i have this really good guy friend who i really like. but i want him to love me back! i dont know how he feels but we talk about our relationships with pased bf or gf with each other. i feel like i NEED TO KNOW!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? CheerCandi answered Saturday July 5 2008, 4:36 pm: Well you honestly can't tell if someone loves you unless they tell you .and with so little information you gave ,there's like no way to tell .but just because you talk to him and you realy realy like him, does not automatically mean he loves you .I've been in your situation too .when you feel like you love a boy and you tell youself there's hope and the slightest smile in your direction or the smallest bit of small talk makes your heart tell you your brain to shut the hell up .time and patience and the good TLC is all you can do.
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I'm going to give you a list of what guys tend to do when they like girls:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
If you like this guy- and he does all or most of those things- my best bet is that he does like you. That means one and only one thing: Ask him to make sure, and then try the relationship out. Who knows- it could be great!
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