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how to let him down before he gets his hopes up.
17/f. ok so my best friend and i have went to this club a couple times. the last time we went was a week ago, and i had just broken up with my boyfriend [18] of 4 months 3 days before. we met these two guys, and the one i danced with is now interested in me. both me and my friend exchanged numbers with these guys, and have been talking ever since, just through myspace and text, though. this guy really likes me, and wants to hangout & go to eat and whatever. he's a nice guy, and sure, going to eat would be fun. however, the [ex]-boyfriend and i are talking again, and trying to work through our problems so we can be happy again. but technically, im still single. i feel kinda bad, because this guy does like me alot, and he's fun to hang out with, but i just dont want to lead him on or anything if my boyfriend & i end up back together. what should i do? would going to eat with him [plus my friend and the other guy] be a bad idea? not to mention, he lives an hour away from me, and doesn't have a car, so a relationship would either a) not work or b) be VERY stressful mostly on me since i have the car & we all know how gas prices are these days or 3) be basically long distance which i dont want. any help?
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Ok so it sounds like you like your ex a lot better. But its ok to work things out with him and still occasionally go out with this other guy (but if you do end up together you would probabally need to yell him about future dates with this guy explaining that your just friends). If you really liked this other guy then gas and long distance relationships wouldn't matter that much. Think about it: if the other guy was chris brown or orlando bloom or whoever hot celebrity or super cute guy you've always like, gas and long distance relationship wouldn't have even crossed your mind. If your serious about getting back with your ex then you need to tell this guy and explain that you just want to be friends. Because if you don't and you end up not telling him and going out with him AND you ex then you'll have all this unwanted drama and people will get hurt and the world will come to an end and yada yada yada. Bad idea.
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you should go out to eat with them but make it clear that you see him as a friend, say something to him like if he compliments you be like aw your such a good friend, that might get the message across then maybe when you are out to eat something that reminds you of your ex will come out and if you bring him up that might make him get that you are still interested in your ex. If he doesnt get the point you might have to be harsh and tell him its not going to work out
good luck
hope i helped
<3leanna
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