Q: i don't understand how to give head.
never done it.
think its really gross, but i just want to know how.
what do you do?
does it taste bad?

Q: I met this guy a few days ago. Basically, I already know he's a player, and I KNOW I'm being played, but I can't stop myself from being attracted to him. I KNOW he's said the same things to other girls because he dated my best friend. He is so OBVIOUSLY a player, but I can't help it! I know he's just trying to get with me. He even knows I have a boyfriend and doesn't care. He keeps saying it isn't cheating if we're not married because he read that somewhere. Help! How do I stop this sudden attraction before it gets worse? Why do I like him so much?

Q: f/14
okay so basically, i used to have a perfect life, then my parents got divorced and my dad went and got his new girlfriend pregnant so now i have a baby brother. none of that is my problem though, that's just backround info. so one day i decided to just experiment and cut myself. from then on, im a completley different person. i am addicted to cutting and im never happy everyone in my life found out my problems and ive been to therapy so much its discusting. the only person i tell anyone anything is my best friend. her parents are alcoholics and she has the worst anxiety and bi-polar ever but her parents don't care. every day i pray and pray that i will die because i hate everything and i'm never happy. i've tried multiple times to commit suicide but have not been succesful. my best friend doesn't do anything bad, then the other night she told me she cut herself. if it wasnt for me she would never have done it, and im bulimic and she made herself throw up. i feel like im ruining everything. everyone is so stressed about me they dont have time for anything and i dont even want it. i want to die so badly its sickening. i know how to kill myself for real but i know i cant do it because theres still a part of me that's scared, scared of leaving and what people will do and what will happen. idk what to do i hate being here but i dont know where to turn anymore. every day i get worse and worse and no one even knows or cares. the world would be so much better without me so why should i even stay?

Q: 17/f

Well, I asked a similar question not too long ago, but I have done some research & come up with a more specific question. A guy that I don`t know very well likes me (it`s just obvious) & we have hung out twice - note: we know eachother from classes at school, but hadn`t talked for a long time. The first time we hung out was on the beach at night (just us) and the other time watching a movie alone in my room. Quite 'close' situations I suppose.

I have been reading a bit about "friends with benefits" (no intention of having sex with him, ever) and "romantic friendships" (male/female, not same sex). It`s summer and I wouldn`t mind some combination of those two concepts. However, I was advised earlier that this may 'break his heart' - we hardly know eachother, I`d certainly hope that he doesn`t like me THAT much.

I have decided that communication will be important since I must be sending awfully mixed signals to him. How can I bring up the topic that I am starting to like him but am not looking for a serious relationship? His past relationships have been quite long (over a year, times two?) so I don`t know if he`d even feel comfortable with that idea.

I will be seeing him on Monday again but I`m not sure if that`s even an appropriate time to begin talking seriously about things. I want my intentions to be known sooner than later though so there isn`t any confusion. Thanks for the insight! =)

Q: I'm going to a sweet sixteen tomorrow and I dont know anyone (except for the bday girl)!!! what do i doo?! I know i should be outgoing and all... but i dont want to be like weird about it...

yahh. help please!?!

Q: i have literially all of the symtoms of pregnancy yet i havtn had sex and never have.I got fingered 2 weeks ago i really dont know what to do iv missed nearly 2 periods. If i was pregnant then i would deffinatly have an obortion without my parents knowing but what are the effects of this? also do you taske a pill for it? and its over with?

Q: 17/f. ok so my best friend and i have went to this club a couple times. the last time we went was a week ago, and i had just broken up with my boyfriend [18] of 4 months 3 days before. we met these two guys, and the one i danced with is now interested in me. both me and my friend exchanged numbers with these guys, and have been talking ever since, just through myspace and text, though. this guy really likes me, and wants to hangout & go to eat and whatever. he's a nice guy, and sure, going to eat would be fun. however, the [ex]-boyfriend and i are talking again, and trying to work through our problems so we can be happy again. but technically, im still single. i feel kinda bad, because this guy does like me alot, and he's fun to hang out with, but i just dont want to lead him on or anything if my boyfriend & i end up back together. what should i do? would going to eat with him [plus my friend and the other guy] be a bad idea? not to mention, he lives an hour away from me, and doesn't have a car, so a relationship would either a) not work or b) be VERY stressful mostly on me since i have the car & we all know how gas prices are these days or 3) be basically long distance which i dont want. any help?

Q: I'm 14 and I've always been really shy. When I was little, I hardly ever talked to anyone outside my family until I was 7 or 8 years old. Now it's not as bad but I'm still shy. I know it's because I have really low self esteem and I'm always afraid of what other people will think of me. I don't know what to do. How can I stop being shy?

