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ay;pi'd say i'm good at givin advice ,but to be honest like eveyone here thinks that they're good .i take my answers pretty seriously .most of the time the reasons my answers are right is because i've been there and done it twice .im not the average teenage girl giving advice either .im a fabulous ,trash-talking ,one of a kind ,jealous ,confident ,dramatic ,beautiful ,crazy ,funny ,creative ,tv watchin ,outspoken and blunt chica;D .so i answer all private questions and ignore ratings
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i just heard of mastrabating this year. every time i mastrabate i become itchy down there for the next two-three days, so im thinking of stopping to mastrabate. is there a reason i get ithcy? Is there a way to solve this problem?
Aw sweetie MASTERBATING is confusing at first and can be intimadating and just embarassing even if its just you .well it could be that you're doing it wrong (and yes there is a wrong way to do it) .maybe you scratched yourself with your nails or maybe an infection (not an STD) .since I don't know your age or gender or what you actually do, I'd suggest stopping for a few days if you're still itching until you feel normal again, and google "how to masterbate" on google.
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So long story short, i did something i shouldnt have dont to my best friend. and now her and my closest friends either hate me, wont talk to me, or are not as close as they used to be. my old best friend has a new best friend too. ive tried a couple of times to say sorry and make things right but they already seem to be used to everything with out me. i really miss them but it would be hard for all of us to be together again and the truth is i dont feel like i have any other friends that would accept me as well as they did.
so should i just leave it and try to find a new group of friends or keep trying to make it better?
You should do both .try harder to apologize and really make an effort .if things just aren't working then move on .whatever you did to make them leave was the mistake and you hurt them bad enough to loose them .you can try to make it better but no promises .so make new friends, which is always a good thing .you may have relied on your friends so much that you feel like it will be hard to get new ones .well it really isn't .just find someone and be nice and funny and be whatever you think they like .you've made friends before you can do it again.
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i have this really good guy friend who i really like. but i want him to love me back! i dont know how he feels but we talk about our relationships with pased bf or gf with each other. i feel like i NEED TO KNOW!!!
Well you honestly can't tell if someone loves you unless they tell you .and with so little information you gave ,there's like no way to tell .but just because you talk to him and you realy realy like him, does not automatically mean he loves you .I've been in your situation too .when you feel like you love a boy and you tell youself there's hope and the slightest smile in your direction or the smallest bit of small talk makes your heart tell you your brain to shut the hell up .time and patience and the good TLC is all you can do.
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hi i've gotten tattoos before but not in really painful areas ie. stomach. i really wanna get a big piece on my ribs. i know that will hurt alot. alot of people told me take stuff to make the pain not so painful. i know not to drink before cause if a company smells liqour on you they cant tattoo u and alcohol thins the blood. i've heard that nyquil works really well with numbing the pain. i cant find any websites that subport that. and i was wondering if you knew if that was true.
Its fine to take something to numb the pain (just don't OD). My mom got a tattoo on the lower part of her stomach and she's REAL sensitive. So she tool a cpouple advil and I think some numbing creme from a surgery she had? (Ask the tattooist first before adding creme becuase that will get into the blood stream)
A good place for tattoo stories is www.bmezine.com scroll down till you get to tattoos.
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So my boyfriends 18th birthday is coming up soon and I'm not to sure on what to get him this year. We've been together almost two years and I'm stuck on what to get him this time. He told me something unique and special.
he's into:
*TV series
*things from his childhood (power rangers, ninja turtles)
*working out
*country music
*being a guy basically
Yeah everybodys goin on that little phase. Its adorablle.
What I would do is make him alittle gift basket. Such as:
A cute basket filled with his favorite tv series, a teddy bear or something (throw in a little somethin about you), some little kid toys that he like maybe some action figures haha (don't get him stuff thats too kiddy like coloring books), if he wears acceriies with his clothes then throw in some of that, and maybe a shirt or 2 from his favorite store. Top it all off with a card handmade by you. And when he unwrapps it all, explain each thing to him.
