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Last Update: June 8, 2007
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I'm 5'4 and I weigh 109. I wouldn't consider myself fat but I don't have a flat stomach. When i sit down it is huge! I naturally have a really small frame i wear like anywhere from 00-0 in pant sizes. I just need to do some ab workouts. Hopefully it wont be too hard to achieve. Since it is summer I want to get a nice flat stomach so i look good in a bikini. Any ideas or pointers to how i should approach this and what to do? (link)
several things:
when anyone sits down, their stomach is huge.
109 is very tiny, including compared to me, and i am 4 inches shorter than you.
most girls would kill to wear size 0.



Do guys enjoy doing second base/going up a girl's shirt/etc? Or do they do it to try and please the girl? Because I personally don't get anything out of it, so is it for the guy's sake? (link)
well maybe you're not in the right mindset. relax a bit. if you're with a guy you love, and relaxed, you should get something out of it

but like the last guy said, sometimes it depends on what he does. tell him what feels the best

try those. personally i wouldnt know, ive actually orgasmed from it before.
good luck!


15/f. tomorrow after school i'm going out with a bunch of friends, but then we are all going back to someone's house to swim. So my question is, is there anything i can do or eat that will keep me thin throughout the day so i look good in my bathing suit?

in the morning when i wake up i am really thin. but after i eat my stomach kind've "expands". so is there any special tips that i can do to keep my stomach flat? or what are some foods that will guaruntee me to stay thin and not to expand?

i am going to school, so i can't just skip lunch or anything. oh and please don't be like they're your friends, they don't care how thin you are, i know that. its just that i want to look my best since a lot of guys will be there. thanks sooo much! (link)
don't stuff! keep eating to a minimum. but make sure you DO eat something healthy or else you'll look all tired. and trust me, that wont attract the boys.


well. that boy i was talking about.
all the people that gave me adivce said, "ask him out"
and well hes a really quiet, untalkitive boy.
how do i ask him? when and how? (link)
good idea, pass him a note. ask him to a movie and see how things go! movies are good for quiet people because you really don't have to talk at all.


15/m
alrighty so here's the deal

my girlfriend and i will have been together for three months next saturday, which is kind of a big deal for us, and i really want to do something that she'll remember for a long time. also, she's leaving the next day to go to duke for three weeks, so i want to do something fun but nothing too expensive. .

thing is, i have no idea what that thing should be.

i'm not sure if i should get her something either. i'd already planned on writing her somewhat of a love letter type thing, but i don't know if i should get her anything else. i'm kinda low on cash, too. . .

thanks for any and all help

peace out (link)
here's what my boyfriend did:
we went to a nearby park (everyone likes the park idea hah) and he brought a camera and we took silly/cute/funny pictures for like an hour. its fun and you have great memories! then you can walk around for a bit.
as someone else said the note idea is good enough. if you do the taking pictures idea and the note then your girlfriend will be thrilled.




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