relationship. tell him exactly what you've said here "i would really like more from [your] side. i feel like i'm pulling all the weight foward."
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so..let me guess this fact straight..you know he likes you a lot.....yet.... he doesn't show it enough...
Honey..lets remember..it's a man. ALL men have different ways of truly showing there affection..some show it by..sadly violence and others jealousy or just talking sweetly to there lady etc. Your man def has a different form of showing how much he cares..But also think about this..if he didn't care..would he still be with you? Would he call you and kiss you and hug you..i mean he does kiss you and hug you right? If he does then BOOM thats another way of showing that he cares :)
maybe..your pulling the weight TOO much.. and it's not balanced.. Relax..try to not worry about how he should show more care for you..instead try to look through the ways of which he ALREADY has shown that he cares for you and STILL does.
I bet girl.. it's really hard to stay relaxed and just observing him without really talking to him :P but you gotta take chances.
After taking a couple notes down on how he possibly shows that he DOES care. Talk to him after. Just tell him that you care.Then tell him how you sadly worrying that it's not that same case with him. and if because you already know that he likes you a lot then he should be surprised and should deny the fact of him not caring right away :D
GOOD LUCK
and remember never use these advices or suggestions to actually make you decision for you..No one knows you any better other than yourself. So only use these advices and suggestion to help you make the right decision for you :D
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Best of luck
-serenity
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i believe the best way is communication... try sitting him down or take him somewhere just the two of you can talk openly, and tell him how you feel... is he shy? is he laid back? tell him everything..maybe you feel like you have to call him, go see him, hear from him, as if you're doing all the work...which is sometimes common in guys... especially if theyre new to the relationship scene.. just talk to him... your feelings are important too...see what he says...if he wants to change then great! and if he doesnt, then its not even worth it, youre wasting your time mama. good luck!!
flirty :)
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