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I know he's just a player
I met this guy a few days ago. Basically, I already know he's a player, and I KNOW I'm being played, but I can't stop myself from being attracted to him. I KNOW he's said the same things to other girls because he dated my best friend. He is so OBVIOUSLY a player, but I can't help it! I know he's just trying to get with me. He even knows I have a boyfriend and doesn't care. He keeps saying it isn't cheating if we're not married because he read that somewhere. Help! How do I stop this sudden attraction before it gets worse? Why do I like him so much?
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you've got to realize on your own that what he is doin is wrong,
you know you deserve better so dont settle for less.
you have a boyfriend , and if he treats you right you should focus on him not the player,,, boys come and go your whole life and thats one of lifes hardest lessons.and i had to find out the hard way..(more details message me) just think about how ugly he must be on the inside to be such a player,,and maybe that might help you to get over him...
chanel:)
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Ask yourself if you'd prefer to be with someone who has been treating you with respect, or if you'd like to continue chasing someone who's probably only in it for your goods.
The fact that you can openly admit that he's a player, and that you know he's no good is an achievement. Some girls become naive, and consider the fact that they may be treated differently. They won't.
This guy is doing this for one reason-- because he can. You're letting him, and you can't allow it to go too far. The fact that you're a challenge because you're unavailable is a turn on... and players will compete. The un-attainable are their favorite.
Keep this is mind-- and I hope it works out.
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You like him a lot because you know he is hard to get and your attracted to players, thats common, try and be hard to get to him, if you fall to hard it will take a LONG time to get back up trust me, dont ruin your relationship with your boyfriend because of him, stay away!
good luck
hope i helped
<3leanna
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