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hi so my mum saw some girls clothes in my room and thinks i have been wareing them (i have not worn them they are my gf's she left here) what do i do or say to my mum
Thanks People
That's halarious sweetie!
I can so picture this on some tv show :p
Just tell her the truth and that you were tempted but you like your own clothes just fine ;) (just kidding obviously)
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one time in school i had to hold my boyfriends hand and i did when my friends were around and my face turned red! but i didn't feel embarressed and usually when i do, i feel my face turn red, and i start getting hot. and i get a red face even when im supossed to present a project in school, but sometimes my face doesn't get red! and i like that better. So maybe if someone knows a way that i can not make my face turn red when im with my boyfriend and infront of the class?!?! i would appreciate that!
Well when you get embarassed blood rushes to your face (that's why you feel it getting warm). If he's your boyfriend then you really shouldn't be feeling so embarassed. He should be like your best friend. But if this does happen try staying more calmer let it go and stop feeling so uptight and don't focus on the surroundings. Maybe try counting in your mind? You can try this when you have stage fright to.its like walking, take it one step at a time. And I've been there before when the frinds make you do something with your boyfriend. Tell them to screw them and get your own loll. But if they do tell them that if they were such good boy/girlfriends then they shoulld havve been spending more time with them then worrying about you cuz your just fine :). Something that MAY work (and I'm just throwing this out) is maybe put some more powder on. Not to much but just a coat that flatters your look and lessons the red color.
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i got this bathing suit and its made of 100% cotton. problem is, the top is a little too loose. is there anything i can do to shrink it a little? thanks!
Get it altered by the local dry-cleaners. But if the don't alter, ask them of any tailors in the area. Or you can check the phonebook.
17/f. ok so my best friend and i have went to this club a couple times. the last time we went was a week ago, and i had just broken up with my boyfriend [18] of 4 months 3 days before. we met these two guys, and the one i danced with is now interested in me. both me and my friend exchanged numbers with these guys, and have been talking ever since, just through myspace and text, though. this guy really likes me, and wants to hangout & go to eat and whatever. he's a nice guy, and sure, going to eat would be fun. however, the [ex]-boyfriend and i are talking again, and trying to work through our problems so we can be happy again. but technically, im still single. i feel kinda bad, because this guy does like me alot, and he's fun to hang out with, but i just dont want to lead him on or anything if my boyfriend & i end up back together. what should i do? would going to eat with him [plus my friend and the other guy] be a bad idea? not to mention, he lives an hour away from me, and doesn't have a car, so a relationship would either a) not work or b) be VERY stressful mostly on me since i have the car & we all know how gas prices are these days or 3) be basically long distance which i dont want. any help?
Ok so it sounds like you like your ex a lot better. But its ok to work things out with him and still occasionally go out with this other guy (but if you do end up together you would probabally need to yell him about future dates with this guy explaining that your just friends). If you really liked this other guy then gas and long distance relationships wouldn't matter that much. Think about it: if the other guy was chris brown or orlando bloom or whoever hot celebrity or super cute guy you've always like, gas and long distance relationship wouldn't have even crossed your mind. If your serious about getting back with your ex then you need to tell this guy and explain that you just want to be friends. Because if you don't and you end up not telling him and going out with him AND you ex then you'll have all this unwanted drama and people will get hurt and the world will come to an end and yada yada yada. Bad idea.
why doesnt he care anymore?
