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multiple crushes
kk
15/m
i have trouble talking to girls and i'm having friends over friday, and i know this may be a bit odd but i have about 4 crushes right now, at least 1 of which will be at a gathering i'm having friday sooo...yea my questions are...:
1) any advice on talking to girls? i always get nervous and end up saying something stupid...
2) any advice on making a move? it is rather possible i might be able to do so...
thanks a lot dudes and dudettes
McC
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well... i would pick a crush first. no girls like when there are other girls involved.
be yourself! i know its hard. breathe a bit before you begin the convo.
arm around. when you two are sitting together or standing up. dont grab her either, just lightly place ur arm around her. if she doesnt like it she'll move away
good luck!
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est way to do this is to be yourself and as hard as this sounds try not to be nervous practice what you will say in front of a mirror. A lot of people do this. Maybe catch her by herself strike up conversation like so how do you like the party? after her answer you could say, Maybe we could hang out sometime. The best solution is to go for it once you start talking your nerves will stop.if the conversation keeps going ask her do you have a boyfriend hang out for awhile that night if the conversation keeps going thats when you make your move. Good Luck :-)
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I used to be nervous when talking to boys when i was younger and i used to cut conversations short to save myself from the embarassment but u can do it. act like youre talking to a family member or a teacher or a boy friend and it should relax you.when shes talking to you, look into her eyes and nod and smile in all the right places and she will feel like your an understanding person. try to make her laugh. be relaxed and dont think of it as such a big thing. ask her questions about...people you both know, what shes doing over the weekend. if you get stuck for something to say. tell her ur going to do something and yourll be back soon. get a drink, calm yourself then go back. good luck x
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Alot of guys get nervouse when they talk to the opposite sex so don't feel like your the only one with this trouble. Pertaining to your first question: Strike up a conversation with her, let her do alot of the talking, listen to her, talk about her, about the latest movie, interesting things about you, how much you like or dislike certain classes or school in general, what you want to be when you grow up, what your summer plans are...There are thousands of possibilites, but the main thing to remember is just be yourself, if your fake and she ends up falling for you, then she's falling for the fake you, see what I'm sayin'. About your second question, I probably wouldn't make a move on a girl you barely know, I think that that might just push her away. Get to know the girl very well, become friends, then close friends, and then let things take care of itself. And when you do make your move, make it someplace romantic(when you two are star gazing or something of that nature, not behind a fast food place next to a dumpster or something.)Another thing to remember is to take it slow, you don't want to kiss the girls face off on the first date or anything. Just let things take their course, and good luck on your party!:)
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