My best friend who i used to like lies to me and blows me off half the time. Today during school i asked her to hang out and she told me she had to clean her house. Later on i went to the carnival in town and i see her there. Everytime i look in her direction she hides from me, i look over and she hides behind her friendsor turns around. Why does she do this?
adviceforyouux answered Friday June 6 2008, 2:17 pm: I understand your problem, this has happened to everyone sometime. It doesn't sound like your 'best friend' is acting like a good friend to you. The reason she may be avoiding you is because there is a problem between you guys and you might not even know what caused it. Your best bet would be to talk to her and ask whats up, if you guys never talk you will never know why shes avoiding you. I know this may hurt, but maybe shes ready to grow apart and doesn't know how to tell you. I hope you guys can talk and work things out! Hope I helped you! [ adviceforyouux's advice column | Ask adviceforyouux A Question ]
venom_97 answered Thursday June 5 2008, 3:27 pm: You are her best friend, but is she your best friend? It doesn't sound like it. Sounds like she is tired of you and that you may be kind of worrisome to her in her eyesight. You will never know until you ask her what the problem is. Don't make assumptions, and please don't think that I was. I am only telling you what I think. It is very juvenile and childish to not openly say what's on your mind. [ venom_97's advice column | Ask venom_97 A Question ]
freetobetina answered Thursday June 5 2008, 9:35 am: i dont think she likes you very much. she probably is avoiding you and doesnt want to have anything to do with you but she doesnt want to say it because she doesnt want to cause any fights or anything or hurt you, but the thing is, it actually hurts more being confused and not knowing. what you should do is sit her down and tell her to tell you what is going on and y she is avoiding you, since it is making you very confused and hurt. i bet youd rather know what shes actually feeling than not knowing right? hope it works out and keep in mind im always here to answer your questions. [ freetobetina's advice column | Ask freetobetina A Question ]
Ask_G answered Wednesday June 4 2008, 11:03 pm: it depends, maybe if you did something wrong and she is afraid to talk to you about it, or maybe she just wants to grow apart from you..
mention the situation to her and how it hurts you, and then give her some space and hang out with other friends.
if she wants your friendship she will be mature and talk to you about whatever is bothering her.
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