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If she doesn't like me then why is she still texting?


Question Posted Wednesday June 4 2008, 4:17 pm


I was drunk that night i text her and when i drink i come out of my shell and speak the truth about my self. so i text my friend letting her know that i still like her but want to get over her. we text for 7 hours about her confused sexuality and me trying to respect myself. but after i ask her "you dont like me more than a friend right?" she relpyed :"not as of now sorry i see you as a sister." what does she mean not as of now? and why she kept texting me after i ask her that question? i had to cut off the texting because i wanted to sleep i text "sorry i bug you i just want to get over you" she reply "its fine, i am okay with it" i hope she is okay that i want to get over her.

we know each other for 7 years, she is a touchy close person to me.
she doesnt want to have a relationship yet she wants to finish college.

i am bi sexual.


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Razhie answered Wednesday June 4 2008, 9:04 pm:
Stop torturing yourself.

Surely you've realized by now that your current approach these years of crushing isn't working.

Stop asking these question of us.
Stop asking these question of HER!

Nothing she says is going to help you move on. Silence and distance will help you.

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freetobetina answered Wednesday June 4 2008, 8:36 pm:
when she said "as of now" she meant right now. lol shes texting you after you asked that because she doesnt feel weirded out, which is good. you should be glad that she was pretty cool about it and that she didnt ignore your text messages. she probably is saying the truth about seeing you as a sister, since she was being pretty cool about it. dont worry she is okay with it. wish you luck. if you need any more advice for me, feel free, im always glad to help. so keep me in mind! :)

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