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Dont know what to do
This boy has been using me. and I confronted him that i dont want to be his rebound girl. He said that i wasnt and that everytime he says he loves me, that i always think we should date. Which, I dont. He said he doesnt want to go out with me, because if we ever broke up we wouldnt be best friends anymore and all. I also think that wouldnt be true. I mean, i like him and all, but i just cant help but give in. How do i not give in so easily? He said he couldnt bare us not talking and it would kill him. I love this guy to death, but i dont want to. I dont want to get hurt again. But then again, i would probaly do anything to go out with him. I dont know what to do. Please help?
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I'm a 17 year old male, and this is what I would do. I would tell your friend: If you truly love me the way you say you do, then you'll stop treating me this way. Your my best guy friend and I care about you so much, but not enough to the point at wich it hurts me. That's exactly what this relationship is doing to me....After that little dramatic speach, I would set some ground rules with him. He's your best friend, you should be able to tell him how you feel. I know it's going to be hard, maybe even the hardest thing you've ever done, but it's something you have to do. If your truly finished getting hurt by him, then you'll confront him on this issue. Otherwise you might want to get some more band-aids for your heart, because it'll most likly get hurt again. Sorry this isn't the best advice, but it's something I've done, and probably will do again. I hope this helps. Much Luck. :^)
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