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Question Posted Wednesday May 30 2007, 2:20 pm

Ryt well..i have liked this lad (andy) for about a year..i use to be with him but only for a bit and the we finished..but ever since we finished i still liked him..even thought i loved him. I had other bfs after him, one called arron. I was whith him for a while and then we broke up and about 2 weeks after we finished he text me saying he misses me and he me loves ect. But at the time i didnt want to get back with him, so nothing happened. Then about a week ago i got back with andy, which at firt i was really chuffed about but know i just dont seem to want to be with him :S which is confusing considering i liked him for so long! All i can think about now though is arron! i really miss him! i dont know what made me start feeling like this i just did :S What do i do ? tell arron how i feel ? do i finish with andy and risk missing him aswell :S? Please help :(! x x

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YoungAndInLove answered Thursday May 31 2007, 9:28 am:
It doesnt seem fair to stay someone when you are thinking of someone else. Maybe it qould be best for you to finish it with andy and take some time to realise exactly what you want before jumping into a relationship which you may end up regretting because somebody will end up bein hurt. discover how u really feel first and dont keep andy hanging onto to something that is only one-sided..its not fair x

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228gurl answered Wednesday May 30 2007, 3:30 pm:
why don't you try taking a few days maybe a week off from both of them and decided who you want to be with. Perhaps its a case of having your cake and eating it too. You get one and you think about the other. This is normal. Make a list of pros and cons on both get two sheets of paper write andy on 1 write Arron on the other write everything you like and dislike about each on their sheet of paper maybe that will help good luck :-)

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