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He says he likes me, but he has a girlfriend.
So this guy I was going out with during Summer 06 just reconnected with me about a week ago. It was really random, but we just started talking about how we used to be so close two years before, although he has a girlfriend.
And he said, "I think I'm going to break up with her. I really like you. I want to be with you."
But then he decided he wanted to stay with her. I was basically led on, and I don't know how he feels anymore but he has a girlfriend when he told me he liked me still. I don't know what to do or where I stand, I already explained to him how I felt and it wasn't fair, and he just said he was sorry about it but there was nothing he could do. It's tough, bc he won't talk to me the same anymore.
I don't really know what to do. Should I give up on him or what?
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thats harsh, he shouldnt of led you on thats just wrong he was obviously either trying to play two girls, he thought he liked you but was attached to his girlfriend, or he was at the time fighting with his girlfriend, stay away from him if he still has a girlfriend because all that can turn out in a big mess, if hes single talk to him like a friend and talk to him about their relationship not like you care too much, if you still like him dont let him know because guys will use that to there advantage, tell me if you need anymore help, i tried helping you from what you said but if you have anymore information let me know
hope i helped
<3leanna
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Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!
If, he said "I think I'am going to break up with her". Then also, said that he liked you and wanted to be with you , but than just blew you off! I think
that is so WRONG! I'am sorry that he led you on like that.
If, you talked to him,(like you did)and all he
could say is "I'am sorry, and that their was nothing he can do". He, could of gave you a better answer than that! He could of made a
appropriate apology like this.
"I'am very sorry for leading you on and I hope
we can still hang out and be friends". You , would of liked that better than his uncaring apology! Also, if he don't talk to you anymore,
I think you should give up on him!He, is not worth
it, you can find another guy way better than him!
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)
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If he decided to stay with her, he must've had his reasons. I know you might not like it, but then is then and this is now. He's with his girlfriend NOW, and he's no longer with you. It's really not his fault, either. We all have those moments of, "Did I do the right thing?".
I'm sorry, but I think you should move on. It isn't fair to his girlfriend if you keep hanging around him when he chose to stay with her. I'm sure you can find somebody new who doesn't have a girlfriend and who won't lead you on.
I also think you should not bring it up with him anymore. If he won't talk to you the same way, it's probably because it makes him uneasy and uncomfortable. So, try to just be FRIENDS with him, and talk about other things.
-Laura. (16-f)
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Don't get involved. Plain and simple DON'T. He has no idea what he wants and is flip-flopping. He shouldn't be acting like this if he has a girlfriend. If he can't decide whether to break up with her or be with you than forget it.
You're going to get hurt severely if you don't move on. If he can't figure out who he likes without question than that means disaster for whomever he dates or tries to lead on.
Trust me, if he really wanted to be with you over her he would have done this already. He wants both of you or to stick with her as it's easier. I would forget about him completely and move on. I know that's advice you don't want to hear but he seems nothing but trouble and too confused.
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UM... if he has a girlfriend already and didn't break up with her, that means he isn't available for you, and it also means that you have to find your own man. You don't want anyone else's man girl! For what?! ALSO, if he did break up with her for you, what makes you think he wouldn't eventually break up with you for someone else, hell if not even her!? Real talk..
I understand that you don't know how he feels anymore but truth be told it doesn't even matter because it's just talk with no action - so, yes you should give up on him. first reason, he had a girlfriend when he told you he liked you. second reason, he has a girlfriend now. Third reason, he has led you on. Now, I think that he and his girlfriend were into it, and they were about to break up (which would make you a rebound chic in his eyes, which you aren't!!!), hooked up with you to try to get over his girlfriend OR to make her jealous, and then hooked back up with her and then dumped you. Anyway, this is how the bull shit starts off, so don't even go there and do that OK? Don't play the game with this dude or any other dudes- YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT..
GOOD LUCK!
Venom
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