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My best friend's ex wants to date me!
My best friend just broke up with her boyfriend.
He and I are also really good friends. Lately, he has been flirting around with me (while they were still dating). I do like him but I know that it would never work between us because we are so different. But he is gonna ask me out soon and I'm not sure if I sould say yes and just have a little fun or if I sould say no, and if so how am I'm going to do that because he really does like me. If we do date we are going to get into a lot of trouble together.
Oh yeah, I'm a 17 year old female and he is a 21 year old male.
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have you ever heard of the age old code known to man and or woman.......the code specificly states your not to date, sleep with, and kiss your bestfriend(s) ex- boyfriend or current boyfriend or to any blood relative..... ok i think you should ask your bff if she's okay with you still talking to her ex and if she says yes thats a bluff dont take yes as a true yes no shes pissed your even considering going out with him ...sooo i think you should cut all string with her ex if you still want to have a bff and if he does ask you out say i could'nt hurt my bff even if she is over you and no ill rather just BE FRIENDS xoxox GOSSIPBABE
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Is your friend truly over him? Ask her about it. Its good that you're thinking that far away but is he worth it? How big of trouble would you really get in. If your friend is honesrly over him then I say go for it. Just make sure you understand your limits and try not to get so sucked into to trouble that you can't think for yourself and yada yada. Since he is an adult you need to be extra safe. Remember that you have control of your own decisions and if you don't feel comfortable then you can always leave him. You're in control.
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