My names Jessica.
I like to give advice and help people, its apart of who I am. So if you have a problem or need advice, you can ask me. I won't judge you or over re-act. I'll just help the best I can.
Ive gone though alot and im sure alot of the things you need help on, ive been there.
So if you need help with anything i'm here.
Website: Go Ask Jessica.
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Age: 16
AIM: xhop3lessdr3amsx
Member Since: June 1, 2007
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Theres this guy who's reallly cute. Im not going to say i like him, because i dont, but I wanna flirt with him more and get him to wanna talk to me and stuff. I dont see him that much, but when i do i flirt with him like crazy. He does it back but neither of us has been like "can i get your number?" is there anything i can do to make him wanna ask me out on a date, or ask me my number? flirty tips, or just conversation tips would be greatly appreciated! thankss (link)
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just like ask him if he wants to hang out or something, and if he wants to, be like can i have your number.
or if you have a myspace and he does too
you could start talking to him on that and eventually get his number by bringing the subject up
or just ask for it right away on there so it wont be so awkward.
ya know.
hope i helped.
-jess
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My mother is really annoying. First off, she asks me to get something for her, though I tried, it didn't work. So I tried later, this time - without her reminding me. So I gave it to her expecting her to be proud of me because she didn't remind me and I did it... SHE DIDN'T. So I was a bit put off and was a bit sour because of it, and she blames me of GIVING HER ATTITUDE! SHE YELLED AT ME FOR SUCH A LONG TIME, AND NOW SHE'S GIVING ME THE SILENT TREATMENT. I really need advice to put up with her bullshit. Please help. (link)
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well me and my mom get like that all the time, and it makes me feel like nothing I do is right for her. ya know. But ive learned to try to not to get upset about it and just blow it off and forget. I just let her sit there and yell, and if i have something to say then i say it kind of nicely so she doesnt get more upset.
But maybe she was having a bad day, or on her period, or maybe depending on how old she is, she could be going through mentapose(how ever you spell it)
Just try and tell her how you feel about it and everything when shes in a good mood or calmed down.
hope i helped
-jess
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i hear girls saying they masturbate, how do girls masturbate?
how do guys finger you?
if you have a boyfriend in a long distance relationship, and you only see him everyone 2 months or sumthin, would he feel you up? i mean, when will guys feel you up? (link)
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girls can masterbate by fingering them selves, which is when they take there fingers and stick it up there pussy. or they can use a vibrater or dildo.
and guys finger the same way i explained it up there they use there fingers and yeah.
if the boys ready and everything he can feel you up when ever he sees you. a guy will usually feel you up if you tell him you want him too or your ready and everything.
hope i helped
jess
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i've been having sex with my boyfriend for about 2 months now. we dont have sex everytime we see eachother so we have sex maybe once a week. Im just confused because when we start it hurts but then it goes right away after that. why does it still hurt? (link)
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because during the time yall havnt had sex
your pussy like kinda closes up a LITTLE bit.
theres other scientifical words for it but i dont know them
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i really want to put the song "FEELING THIS" by blink 182 on my myspace! i can't find it int he music choices though. can anyone find it on Myspace Music? help me puh-leease! (link)
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maybe if you try putting the song name in the search thing
or maybe spell blink 182 different ways.
or you can just get a imeem play box thing
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so i know this is weird but like what does everything mean...
like i have done 4 hits
i call back door
what are the types of weed and how strong are they?
and how much can i do and wont be considered a pot head.. haha i am a fourteen year old girl by the way. (link)
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4 hits means like they taken 4 tokes like smoked it in 4 times.
and back door is i think the next person if your in rotation.
there are alot of different types of weed
theres chronic, purple haze, hydro ect.
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i love it when this boy plays hard to get but when i can have him i dont want him AT ALL
why?! (link)
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because when you have him it doesnt feel the same as when you have to work for it and try to get him.
or you just like change your mind about it.
i used to be the same way.
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ok so my old pc broke and all my itunes stuff is there. my nano only charges is i have itunes. this computer im using doesnt have itunes. i was wondering if i download itunes with no songs in it then plug my ipod, will it still charge? and will it wipe out all my songs? (link)
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it should still charge.
my ipod can charge even if the computer doesnt have itunes.
but yeah it will charge and it shouldnt take your songs off unless you click something telling it too
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well.. i aint really done one of these before.. but here i go..
i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now.. but i have only known him for at least 4 months.. before i started talking to him.. i never knew him or spoke to im before. but neway.
for some reason. when im with him. i aint myself around him. im not shy like in the bedroom or anything. but normally im a happy person and full of energy. but when im with him. i just sit there looking sad a and borin.. he says he thinks im normal. but im different wen im with my friends. i dont no how to be myself aorund him. i keep gettin scared that he is gonna end it. i dont no y but i do. and i dont no weva thats y i cant b myself around him. coz im scared of loosin him. i need advice on how to b myself. and be more fun to be with?? (link)
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yeah i know what you mean, cause thats kinda how i am with my boyfriend. but what he told me is to be myself no matter what and be comfortable around him.
but what you should do is just be your self, and if he doesnt like you when your being yourself, then hes a dick and you shouldnt stand for that.
you know what im mean.
and if he really likes you and everything he wont break up with you for acting your self, he probably wants you to be your self.
hope i helped.
