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how do i get my mind off him?!?
sorry this is so long. ok. im 14/F. i am in love with my best guy friend, i'll call him trevor. i have beein in love with him for about 8 months. he is aware of this. (not from my own doing though.) the main problem is that he is my ex-bf's best friend. i was friends with trevor way before my ex even met him and decided he was his best friend. anyways, i dont think he likes or loves me as anything more than a sister, although everyone else thinks he does. its impossible to tell what his actions mean because we are so close as it is. even if he did like me, i dont think he would ever go out with me because of my ex, who i'll call brendan. brendan still loves me, we had a very serious relationship awhile back. he gets upset when he sees trevor and i talking, and has told trevor he doesnt care if he hangs out with me, as long as trevor doesnt talk to me when hes around. trevor usually complies with this. but brendan's ALWAYS around. he tries to be very possessive of me. basically, i need to know how to get my min doff him. i would do just about anything to be w him. i would do just about anything for him. i need advice on how to get over him, or keep my mind off him. i dont know what to do.
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We.. it sounds like you have a wee bit of , Ill try to help as best possible. One thing to do to get the boy from stop being around you, is by simply ignoring him. You see, when you get angry at him after he picks on you, then hell just continue to it again and again. He does this because he has a crush on you(that’s’ what is sounds like to me) Because the reason why boys pick on girls is because that boy is able to capture the girls attention for the few seconds he actually gets you attention. If you react to him teasing you, or just not leaving you alone, then ignore him, He’ll go away eventually.(At least we hope he does)
How to get him out of your head, well, you can always be prductive. No I’m not talking about cleaning the house, I’m talking about reading a good book, paint, work on doing the splits, threre are thousands of this you can do to keep your mind off of him. And if he still doen’t leave you alone, just simply tell him how you feel. Sometimes being blunt is the easiest way to give someone bad news. Anyway, I hope this helps. Good Luck! :)
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do something. be active and hang with your girl friends. dont just sit around because if you then you'll start to think of your situation. dont avoid them, just hang out with them less. nothings wrong with putting their call on hold=) hehehe. do something at school and get involved in something fun and interesting. or give other people advice. it will get your mind off your problem and help others with theirs. (thats what i do sometimes) =)
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