Posted Saturday June 28 2008, 7:15 pm
so i dated this guy for a year and a half on and off....the only reason we broke up was because i moved away and we barely saw eachother...well he start doin things that i never thought he would do. he start smoking and drinking and gettin high alll the time... then we kinda just fell apart and started dating other people ,but even though we were both dating other people he made it clear he still loved me , and i was the only girl he loved...and that his new girlfriend was just a crush, but anyways he heard from my x boyfirend that i did all these horrible things wit him, which was not true. but like an idiot when he asked me, i didnt deny it. and now he is acting all in love wit his new girlfriend and he doesnt even wanna speak to me anymore,...my question is... do u really think he is over me...or do u think we will get back together on day?/
Yes he probablly is. You just hurt him. Your mistake was not denying the accusations, which I think was really stupid of you. So you should tell him that those things were not true. Followed by a reason why you lied because he probabally won't believe you. Its been so long since you went out and even though he said he loves you he might not love you the way you love him, or as seriously. No one can predict the future so you2 could get back together, but there's also a chance that you won't. Think about, after all this time you haven't gotten back together and you made the chances even worse so I wouldn't get your chances to high. But miracles do happen sweetie and if its meant to be then it will work out =)
17/F At work, I recently gained a lot more confidence in what I was doing and made myself a very useful employee who was pleasant to be around. Now, there is a girl my age who is new and I find myself questioning my position a bit. I mean, I made friends with her and she's really sweet, but I need to just go about my day without feeling insecure...any advice?
You must feel threatened. Especially if she's one of those petite, cute, and bubbly type os girls. I say to just ignore her but still be nice. Its not like since she's there your going to become a mean old lady. No, you'll still be you and a pleasure to be around. Keep your confidence becuase I know its hard to get and can make you feel hopeless if you lose it.
ive been dating this guy for 1 month we broke up , over stupid stuff...his x girlfriends are physco ..one try ;d to fight me and the other just completely jelous... and he is goin out wit his x, the jelous one but my bestfriend who lives 2 doors down from him told me that he told her that he doesnt really like her, and that she asked him out and he didnt wanna hurt her feelings and he said yes... and she asked him did he still like me and he told her yea...
but he wont get back wit me idk why? so what do i do?
To tell the truth I don't think you can do anything.
You could try actually getting him alone and telling him that you want to get back together but its not certain that he would go back out with you. If he was like in love with you or really really liked you then he wouldn't have broken up with you in the first place over something stupid (or he wouldn't have let you go so easily if you broke up with him). Keep in mind that people can change who they like. If things continue with him not getting back with you then get it out of your mind. It might take awhile but there's no reason to like someone who won't go out with you. Don't try the whole making him jealous thing because that's like so juevenile and when does that seriously work anyway? But if he really likes you then he will ask you out again. Just give him some time.
i'm really irregular like the last time i got my period was two summers ago so tht means im not like ovulating so i cant get preg can i?
I like the girls advice below btw.
Ok first of all, that is a pretty long time so you should see a doctor. When I first got my period they were very irregular. Like 3x the first year. My mom talked to the doctor and she said that it is normal for a girl's body to take time to adjust to the changes. So the periods would be very strange but after awhile they will go to normal. I have never heard of a full 2 years of non-period bliss so ask about it (don't consider youself lucky that you haven't had it for awhile). I have heard that some medications could do stuff like delay your periods.
I would say that you probally still could get pregnant.
I'm 16/f and I'm half black half white and my hair is annoyingly difficult to work with. It's naturally curly and I like to use a flat iron to make it straight. However no matter if it's straight or curly it always puffs and it's really annoying. I've tried just about everything and curly or not it always turns into a big mess. Does anyone know what would keep my hair from puffing?
Anything will help,
MG
I know exaclty how you feel because I used to be going through the same thing, and I have that black and white hair. I don't agree with the persons advice below about the shampoo though. Im not sure how to answer about the curls either because I am still trying to figure that out (we all want those beautiful watered down curls but lets face it, not all types of hair can do it sadly). But for the straightening: it usalually all in the straightner you use, instead of the cheap-o walmart brand that aren't that good, I reccomend using a more proffessional straightener. If you don't know whats professional (don't always trust the ones that say "like the proffessionals use" erc.) Go to a salon that treats hair like yours and ask about their straightners (you might get the "you're damaging your hair speech" but whatever I do it and so do models and other celebrities). Get some nice heat resistence spray too though. If you get a perm and you notice how straight your hair comes out (its not all relaxer that does it) ask where they got their straightener and spray (because im sure you noticed a little spray action back there). I don't reccomend you doing your own perms because that's dangerous.
for cheerleading..i know they give you the underwear things for under the skirt..but are you supposed to were your own like regular underwear under them?