-jess
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So basically my boyfriend treats me amazing well in every way. I was just wondering what are some good tips and hints to give him like the most amazing bj everrrr. Thanks! (link)
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lol well alot of guys like it when you suck it with your lips tight. and kinda squezze it with them but not to hard. so it feels like hes being jacked off or having sex.
and go up and down fast. then switch from that to like jacking him off a little bit then suck it again.
well hope i could help.
-jess
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I need a song thats about a girl who is still in love with a boy who broke up with her which is stopping her from going any further with another guy.
Thanks (link)
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i cant really think of any right now
but maybe
because of you
by kelly clarkson.
or
anything
by cherry monroe
if i can think of more ill let you know
-jess
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whats the best love song you know?
Not a crummy old one but one that kids would listen to today (link)
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the one i like isnt that old maybe a couple years but its reallly good
its called
ill be by edwin mcCain.
theres ALOT more i know to
but what kind of love song are you looking for?
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need advice on the relationship that i have at the moment i am inlove with someone who has a kid with another man & the relationship between the is not working & my girlfriend still have feeling for the father of her son. iam 26 years old & i am from Botswana (link)
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the women your with has had a kid with someone, so shes always gonna have some kind of feeling for him. because hes part of her kid.
but that doesnt mean she doesnt love you or wants to be with you, cause if shes with you right now she does wanna be with you.
not him.
im in this kind of thing right now just not with a kid. but my boyfriend has feelings for one of his first loves, and im learning to deal with it.
and im learning that he may have feelings for his first love, but that doesnt mean he doesnt wanna be with me.
ya know.
you just gotta have faith.
hope i could help
-jess
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should i test a week before my period or wait and see if it is late?? i'm only 16 and i am really scared.. (link)
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you can test a week before your period but sometimes the answers not always true.
what i would do is buy the test that has 2 of them in there and take one a week before your period and one after, if you skip it.
but you can still have your period even if you are pregnet. for like the first month
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does anyone know what bumps growing on skull and cause headaches might be? They grow slowly and are becoming more painful. they are round pea and dime size. When I press on them they hurt and put pressure on my head, sometimes on other side of head. Hair is thining too. (link)
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it could be some kind of knot from hitting your head.
or it could be a tumor or something.
you should really go to the doctor and get it checked.
cause it could be serious.
what is the history of your family like?
let me know
-jess
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Me and my boyfriend had sex twice. On June 17th , we had sex with a condom on and he cummed inside a little, but we onyl had sex for like 10 mintes. The second time we had sex was, on June 30th it was only 5 minutes and he didn't cum at all and we used a condom. But now , lately I haven't been feeling well at all and im stressed because I don't know if I'm pregnant or not.. So, in your opinion do you think im pregnant? What are some signs of pregnancy? (link)
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you could be pregnet but if you used condoms both times then i doubt it, but theres still chances.
but some of the signs are
nausia
breast tenderness
wierd food cravings
tiredness
skipped periods
sensitive smells
swollen
and those are some of them.
hope i could help
tell me how it goes
-jess
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my boyfriend and i had sex and he ejeculated a lot ON my vagina. not in it..but could i still get pregnant? please help me out.. (link)
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yeah there could be a possibility that you can be. because when the sperms come out they swim. and if they swam far enough then yeah you coud be pregnet. i never got pregnet when sperm has came on my vagina or in it. but everyones different
so maybe wait a month and take a test from the stores.
let me know how it goes.
-jess
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*i didn't know what castagory this was*
i can't remember...
is a french kiss the same as making out with a guy?
thnx =] (link)
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yeah its the same thing
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People say everyone deserves a second chance, but what if you never had a first chance?
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its hard to understand what you mean by that.
but its impossible to now have a first chance,first.
but i need to know the story about why you asked that to be able to help.
so like reply back some how.
-jess
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How many times did you try on a tampon before you could actually get it in and use it? And how old were you at th time?
I already tried two times but it didn't work well and my friend told me that I might as well give up cuz it's not my thing then. (link)
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when i first started my period i used pads
then when i had it the next month
i decided to use tampons, and i had no clue how to put them in.
they would always be hanging half way out.
and hurt like hell.
i went through 2 boxes of tampons untill i found the paper of instructions on how to do it.
but if your having trouble i can tell you how to use them if you dont know how.
if your using the plastic kind of tampon then you take it and put it all the up your vagina until the little stick is hanging out there the string is, then you push that stick in and make the cotton thing go in, then you pull the plastic out. and throw it away.
ha hope i could help.
-jess
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