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im a 15 yr old female.
Ok so theres this guy I met at my school.
and weve been talking and everything and he seems like a really nice guy and everything, but im scared of liking him to much or giving him a chance cause i dont want to get hurt. With pretty much all my last relationships the guys have fucked me over pretty bad, and im tired of it. I just want to be with a good guy who wont hurt me. But how do I know if this guys any different?
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Ive been in the same situation. My past relationships all crushed me and i was very scared of getting hurt again so i would put off any serious relationship with anyone. but then after a while i realised you have to take risks and whatever doesnt kill you makes you stronger.so now im with this guy who is absolutely adorable and im makng sure that im not falling for him too quickly and im going to be more in control than i have been in the past to protect myself more. the thing is you cant expect relationships at such a young age to be the fairy-tale-type or even very long lasting. everybody gets hurt through love dont let it ruin your life so young, give this guy a chance.try to figure him out slowly.
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15/m
i have trouble talking to girls and i'm having friends over friday, and i know this may be a bit odd but i have about 4 crushes right now, at least 1 of which will be at a gathering i'm having friday sooo...yea my questions are...:
1) any advice on talking to girls? i always get nervous and end up saying something stupid...
2) any advice on making a move? it is rather possible i might be able to do so...
thanks a lot dudes and dudettes
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I used to be nervous when talking to boys when i was younger and i used to cut conversations short to save myself from the embarassment but u can do it. act like youre talking to a family member or a teacher or a boy friend and it should relax you.when shes talking to you, look into her eyes and nod and smile in all the right places and she will feel like your an understanding person. try to make her laugh. be relaxed and dont think of it as such a big thing. ask her questions about...people you both know, what shes doing over the weekend. if you get stuck for something to say. tell her ur going to do something and yourll be back soon. get a drink, calm yourself then go back. good luck x
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Ryt well..i have liked this lad (andy) for about a year..i use to be with him but only for a bit and the we finished..but ever since we finished i still liked him..even thought i loved him. I had other bfs after him, one called arron. I was whith him for a while and then we broke up and about 2 weeks after we finished he text me saying he misses me and he me loves ect. But at the time i didnt want to get back with him, so nothing happened. Then about a week ago i got back with andy, which at firt i was really chuffed about but know i just dont seem to want to be with him :S which is confusing considering i liked him for so long! All i can think about now though is arron! i really miss him! i dont know what made me start feeling like this i just did :S What do i do ? tell arron how i feel ? do i finish with andy and risk missing him aswell :S? Please help :(! x x (link)
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It doesnt seem fair to stay someone when you are thinking of someone else. Maybe it qould be best for you to finish it with andy and take some time to realise exactly what you want before jumping into a relationship which you may end up regretting because somebody will end up bein hurt. discover how u really feel first and dont keep andy hanging onto to something that is only one-sided..its not fair x
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