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Date? First Time, Movie.
14/f im going on a movie date tonight, our first one acctual and I need tips :) whats cute, whats attractive. What would be an appropiate movie for us to see tonight. We've hung out alot so a kiss wouldnt be out of the question so all tips and advice would be great!!
And if anyone can relate, im kind of the pants in this relationship because sometimes hes more nervous and can be awkward because im his first. He doesnt always know like how to act in this relationship
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okay a few things...
1. WHAT TO WEAR(i'm not sure if this is what you meant by "whats attractive".. but i'll tell you anyways haha): just wear jeans and a cute shirt, maybe wear a little makeup (not too much. guys usually don't like girls that have a face full of makeup), don't dress up too much you don't want to make him feel underdressed, do something cute with your hair or maybe straighten it.. that always looks pretty on everyone
2. APPROPRIATE MOVIES: probably not a chick flick. at least not for your first date. most guys don't want to see these types of movies but if their girlfriend wants to they will deal with it. i just wouldn't choose one for your very first date. something funny or an action movie would probably be the best. try to agree on a movie so you're both happy.
3. WHERE TO SIT: back- if you want to kiss him a lot and you want him to KNOW it sit in the back. the back has more privacy. middle- this sends the message that holding hands is okay and maybe a little cuddling but probably not very much kissing. maybe a quick peck or two. front- this sends him the message that you DO NOT WANT TO KISS HIM. you are in the front (in front of everyone) and that would be pretty uncomfortable if everyone could see you kissing during the movie. make sure you send him the right signals by choosing where you want to sit. try to get to the movie early enough so it's not full by the time you get there.
4. BEING THE PANTS IN THE RELATIONSHIP: i know exactly how you feel. for 2 of my boyfriends, i was there first girlfriend. and for all of the guys i've hooked up with, i was their first also. this gives you a bigger responsiblity because you're the one that knows what's supposed to happen and he just kinda has to follow you. he probably wants to kiss you but he may be a little nervous. you need to give him signs that show him you want to kiss him. lean close to him during the movie. make sure you aren't turning your body away from him. look at him every so often. he will see it out of the corner of his eye and hopefully he will get the idea. he might be scared to do something like hold your hand. i know this does not sound fun (at least for me because i know that i like the guy to make the first move) but you should be the one to grab his hand. at least for the first time. on dates after this one he will probably get the idea. this is your first date so you just need to guide him a little.
GOOD LUCK :) have fun!
JOBROLOVER<33
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Hey there!
Ah I remember my first movie date with my ex-boyfriend (well obviously not ex when we went to the movies lol). Yes, I totally get what you're saying about having to be the one to make the move. That can be cute though, at least this way you know that he's not just hanging around to get some action.
Okay so basically, first movie date? Personally, on your first one, sit somewhere sort of in the middle of the theater so he doesn't get any ideas. Back means "I plan to attack this person and make out excessively". And there's nothing wrong with that, just not on a first date. Front means "No way babe. Everybody's watching". Which, clearly you don't want and I don't blame you. Middle means "Sure we can kiss and hold hands but not excessively". Middle is nice =]
Movies that are playing right now:
WALL-E (G)
Get Smart (PG-13)
The Love Guru (PG-13)
The Incredible Hulk (PG-13)
Kung Fu Panda (PG)
Indiana Jones (PG-13)
I recommend Get Smart. I saw a sneak preview of it last week and it was really funny. I think you and your boyfriend might enjoy it.
Above all, obviously have fun and enjoy yourselves. The key is to make yourselves comfortable. If you have to be the one to make a move for now, so be it. He'll warm up eventually. Just be sure not to put too much pressure on him (not saying you would) and you guys will be sure to have a great time.
Have fun!
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