Q: i am 14 years old, and about two months ago i lost my verginity to my 17 year old boyfriend. we werent even going out for 2 months yet, and we didnt even know eachother for 3 months. but we were both vergins and i know he really wanted to lose his verginity. and it was prom night, so it was kind of expected. i wanted to have sex with him, but i never wanted to become who my friends are who lost their verginities at 12 and 13. there is something seriously wrong with my town where girls thing its okay to have sex in junior high, and i know its not wrong. i dont feel like i was pressured into sex but i feel like i wanted to wait and now theres no turning back. and me and my boyfriend are incredibly close and i know we'll be together for the rest of my high school and i honestly want to grow with him into a family when we get older but i just dont know if i feel right about this.. like when im a parent, and my kids ask me when i first had it, im going to have to say 14 and im going to have to live forever knowing that i was a little slut. and im so worried that im going to like emotionally break down because i worry too much about this.. i dont know what to do, should iu stop having sex with him? even though theres no turning back, and i do enjoy it.? i just dont know. and i absolutly cannot talk to my mom about it. she believes in sex after marriage and expects me to stick with it. and she would deffinitely dig a hole and burry me in it if she found out.. please help

Q: How do I get over a boy who was my first love & ripped my heart out by text & on aim he yelled at me & said WE R OVER finished byby!? I just cant get over it. And the weird thing is is that i wanted to break up with him weeks ago but, i couldnt find the heart & then he shocks me & said " listen there's no easy way of saying this but i want to break up with u" thats low. HOWW? & the worst part is is that he is going to summer camp with me. He also told me he loves me still but yet broke up with me. I NEED SERIOUS HELP! Our anniversey is 4-22-08 ( i know its short but we liked eachother for 2 years ) anyways every where i look the number 22 is there i just cant get over him & i am loosing precious beauty sleep over this. (: I dont know why i still love him. I hate that i love him. Some days i just sit on the couch listening to Me & his song eating cookie dough crying. i am being a female dog to my family cus of this. I had a dream that he was my first kiss too. i just cant!!!

Q: So this guy I was going out with during Summer 06 just reconnected with me about a week ago. It was really random, but we just started talking about how we used to be so close two years before, although he has a girlfriend.
And he said, "I think I'm going to break up with her. I really like you. I want to be with you."
But then he decided he wanted to stay with her. I was basically led on, and I don't know how he feels anymore but he has a girlfriend when he told me he liked me still. I don't know what to do or where I stand, I already explained to him how I felt and it wasn't fair, and he just said he was sorry about it but there was nothing he could do. It's tough, bc he won't talk to me the same anymore.
I don't really know what to do. Should I give up on him or what?

Q: 16/f
Hi! Well I hate that I am so shy the first time I meet someone. Whenever I meet someone for the first time I am ridiculously shy especially when its a cute guy, and I don't really know why because once I know the person I am COMPLETE opposite! Its hard for me to approach a guy that I think is cute the first time I see him, like everyone i guess i get nervous, but i'm just tired of that. Many of my friends can just go up to a guy and say 'hi, i'm so and so blah blahh' but i just cant. I guess my problem is like a lot of other girls i'm afraid of rejection and I am self conscious. with the whole self conscious thing the problem is when i want to approach a cute guy, i get intimidated by other girls in the room who i think are better than me and i start to think, why would this guy want to talk/dance with me when he could talk to all these other better girls. and really im not normally this self conscious its just when im around guys im first meeting, thats why i cant figure out why im so shy. please help me find a way to become confident! THANKS!

Q: 15/f
my parents are so strict,
i dont know what to do to change it.
i got 2 a's on my report card and the rest b's and tehre mad. they dont want me to have a bf cause im "too young", even though everyone else has one. and the other day i couldnt sleepover at my friends cause my mom didnt know her, except fro teh fact she saw her late at night with guys.
they suspect i go out and drink, or they think i hang around wtih people that do(but they do)but they know im responsible, like they dont trust me at all! like they dont want me to drink at all, even thought i KNOW they did when they were my age. there so strict and its not like they just get over it, like if i had a boyfriend theyd go tell all my aunts uncles and there friends, so its pretty intimidating too. i dont know what to do cuase its not fair, i wanna go out and stuff but there so strict about everything like drinking, boys, and grades. i know theyre just watching out but still im 15 and i wanna have fun! and 2 a's and the rest b's isnt bad!


its driving me nuts and there pissing me off!
PLEASE HELPPPPPPP!!!

Q: My best friend hooked me and her boyfriend's friend up and we've been going out for a couple of days. Well, today, we had our first kiss. And now it feels like there are butterflies in my stomach and I have this really read feeling in my chest. Like electricity flowing through me. What does it mean? I mean, I don't think it is possible to love someone if you just started to date them, right? So what is that weird feeling?

Q: 15/f

I got my first boyfriend about a month a week ago. Hes super shy and I'm also his first girlfriend. Since its summer, and I knew we probably wouldn't see each other a lot, I decided to try and make plans so we could atleast hang out once a week. I have to make the plans. He doesn't. I have to call him. I have to text him. At first I was totaly okay with that because I really liked him and I was stoked he asked me out. But then I asked him if he wanted to go to the movies and he was all for it. Then later he sent me a text saying he had to go bowling with his family and couldn't go. So I was all okay, blow me off. its iight. so then i got talking to my best friend's boyfriend (he was practically the one who got us together) and he kept pushing me to call him, and so i did. but then his phone was off and we started talking again. I mentioned that I thought my boyfriend didn't really like me and he agreed. then I started talking to my best friend (his girlfriend) and she also agreed. So I don't know. I called again and left a voicemail this time saying we needed to talk. I know once school starts again, we'll be all good. But I don't know if we're going to last the summer. I really need to talk to him and see whats actually going on. Should I wait it out till school, or what? I wanted my first boyfriend to be someone I really liked, and he liked me. Not some random kid that I wasn't even friends with at first ask me out. So likee yeaah. Should I wait it out? Does he actually not like me or is he really that bad of a boyfriend?

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