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dont finger myself...
16/f. i have never fingered myself or any of that kinda stuff. like the furthest ive gone is makeout and being felt up. like i get the urge and stuff when im with hot guys, and they make me go crazy! haha but i never really feel the need to alone. like all my friends do..even the ones who havent gone as far as me. when we talk about it there like you never do wow how weird! but i just dont need to haha. plus i think it might hurt..does it just feel like putting a tampon in kinda lol? i do get aroused with guys though =P is that extremely weird that i dont have the need to? should i like try or what..cuz it just seems weird that everyone does but me! thanks!
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There's nothing abnormal about you. You're still the weird kid you always were ;) It's normal to masturbate and normal not to. It's pretty much a universal thing though with teens. You can't hurt yourself doing it. I'm not a girl but I know it's safe to say it won't feel like putting a tampon in. You won't feel any pain either. If you did then something's wrong.
In fact, most girls or women don't penetrate themselves. They derive pleasure from clitoral stimulation. It's the only organ on a human body designed for pleasure and nothing else. There's nothing wrong without feeling the urge to masturbate or never wanting to do it in the past or now.
As for trying that's totally and completely up to you. Just know that nothing can go wrong physically with you and you can't get hurt unless you used a sharp or jagged object or something to that effect. If you want to try it go ahead if not than that's okay.
Do what feels comfortable for you.
Don't let your friends influence you for or against its not a case of missing out and you have to do it because they all do. This is your body and your comfort zone and decision.
Why do they it's weird that you haven't ever done it? Well, they probably think you're lying because them asking you was uncomfortable and most people don't openly talk about it. They probably haven't met many friends or girls who don't. It surprised them but they know also that some people do and some don't. It's normal either way.
In fact stats state that 70% of females do it and 90% of males of all ages. I hope this helps you see that you're A-okay no matter what. It also may be a good idea to ask them more about it if you're all that open about sex with each other. Ask them if it hurts etc. etc. It seems they're all open to sharing knowledge.
This is one area if they brought this topic up that you can approach them about rather than talking to a parent or counselor etc. over what's normal and okay.
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u see, not everybody masturbates, even if it does feel good to lots of people who do it. actually, some people have never masturbated for their whole life but they are normal. Well, it's your choice whether you want to try it or not. and fingering doesnt hurt if you just do it with one finger, but it might hurt with two. to be honest, if you dont feel the need to, you probably shouldnt. dont let peer pressure affect you!
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You do not have to do anything that you do not want to do. If you dont feel like it, thats fine. If you want to try it out, thats fine too.
I mean, you are obviously a normal girl, since you get aroused by guys and all that. There isnt any rule anywhere that says you must masturbate.
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