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I want to ask out this guy
See here goes I wanna ask out this guy lets call him benjamin. For safety sake. I really really like him but we have an amazing friendship I know he likes me but is afraid I dont like him back. I am afraid if we break up it will ruin this friendship. But i believe I am in love with him. Could you tell me how I can ask him out. And if I should do it. Thank you so much.
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I've learned a lot of things since I've been on this earth. Number one is life is short. If you like him, ask him. You know he likes you. I don't want to make it sound cut and dry but that's the info I have to go on.
Here's the truth... You're afraid if you break up it will ruin the friendship, but honestly... how do you know you wont have a falling out next week? Human emotions are fragile. But love is something you should never pass on.
Wait until you guys are alone with not much to do (it might be a long convo) and just tell him you have been having these feelings and ask him what he thinks. I bet he will agree. (If you want to set "ground rules" go ahead, but we all know that doesnt work when everything is new)
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He really should ask you out. I'm a guy, and I hate that, but it's true. So give him hints. Touch his shoulder when he makes you laugh. Let him catch you looking at you (DON'T STARE).Laugh at things he says that aren't really as funny as he thinks they are. Really try to let him know how you feel. This will not be easy. Men are idiots. If he's as dumb as me, you could be throwing yourself at him and he won't know. So after that start hinting at a date. Ask him what he's doing this weekend, tell him you're not doing anything. If he still doesn't get it, smack him on the head. With a kiss. Or just ask him if he likes you.
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