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He asked me "DON'T ask".........
My friend is going through a tough time for hie relationship. He was telling me how difficult the situation is the other day, and all the sudden, he said, "on the top of that, something else happened to me..........." but he doen't want to tell me what the "something" is, and asked me not to ask him either......
Now, all I can think about is what the "something" is!! What should I do? he asked me not to ask him, but why he told me "something" happened to him, but don't want me to ask??
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hay
he probably isnt ready to talk about this "something" that happened to him yet so just let him be. i think he will tell you when he is ready to talk about it, he probablly wants to tell you but doesnt know how.
xoxo sally
hay again wasnt sure where to right back to you...
so anyways i think the best thing you can do right now is to just try and show him that your there for him and he's not alone.. if it gets really bad and he still doesnt want to talk to you about this something then maybe he should see a counciller b'cos this something sounds really bad... even though he might not want to.
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maybe its nothing too important or maybe its embarassing for him to tell. if you really must know, just ask. if hes your friend he should open up to you.
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if he ever decides to share this thought with you it will have to be on his terms and when he is ready if you pressure him he will not tell you any sooner Good Luck
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be all "why tell me if you dont want me to ask" the thing is, he DOES want you to ask, and just wants a lill attention. afta that, i say you slap the guy for being an attention seeker:)
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