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friend ruined chances


Question Posted Tuesday June 3 2008, 4:30 pm

I’m Katy…
Okayyy…so there’s this guy
And I’ve been talking to him..and were friends
And I flirt with him sometimes b/c he’s cute
Well I’ve know him for a good 4 weeks about
And my friend came over one day
Well I was on aim talking to him and everything was good
Till I went to the bathroom
While I was gone
She was talking to him and asking questions
Like what’s your last name…how tall are you
Then she goes are you single?
Then he’s like that’s a lil informal is’nt it
Then she’s like I was just wonderin
Then he’s like yes I am….are you lookin??
Then she’s like oh you know katy is too
And he’s like oo I did’nt know that
(but the way he wrote it i'm not sure if it's like an awkward reply..or if he's intrested)
Then she’s like well know you do
Then he’s like won’t she be mad that you said that
And she’s like yea but don’t tell her
Well I came back and found out
I mad at her for doing that
B/c I’m not fully sure if I like him
But idk what to do
Like I think he’s gonna think I’m weird now…and it’s gonna be awkward but idk
And the next day I sent him a message saying don’t pay attention to her…she doesn’t know what she’s doing
He never replied
So now I’m freaking out and don’t know what to do…


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pinkers answered Tuesday June 3 2008, 7:36 pm:
Okay i wouldn't be mad at her.... she was just trying to help and it's not that big of a deal. If you need to just send him an email saying that was totally my friend, and idk how i really feel about you, she was just pushing things. and tell him you odn't want it to be awkward and stuff. or whenever you talk just act like it never happened and do the same stuff. I seriously don't think he thinks its htat big of a deal, he is probably just busy or didn't want to talkto you at the time because of her. It will blow over, something like this should definitely not ruin your chances with a guy,, all she did was ask if he is single then say that you are too. Just give her a break is my advice and try talking to him again. but if he doesn't answer don't overwhelm him.

hope i helped
pinkerss

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Alyshashi answered Tuesday June 3 2008, 7:24 pm:
Just chillax. XD First off, he probably thinks it's uber-cute that you like him. Your friend wasn't trying to ruin your chances, she honestly thought she was helping-give her a break!!

And I am sure he didn't have the chance to reply back. Just act completely normal and don't bring it up ever again with him

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freetobetina answered Tuesday June 3 2008, 6:42 pm:
:P your overreacting. he prbabaly didnt get the chance to answerr yet if it hasnt been dat long. it dependsz on how you sent him a message. email...it is possible but if itsz sumthing like im or text then...idk. but you shouldnt be mad at her for it i think she was just trying to help you get him and she was just playing around, lol. so yeah wait a while, he might like you and see how everything turns out. I am always open for questions. good luck with stuff and look on the bright side.

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