Yes. The shorts they give you goes on over your underwear under your skirt so noone sees your underwear when you do your jumps or stunts.
Andrew/14/Male:I want to make my girlfriend feel special but were not yet old enough for sex. Also i don't make alot of money. What should i do?
Every once in awhile you should bring some cheap ballons and candy or a big teddy bear to school for her. That will make girls jealous and think why can't their boyfriends do that you know. Pllus a girl loves that kind of thing. If your going for something more subtle, you should go over to walmart and get a really cute gold locket for very cheap. 30$ dollars or less. But you don't have a whole lot of money at all, by a single red or pink rose at a gas station real cheap and surprise her with it. Attach a cute little note to it even. Since its real cheap, small and loving, you should do it a lot. =)
My best friend just broke up with her boyfriend.
He and I are also really good friends. Lately, he has been flirting around with me (while they were still dating). I do like him but I know that it would never work between us because we are so different. But he is gonna ask me out soon and I'm not sure if I sould say yes and just have a little fun or if I sould say no, and if so how am I'm going to do that because he really does like me. If we do date we are going to get into a lot of trouble together.
Oh yeah, I'm a 17 year old female and he is a 21 year old male.
Is your friend truly over him? Ask her about it. Its good that you're thinking that far away but is he worth it? How big of trouble would you really get in. If your friend is honesrly over him then I say go for it. Just make sure you understand your limits and try not to get so sucked into to trouble that you can't think for yourself and yada yada. Since he is an adult you need to be extra safe. Remember that you have control of your own decisions and if you don't feel comfortable then you can always leave him. You're in control.
Wel...there is dis boy and today he gave me a hug three times right and he is in the same lunch as i am in and he grabbed my hand and we hugged and e swayed form back and forth and we hugged for a long time and then we was in class me and him were talking and i he kept staring at me and im like are u spacing out??? And he was like no its dat your maadddd sexy and i w waz like ok and he kept saying it and I dont know if he likes me he i sda sweetest boy i have ever met IN my entire life he is so sweet and we have mad stuff in common so i dont know if he likes me becuase he treats me differently then all his other female friends????
Duhh girl! Is he fine as hell? Then you better get on that haha. See what he wants. Talk to him and say "hey boo, I noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you to," you know what I mean. But fo real you need to step up your game and see if he wants to get with you or he's just frontin. But yeah, he likes you.
okay so there is this guy that i like.he goes to the same school as me.a bunch of people know that i like him.he shows alot of body language that says he likes me ,but i think he is shy.i am also shy as well.see the problem?
my best friend talked to him and asked if he liked me and said that he said no.and she also said that he said that he has a gf.what should i do? do i move on and go out with this other guy who i know likes me and has asked me out? or should i keep liking him?
Move on. He doesn't like you in that way. He has a girlfriend. I don't think it woulld be smart to start drama between him and his life. Go out with this other guy. Even if he was shy he should have shown an interest in you even if he was shy. Unless he that mysterious laid back "too cool for school im just gonna get high" type of boy. Don't stick your nose where it doesn't belong. Sorry but that's how life is. N9ot every guy you meet is going to like you back.
i've been with my boyfriend for 4yrs and we lived together for 3yrs.6mnths ago he moved out of state.he wanted me to come with him,but i had some commitments that i just couldn't leave.since then we've been having lots of problems,we even broke up and got back together.i feel like am the only one trying to make this work because for some reason he's soo relaxed about this whole thing.now i think moving to him will actually save this relationship,but am afraid he wouldn't want me to move since he's enjoying he's indepency and am the only one making this work.should i move??
It kinda depends on how big the commitment is sweetie. I know moving out of state is stressful. But would it really be worth it. You said you have already broken up once and he doesn't seem to be making too much of an effort to get you to move. Maybe this isn't meant to be? There a reason for everything. Try and remember that. You need to find out what's best for you and put yourself first before anyone else. This is your life and can't always change it back to the way it was. It might be hard to let him go. Givve a few more days of thought ask your friends how they feel. Think about it. Your life is here and you want to move out of state with this man. Think about jobs, money, starting over... is this what you want?